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"home that he learns how to be a mother you know sometimes gay couples will come to me and I'll say um you know two gay men will come I'll say which one of you is going to be the mother now that may seem Politically Incorrect but someone's got to play that role you cannot have two fathers for a child a child needs a mother and a father if you're going to have two men then one of them has to play that sensitive empathic role the other has to play the playful tactial stimulation role same with two women who are raising children it's better to have a father and a mother than two mothers so which of you is going to be the dad which of you is going to rough house and play basketball and roll the rounds on the ground and tickle the baby and encourage exploration and risk taking and can't you both do half each like so couldn't no no and I'll tell you why it's very confusing to children they when parents say I'm both mother and father to my child I say no no is very confusing to children they need to have a mother figure and a father figure and I say that knowing today's politics and knowing today's social situation you can have a mother figure who's not a mother maybe it's a nanny maybe it's a grandmother you need a mother figure and you need that mother figure to be around a lot if that mother figure is the one who provides the sensitive empathic nurturing so some of this can be taught but it can't be taught unless you first acknowledge that there are differences if we cannot as a society acknowledge the Inconvenient Truth that men and women are different in terms of their nurturing behaviors then we can't teach anybody anything I'm looking at some stats here in front of me um on a graph"