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"years, we found the average person can accurately identify and name three emotions. Happy, sad, pissed off. >> Mhm. >> And so in my family, sad was not an option. That was weakness. So you could be pi..."

"marks in my head and they might be the same answer, but it's you said earlier on that you didn't fit in at school or at home, and I didn't understand why you didn't fit in at school or at home. And th..."

"and I think that when you look at various admin I know you have a very global audience when you look at administrations political administrations across the world and you look at how power is being us..."

"adjacent to what you were saying, but it's the way I interpreted it. The leading political narrative at the moment that seems to be getting people elected is if you say those people with that skin col..."

"leadership you speak about. There's the power over, which is controlling or exploiting others. Power with finding common ground and building collective strength. Power two, which is giving others agen..."

"you know they don't leave and they end up becoming acclimatized to the treatment. >> I'm a big systems theory. I'm a systems theory person. I think in systems theory I was trained in systems theory. I..."

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"someone that cares a lot about history that comes through in your answers but I'm wondering in your career like what are what are the experiences that you've had have you been working directly with pa..."

"did a mushroom I did magic mushrooms with my girlfriend a couple of years ago. First time I've ever done it and um the message that came through for me was it was about connection and that word has ha..."

"to be a dichotomy or a contradiction. >> Mhm. >> To belong, but also to stand alone. >> Mhm. >> Why are both of these important? Why is it important to belong? What does that mean? And and why is it a..."

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"space, and lots and lots of stuff. But now, you can start a business with your laptop, an idea, and the right tools. And I would know more so than anybody else because that's exactly what I did. Shopi..."

"happiness, my future to be a vulnerable person? >> Well, let's define it. Um vulnerability is the emotion we experience when we have when we are up against uncertainty, risk and emotional exposure. So..."

"speaking to someone yesterday who was cheated on bunch of attachment issues in their early childhood. And funnily enough, when I was talking to her about I was asking her questions about cuz I'm very ..."

"I will ever arrive. I am grateful for the skills that I have that are new skills that keep me more aligned with the person, the mom, the partner, the leader that I want to be. But I I am mindful all t..."

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">> And I've heard about your marble jar theory. So, I got a jar of marbles. >> I saw that. >> Um, could you explain to me what your marble jar? Look at how excited you are. >> I know. >> Um, so this c..."

"here's what we're going to do." Then it means nothing to people. What matters is the leader that walks past you in the morning and says, "Hey, good to see Stephen. How's your mom's chemo going? Marble..."

"This is plastic. There are behaviors in relationships where you take this whole thing and just slam it in the ground. >> She >> I think that's an obvious one. There's one that's more has a more ragged..."

"future of the business depends on it which often it does and then the next month you're buried in them. Pressure builds up and eventually it starts clouding your judgment. Then you end up making a rea..."

"share a lot of similarities in many ways. I was wondering if um if you were to give me any relationship advice that might hold my [ __ ] together >> Mhm. >> over the next 30 years. I mean, you could g..."

"I wouldn't wish that [ __ ] on the people I hate the most. I I try not to hate people, but I God gives me grace for it on occasion. But um I would not wish that on anybody. You know, there's the reali..."

"struggling with dementia and passing. >> Yeah. It was completely relief. I mean, the day before she died, I think we had a really important time with her, and I'm sure she is, you know, playing domino..."

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