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Matt LeMay spent 13 years as a music critic at Pitchfork before becoming one of product management’s most influential voices. He’s consulted with companies from startups to Fortune 500s and authored two essential PM books, including Impact-First Product Teams. After watching countless product teams get laid off despite “doing everything right,” he discovered a harsh truth: most PMs are optimizing for the wrong things. *In this conversation, you’ll learn:* 1. The one question that predicts if your team will survive the next layoffs (and why most teams can’t answer it) 2. Why following product “best practices” perfectly can actually accelerate your path to unemployment 3. The “low-impact PM death spiral”—how teams accidentally make themselves irrelevant 4. How to push back on executives without saying “no” (the options, plus a recommendation framework) 5. The counterintuitive reason why the happiest PMs are also the most commercially minded 6. The Liz Phair review that made Matt an internet villain for 22 years—and what it taught him about product management *Brought to you by:* Enterpret—Transform customer feedback into product growth: https://enterpret.com/lenny Pragmatic Institute—Industry‑recognized product, marketing, and AI training & certifications: https://pragmaticinstitute.com/lenny Claude.ai—The AI for problem solvers and enterprise: http://claude.ai/ *Transcript:* https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/the-one-question-that-saves-product-careers-matt-lemay *My biggest takeaways (for paid newsletter subscribers):* https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/i/168109376/my-biggest-takeaways-from-this-conversation *Where to find Matt LeMay:* • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mttlmy • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattlemay/ • Website: https://mattlemay.com/ *Where to find Lenny:* • Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com • X: https://twitter.com/lennysan • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/ *In this episode, we cover:* (00:00) Introduction to Matt LeMay (04:23) Matt’s background and transition to product management (06:47) The goal of Matt's new book (12:00) How to stress test your thinking as a PM (15:32) Thinking like the CEO (17:33) The role of a product manager (23:36) The low-impact PM death spiral (27:47) Case study: Mailchimp’s transition to a platform company (32:53) Radical acceptance (41:24) Embracing constraints in product management (44:23) Steps to become an impact-first product team (49:38) Setting effective goals (01:02:15) Prioritization and impact estimation (01:07:58) Navigating stakeholder management (01:12:35) Summarizing the 3 steps (01:16:36) Lightning round and final thoughts *Referenced:* • Pitchfork: https://pitchfork.com/ • Daniel Ek’s memo: https://newsroom.spotify.com/2023-12-04/an-update-on-december-2023-organizational-changes/ • How to create a winning product strategy | Melissa Perri: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-to-create-a-winning-product-strategy • Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about SAFe and the product owner role | Melissa Perri (author, founder of Product Institute): https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/product-owners-melissa-perri • Mailchimp: https://mailchimp.com/ • Intuit: https://www.intuit.com/ • Natalia Williams on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nataliatwilliams/ • The ultimate guide to OKRs | Christina Wodtke (Stanford): https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/the-ultimate-guide-to-okrs-christina • Miro: https://miro.com/ • Prioritizing: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/prioritizing • Temptation Island on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81744518 • Mark L. Walberg’s website: https://markwalbergtv.com/about • Antiques Roadshow on PBS: https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/roadshow/ • Milkman amp: https://milkmansound.com/collections/amplifiers/products/the-amp • Matt’s review of Liz Phair’s self-titled album: https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/6255-liz-phair/ • Pitchfork Critic Apologizes for Bashing Liz Phair Album; Singer Graciously Accepts: https://variety.com/2019/music/news/pitchfork-critic-apologizes-liz-phair-album-review-zero-score-1203326897/ • RedMonk: https://redmonk.com/ *Recommended books:* • Product Management in Practice: A Practical, Tactical Guide for Your First Day and Every Day After: https://www.amazon.com/Product-Management-Practice-Practical-Tactical/dp/1098119738/r • Impact-First Product Teams: Define Success. Do Work That Matters. Be Indispensable.: https://www.amazon.com/Impact-first-Product-Teams-Success-Indispensable/dp/B0DVH4R3QJ • Escaping the Build Trap: How Effective Product Management Creates Real Value: https://www.amazon.com/Escaping-Build-Trap-Effective-Management/dp/B08B46C8R1/ ...Resources continued at: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/the-one-question-that-saves-product-careers-matt-lemay _Production and marketing by https://penname.co/._ _For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email podcast@lennyrachitsky.com._ Lenny may be an investor in the companies discussed.
Matt LeMay discusses the alarming trend of product managers and teams facing layoffs, emphasizing the importance of understanding the true value of their work. He references a message from Spotify's CEO highlighting the need for teams to focus on impactful opportunities rather than just supporting roles. This segment sets the stage for why product managers must align their efforts with business-critical outcomes to ensure job security.
"more product managers and teams are getting laid off. The problem is the message that Daniel E from Spotify sent out with their layoffs in 2024. We still have too many teams doing work around the work..."
In this segment, Matt LeMay introduces the concept of aligning product team goals with business-critical outcomes. He stresses that product managers must understand how their contributions are evaluated by the business, particularly in a challenging economic environment. This alignment is crucial for maintaining job security and ensuring that product teams are seen as valuable investments.
">> You have three steps to become more of an impact first product team. >> So, the first is in setting team goals, no more than one step away from company goals. Don't let it get cascaded into oblivio..."
Matt explains the 'low impact PM death spiral,' a phenomenon where product teams become complacent, focusing on minor improvements rather than significant contributions. He warns that this mindset can lead to layoffs, as companies seek to cut costs and prioritize impactful work. This segment highlights the need for product managers to actively seek ways to demonstrate their value.
"Today, my guest is Matt Lame. Matt is a longtime product leader, author of one of the most popular and practical books in the field of product management called Product Management in Practice. And ove..."
Matt discusses the importance of adopting an impact-first mindset in product management. He emphasizes that product teams must articulate their contributions to the business clearly and understand the broader implications of their work. This segment serves as a call to action for product managers to reassess their strategies and focus on delivering measurable business outcomes.
"steps an individual product team can take to align their work to business critical outcomes regardless of how their organization approaches product development. Tips for how to push back on stupid ide..."
In this segment, Matt poses a critical question for product teams: 'If you were the CEO, would you fully fund your own team?' He explains how this question can provoke deep reflection and help teams assess their value to the organization. This self-assessment is vital for ensuring that product managers are aligned with the company's goals and can confidently advocate for their team's importance.
"A huge thank you to Martin Ericson, Adrienne Joelo, and Dan Corbin for suggesting topics and questions for this conversation. If you enjoy this podcast, don't forget to subscribe and follow it in your..."
Matt elaborates on the risks of complacency within product teams, highlighting that many managers may not realize the cost of their roles to the business. He stresses the need for proactive discussions about team value and the importance of being able to justify the existence of the team in terms of business impact. This segment underscores the necessity of continuous evaluation and adaptation in product management.
"With that, I bring you Matt Lame. This episode is brought to you by Interpret. Interpret is a customer intelligence platform used by leading CX and product orgs like Canva, Notion, Perplexity, Straa, ..."
Matt LeMay discusses a pivotal question that product managers should ask themselves: 'If you were personally accountable for the existential market-level success of this business, would you invest in your team?' He emphasizes the importance of being able to confidently answer this question to avoid potential layoffs and ensure the team's relevance within the organization.
"righteous fact of the universe, right? My team would always be there for all time and it was just a matter of us finding the next thing to work on, which meant, you know, doing discovery and making co..."
In this segment, LeMay encourages product managers to adopt a CEO mindset, emphasizing that they should facilitate a team-wide understanding of business objectives. He argues that the product manager's role is not just to think like a mini CEO but to ensure the entire team is aligned with commercial thinking and impact-driven goals.
">> Absolutely. I think that's that's exactly it. Yeah. Okay. And we'll talk about what to actually do and the steps you recommend to fix this problem, but I want to keep talking about impact because s..."
LeMay shares insights on the role of product management as a facilitator of value exchange between businesses and customers. He highlights the importance of understanding what success means for different types of businesses, whether startups or publicly traded companies, and how product teams can align their work with these success metrics.
">> I think the way I've come to think about it is that the product manager is responsible for the whole team thinking like a CEO, if that makes sense. >> I love that. >> So, if the product manager tak..."
Matt LeMay critiques the over-reliance on best practices in product management, explaining how teams often focus on intermediate steps rather than the ultimate impact on business success. He warns that this can lead to a disconnect between day-to-day work and the overarching goals of the organization, resulting in ineffective strategies.
"This information usually exists somewhere, but it's really easy to get disconnected from it as we go about the day-to-day work of doing product management. I've been in a lot of rooms having workshops..."
LeMay introduces the concept of the 'low-impact PM death spiral,' where product teams become trapped in a cycle of low-impact work due to the accumulation of minor features and enhancements. He explains how this dynamic complicates internal processes and ultimately leads to a decline in high-impact work, increasing the risk of layoffs.
"doesn't mean that your OKRs are going to add up to what your investors or your shareholders need to see. So, I think there's a tendency among product teams to really sweat the middle and to get really..."
In this segment, LeMay discusses how product teams can break free from the low-impact cycle by proactively seeking high-impact work. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the value of their contributions and being willing to engage with executives to ensure their work aligns with the company's strategic goals.
"I've experienced this at again pretty much every company I've worked with. And it's been really interesting to see how often the breaking of that cycle comes down to individual product teams being bra..."
In this segment, LeMay recounts his experience with Mailchimp's evolution from a single product to a platform company. He discusses the challenges faced by product teams in maintaining commercial fundamentals while innovating new features. The emphasis is on setting clear goals that align with business success, particularly focusing on user engagement metrics.
"but that's how it goes. And it's funny, I worked with Mailchimp for three years leading up to their acquisition by into it when they were on this really interesting journey of going from a single prod..."
LeMay shares a compelling story about a product manager at Mailchimp who recognized the critical need to focus on user success metrics. This segment illustrates how understanding user behavior and addressing obstacles can lead to significant improvements in product performance, reinforcing the idea that user-centric goals are vital for business success.
"product team. She wanted a specific change in the rate of users who successfully send their first email. She was like, "As we build these new things, email is still where people are coming in. We want..."
LeMay discusses the emotional and philosophical aspects of product management, emphasizing the courage required to push back against low-impact directives. He highlights the need for radical acceptance of the realities that product managers face, including external factors that can influence business outcomes, and how this mindset can lead to greater job satisfaction.
"I'm worried about what'll happen if we don't do this right. I don't want to be on the product team that failed to deliver what matters most to the business. So, she went and worked with some user rese..."
In this segment, LeMay reflects on the journey of product managers who take risks to prioritize impactful work. He emphasizes the importance of collaboration and overcoming fears to achieve business goals, showcasing how a strong team dynamic can lead to successful outcomes despite challenges.
"did get it done. And they got it done through subtracting. They streamlined the experience. They took out steps that people were getting stuck on. They made things easier. They did the kinds of things..."
LeMay addresses the challenge of accountability in product management, particularly regarding factors outside a PM's control. He discusses how understanding the business model and market dynamics can empower product managers to make informed decisions, even when outcomes are uncertain. This segment encourages PMs to embrace their role in contributing to business success.
"don't have to put myself out there. And what you're pointing out there is uh it's up to you to recognize what you're doing is not high impact and to have courage to push back and suggest something els..."
LeMay shares surprising insights from his research indicating that commercially minded product managers tend to be the happiest. He contrasts this with the stereotype of stressed business professionals, highlighting how a balanced approach to work and understanding of business goals can lead to greater job satisfaction and effectiveness.
"works. The reality is that things outside of our control affect us. And I think that if we can internalize that, there's a real freedom in it. You know, the thing that surprised me most when I was res..."
In this segment, LeMay discusses the importance of proactive communication within product teams. He shares a story about a PM who adjusted revenue goals based on market realities, emphasizing that transparency and honesty can foster better decision-making and resource allocation within organizations.
"even less scary hopefully, I'm curious what your answer is going to be here. Do you find that people who take this leap and push back and try to change the way their teams are thinking and what they t..."
LeMay explores the complexities of company culture and how it impacts product management. He discusses the importance of aligning personal values with the company's business model, encouraging PMs to assess whether their work contributes positively to the world. This segment highlights the significance of understanding corporate priorities for effective product management.
"worked for a dating app and they were given a project to work on which had a very specific ambitious revenue goal and at a certain point it became clear that they were probably not going to be able to..."
Matt LeMay emphasizes the importance of understanding the value exchange in product management. He discusses how recognizing what value is delivered and extracted can help product managers make informed decisions about their contributions to a company's success and its impact on the world.
"delivered, what value is being extracted, that I think puts you in a better position to decide, you know, if I were to help the company achieve success, do I feel good about that? Do I feel like this ..."
LeMay challenges product managers to push back against the notion that they can't implement effective product management due to company constraints. He argues that understanding and embracing these constraints can actually provide a commercial advantage, rather than being a hindrance.
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In this segment, Matt LeMay discusses how constraints in regulated industries or B2B environments should be viewed as guides for product management rather than restrictions. He highlights the importance of aligning product goals with company objectives to create impactful work.
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LeMay empowers product managers by stating that the constraints they face can shape their work positively. He encourages them to work with the realities of their business environment to drive impactful decisions and outcomes.
"sad because yes, there's a way of looking at it where you can say, "All right, if these five famous companies do product management the right way, then anything that puts us in a different situation f..."
Matt LeMay introduces the first step to becoming an impact-first product team: setting team goals that are closely aligned with company goals. He references Christina Wood's concept of cascading OKRs and the importance of ensuring team objectives are directly connected to the company's success.
"huge commercial advantage for your business. If you're B2B, I honestly prefer working with B2B companies in a lot of situations because they have such immediate access to their customers and they can ..."
In this segment, LeMay shares a case study from a fintech company where aligning team goals with company revenue targets led to more impactful decision-making. He emphasizes that understanding the business's financial goals can guide product teams in their work.
"product managers and product owners and project managers that everybody working on product at every organization can do if we again work with not against the realities of the companies we work for. >>..."
LeMay discusses how a growth team transformed their approach by focusing on the company's overarching growth goals. He illustrates the importance of having clear, measurable objectives that directly contribute to the company's success, fostering a more effective team dynamic.
"the most important and where a lot of my work plays out is in setting team goals close to company goals. No more than one step away from company goals. This idea comes from Christina Wood's book, Radi..."
Matt LeMay explores the complexities of setting revenue-based goals for product teams. He acknowledges the debate around their effectiveness and shares insights on how to balance growth and profitability in different business contexts.
"this much more money next year, and we want you to tell us how you're going to contribute to this." And this was a really challenging conversation for this team because as much as people complain abou..."
In this segment, LeMay emphasizes the necessity for product teams to connect their goals to the company's impact. He shares a story about a growth team that successfully aligned their objectives with the company's user growth targets, illustrating the importance of clarity in goal-setting.
"able to set a goal and from there we had this conversation about, you know, what's the number we would need to hit to make this team feel like a good investment and we came to a specific number and th..."
LeMay discusses the significance of keeping impact at the forefront of goal-setting for product teams. He shares a compelling example of a team that shifted their focus to how their work contributes to the company's growth, reinforcing the importance of aligning team efforts with business objectives.
"from there. >> And the implication here is that if it's too far away from helping from people understanding what the hell are you guys even doing to help the business, that's the problem you want to a..."
In this segment, Matt LeMay emphasizes the importance of aligning team-level objectives with overarching company growth goals. He recounts a pivotal moment in a team meeting where he challenged his colleagues to connect their discussions about key results directly to the company's target of acquiring one million new users. This approach not only simplifies the conversation but also ensures that every action taken by the team contributes meaningfully to the company's ambitions.
"what's a 6 versus a 7, is this a 0.9? Who really should be the owner of this key result? Who contributed the most to it? And um you know, we we get through this whole conversation. Everyone's tired an..."
LeMay illustrates how clarity in goal setting can drive urgency and accountability within product teams. He shares a story about a team that, upon realizing their profit target was significantly higher than initially thought, rallied together to meet the challenge. This segment highlights the necessity of having clear, impactful goals that resonate with the team's purpose and the company's objectives.
"And I think about that all the time because it's subtracting steps, right? It's making things less complicated. It actually is doing exactly what you described. It's saying like this is what the compa..."
In this segment, Matt discusses the critical role of impact estimation in product management. He explains how teams should express their impact in terms of specific user conversion goals rather than abstract scores. By doing so, teams can prioritize their efforts effectively and ensure that their work aligns with the company's growth targets, fostering a culture of accountability and clarity.
"think about as you're talking is just like how do you know if you're doing this is there should be a very simple spreadsheet formula of just here's the company goal here is your goal there should be l..."
LeMay addresses the complexities of making trade-offs in product management, particularly when balancing high-effort initiatives against their potential impact. He shares insights on how teams can evaluate the feasibility of ambitious projects while maintaining focus on their primary goals. This segment underscores the importance of collaboration and communication across teams to achieve significant outcomes.
"did this really interesting kind of subtractive exercise where everybody got a post-it note to write down what they think the most important goal of the team is. And then they would pair up and they w..."
In this segment, Matt emphasizes the necessity of keeping company goals at the forefront of product development processes. He warns against the risk of losing sight of these goals amidst the complexities of project management. By consistently connecting team efforts back to the company's objectives, product managers can ensure their work remains relevant and impactful.
"there and do all these things that we're supposed to do. So you know that to me is a really good example of how if you start with this question of like what is what is expected of this team? What does..."
LeMay discusses how to effectively prioritize tasks by measuring impact against company goals. He illustrates this with examples of how teams can translate their goals into quantifiable metrics, ensuring that their prioritization processes are grounded in real business outcomes. This segment highlights the importance of clarity and discipline in maintaining alignment with overarching objectives.
"cares. >> Yeah. Okay. Uh what is step three? >> Step three is to connect every bit of work back to impact. So this is when we get to the prioritization piece, right? So impact estimation is something ..."
In this segment, Matt warns against the pitfalls of overcomplicating goal-setting processes. He stresses the importance of simplicity and clarity in defining success metrics, advocating for straightforward approaches that keep teams focused on their primary objectives. This segment serves as a reminder that effective product management requires discipline and a commitment to maintaining alignment with company goals.
"awesome when people take the initiative to do the thing to say like I put this together let's walk through it. So when they showed me this you know I said let's start with impact. They're like okay we..."
LeMay addresses the relentless nature of stakeholder management in product management. He discusses the difficulties of balancing various perspectives and priorities while maintaining focus on the team's goals. This segment highlights the need for bravery and discipline in advocating for what truly matters, ensuring that product teams remain aligned with their objectives.
"like retroactively shuttle people into multi-product usage, we can understand them right when they join and get them into the right category of user right away. I'm like, that sounds amazing. What's t..."
Matt discusses the relentless nature of stakeholder management in product management, highlighting how easy it is to lose sight of impact amidst competing priorities. He advocates for discipline and bravery in maintaining focus on the team's goals and impact.
"goal which is one level removed from the company goal such like it feels so obvious as you talk about it and I hope most people know this but I feel like that's something people forget just like what ..."
In this segment, Matt shares strategies for effectively pushing back against requests from executives without outright saying 'no.' He emphasizes the importance of presenting options and trade-offs to help decision-makers understand the implications of their requests.
"advice you share will involve people saying no and pushing back and convincing people they're wrong, which is very hard. That's not a natural happy place for most people. >> Nope. >> What advice do yo..."
Matt explains that effective product management involves providing options and helping stakeholders understand trade-offs rather than simply agreeing or disagreeing. He discusses the importance of maintaining trust and relationships while guiding decisions.
"only going to fail, but you are going to lose some of that trust and degrade that relationship that could in time be really important for you. So I think the challenge is to say like all right you wan..."
Matt highlights the effectiveness of presenting multiple options with a recommendation when proposing ideas. He shares insights from a workshop at Mailchimp that demonstrated how this approach fosters clearer discussions and stronger decisions.
"you disagree. In my experience, you also want to recommend a path because a lot of people don't want PMs just here's all the options. I have no opinion, no bias of any kind. you decide. Um, I find it ..."
Matt summarizes three essential steps for product teams to become impact-first: aligning team goals with company goals, prioritizing impact throughout the year, and connecting all work back to measurable impact.
"make there. Let me come back to the three steps just for folks that are just like, "Oh, I'm excited. I'm motivated. I'm going to change the way we operate." Uh I'll summarize real quick. So step one i..."
In this segment, Matt discusses the importance of maintaining curiosity and learning from successes, even when things are going well. He encourages teams to engage with other departments to understand what contributes to their success.
">> Yeah. >> But maybe let me just think of that a little bit. Say the business is doing great. everything's great. CEO is telling you all the things to build, the sales guys and girls are just like he..."
Matt introduces a reflective question for product teams: 'Would you fund this team if you were the CEO?' He encourages teams to articulate what success looks like and to align their goals with those expectations.
"the organization to see where that really good work is happening. Um, you know, one thing that that makes me sad is when teams look upon each other with envy and disgust, right? When it's like this te..."
Matt concludes with a message of hope, encouraging product managers to view commercial realities and constraints as opportunities rather than obstacles. He emphasizes the importance of adapting to these realities in a constructive way.
"something, you know, at the end of the year, everything went really well for this team. You run into the CEO in the hallway and you say, "I feel awesome because we did this." And and you'll sometimes ..."
Matt LeMay discusses the profound impact of Alan Watts' book 'The Wisdom of Insecurity.' He reflects on how the idea of trying to maintain safety in an imagined future can hinder one's ability to live in the present. This segment emphasizes the importance of mental well-being and the need to confront anxiety in the context of product management.
"tendency sometimes to put effort towards the over complication of things which in turn makes those things less effective what they are ultimately intended to achieve. So highly recommend that book. It..."
In a light-hearted moment, Matt shares his guilty pleasure of watching 'Temptation Island' on Netflix. He humorously critiques the show's dramatic elements and the host's use of therapy speak, showcasing his human side and the need for entertainment amidst a busy work life. This segment highlights the balance between work and leisure.
"Watts. >> I was going to ask what the title is because that sounds really powerful. Uh amazing, amazing pick. Second question, do you have a favorite recent movie or TV show you've really enjoyed? God..."
Matt talks about the joy of discovering niche products that cater to musicians, specifically highlighting a compact amplifier by Milkman Sound. He explains how this product meets the needs of musicians who require portability without sacrificing sound quality, illustrating the importance of understanding audience needs in product development.
"know I enjoyed that very much. >> I think it's the first Temptation Island call out and I love it. Um, okay. Favorite product or Yeah. favorite product you recently discovered that you really love? >>..."
In this segment, Matt elaborates on the satisfaction of using a product that fulfills its purpose exceptionally well. He describes how the compact amplifier allows him to perform and practice easily, emphasizing the significance of quality and user experience in product design. This reflects his philosophy on impactful product management.
"form factor just feels like such a a joy. It's one of those products that really understands what quality means to its particular audience. And I can go on tour and and have things sound really nice w..."
Matt shares a life motto imparted by his mother: 'No good work is wasted.' He reflects on the challenges of measuring success in creative endeavors and the importance of believing in the value of one's work, regardless of immediate recognition. This segment underscores the emotional journey of creators and the long-term impact of their contributions.
">> Two more questions. Do you have a favorite life motto that you often come back to find useful in work or in life? >> I come back to something my mom told me. I'm I'm sure you've experienced this, t..."
Matt candidly discusses the backlash he faced from a review he wrote of Liz Phair's self-titled album when he was just 19. He reflects on his growth since then, acknowledging the arrogance of his past self and the importance of humility in criticism. This segment highlights the evolution of a critic and the lasting impact of their words.
">> I totally believe that. Final question. You wrote a ton of music reviews over the years. I'm curious if there's one that was just like very like people super disagreed with it or just one that you'..."
In the closing segment, Matt emphasizes the value of facilitating conversations in product management. He invites listeners to connect with him for insights on impactful work and shares details about his book, 'Impact First Product Teams.' This segment encapsulates his mission to help teams focus on meaningful outcomes.
"like to think I I am uh you know a person who has lived 22 years of life since then. >> Your frontal cortex has developed more since then. I think it doesn't stop until 25 26. >> Matt, this was awesom..."