"the most game-changing work that I've ever done is Marie launched a multi-million dollar star of the award-winning marietv an international best-selling author Marie track your time meticulously for s..."

"[Music] Murray [Music] when I was reading your book you talk about how experience is one of the things that ends up shaping the beliefs we have in the world what were the experiences that you had at t..."

"mean by that because I had this notion that because there wasn't enough money that my parents love was broken when we are driven by insecurities it can be it can get a little bit out of hand yeah you ..."

"moment yes I love this a I think for me it is this ever evolving daily practice that I never quite get right but I'm always playing with these days it's about recognizing that you know what I have cre..."

"so the only things I knew about myself were that I loved business but I was also highly creative and the only com combination that felt like it could work in an industry was magazine publishing at the..."

"about taking the perceived quote-unquote risk of tuning into the that voice that's just Whispering yes oh I love this question and I also love talking about this because I think it is one of the most ..."

"sounds like that's what it feels like that's one and then I think number two this works for me I'm someone who has ADHD so I can have a very overactive brain I need to meditate and I need to exercise ..."

"all on a healing Journey constantly because I think all of us you know we've kind of collected little hurts disappointments um things from our childhood things from our adult experiences that kind of ..."

"in feeling oh my gosh not as much anymore but I did it so often earlier on my journey because I was so desperate for approval people and I was so desperate to be successful and I had these ideas if I ..."

"um but ahead of time you know it's funny because it's the story I'm telling myself ahead of time that's making me feel contractive it's I'm telling myself about travel about time Wasted by having to g..."

"so we're talking about this journey that led you to leave the publishing industry yes and decide to go back to being a waitress but also pursuing the career of being a coach yes a couple of key things..."

"opportunity to even have open time where you're not looking you're not consuming anything where you're not having other people's thoughts ideas or agendas inject into your head where you're just givin..."

"want to do and and so after you quit um seven years doing side work yes and growing and figuring out the business when you quit what was your aspirations for your coaching business if I'd ask you on t..."

"would go I just kept taking the next step and the next step and the next step and kind doing this it's not talked about enough what you've just said because perfectionism is one of the things that cau..."

"yes we're all just messy little unorganized scared um 100 and so human and so this is the other thing like so start before you're ready so Stephen I have to tell like as a young life coach I knew how ..."

"mindset yes what are those so rule number one is that all problems or dreams are figureoutable rule number two if a problem or a dream isn't figure outable it's a law of nature right so death maybe ta..."

"myself like I don't care enough about this to go figure it out right now that's super important yes number three it's the one we don't talk about yeah because we'll all have goals in our life that we ..."

"saying it but I don't actually want it I just want to want it yes I had this same conversation with my best friend and we were laughing about this because I have put so much pressure on myself at so m..."

"don't and then what happens so you know I failed to go to the gym to get that six-pack that I I tell myself I want or I failed to start that business because I don't really want to but I want to want ..."

"fundamentally built on a set of Lies there was a point and I think it was because one of my podcast guests where I just tried being honest yeah and it was the best thing I've ever done yeah and you kn..."

"smarter than we give them credit for so what's what's happened on every cold call that I've ever received is that you know they call Mingo hi Steve is it Stephen Bartlett I go who is it I think it was..."

"think do you know I don't know besides I know it's my truth and I have never wavered on it could it be related to your parents relationship at all it could it very well could prior to Josh I would mee..."

"must study with these people so they kind of talk about the fact that every single person um you learn things in your family unit so for me there was a lot of kind of smothering that happened at certa..."

"together I think oh I can probably do the math better now so we'd been together about six or seven years we met in 2003 so it's probably about 2010 and we had never once taken a proper vacation togeth..."

"yeah would you say to someone like that I think that it's really important for every person to come to that realization that they may be killing it in certain areas and then to be honest enough to say..."

"Courage so how did you redefine your own definition of success at a high level so for me it was around really stepping back and asking myself what matters most like is it the money in the bank account..."

"longer was it will either give me attention or you know what I mean I have to give up this business no it was like oh now I understand what he really needs which is not tons of time it's actually pres..."

"or customers you're trying to engage with and now they're launching one of their biggest feature enhancements to impact virtual events so far called Blue Jean Studio I actually used it the other day I..."

"change their life because this podcast the central intention of this podcast is to help people live better lives and we get to sit here and I get to promote to you a product which has not only helped ..."

"that and the social stigma and criticism that women who say the things like I want to focus on my career yeah yeah I don't want to have kids I don't want to get married sometimes undergo and I've I've..."

"maybe not everyone's journey and that's great but I need to be honest about mine because one of the things and we've had talks with my mom about this it's like her kind of set prescription was so ther..."

"and so um I like to talk about it just because I want women to have as many choices as they possibly can to be as brilliant and as impactful and happy as they possibly can yeah certainly not setting o..."

"time genius yes before we started talking I asked you what was front of mind at the moment and you said time genius yes why did you say that so uh probably for I would say almost a year and a half if ..."

"it's a complete different Paradigm again we can talk more about it it's a little bit too lengthy to get into everything here the second part of it is when you know it's important you can ignore what's..."

"and not relying on motivation which as you know the silliest thing to rely on on Earth so that's kind of like the brief overview of it but as I've been walking people through this program and seeing h..."

"thank you very much so I don't know if those two things are linked um but what I do know is anytime that I've shared that phrase with many people they're like oh my gosh I think I'm multi-passionate t..."

"you did not at least try to make dance a part of your career will you regret it and the answer was hell yes so when I was 24 even though I didn't have any dance training and it was just a passion I st..."

"of the words that I think [ __ ] people up when they're thinking about what you just said is I think at the start of you said something like I know I wouldn't be as successful yes because of the the d..."

"today so much more rich and so much more unique unique and um and joyful to run that's exactly what creativity is isn't it it's having um rare and uh unique points of inspiration and experience and br..."

"create really unique feeling stuff that the world really has never seen or felt before but needs are those that pulling Inspirations from the most bizarre Unthinkable places to create a new coaching b..."

"about um working through the anxiety and the nerves around okay well how can I construct the best talk how long should it be the delivery how many stories like a lot of kind of technical things it's i..."

"grateful and he's the person I spend the most time with and we have just such a I'm so grateful for our relationship so in the personal realm there's not one that comes up right now that doesn't mean ..."

"and it was it was lovely in them everything is figure outable in chapter 10. yes the world needs your special gift yes that's what that's the name of the chapter um there's a quote you say most high A..."

"dude everything is like I'm so happy how do I get sober from that one of the ways that I did I realized that uh for me and this was just me personally being on social was not healthy for me it was not..."

"absolutely figure it out like even if you had to work a little bit extra if you were a bartender like me or waiting tables and one of your shifts was devoted to hiring someone to post things for you y..."

"downsides and you can and you can and I think that's what's really really important and I think there's too many people who think that you have to be on it all the time and for some people if they enj..."

"say one thing too that I've shared with my audience that maybe some folks in yours will find useful especially if you are a person who consumes social media or other media content when you first wake ..."

"it's so powerful it's so simple and I definitely need to heed that advice because I wake up and I look at my what's happening and say oh [ __ ] especially when you've got like Global like businesses i..."

"wisdom to not Outsource what I should do to not look to other people to find the wisdom that already is within me and I think that trusting of that little voice and to never ever ever ever doubt it th..."

"when was that lowest point the one I was thinking of uh was actually when Josh and I were sitting on the couch and he told me I don't think I love you anymore I think this is done and I was in such sh..."

"and I want to fix it and so it was that inner voice that there was like [ __ ] him like you know it was like leave whatever but the deeper voice said fight for this and I'm so grateful that I listened..."