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Josh Wolfe: Opens Up On Bill Gates, Danny Kahneman, & Parenting | The Danny Miranda Podcast 245
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Josh co-founded Lux Capital to support scientists and entrepreneurs. He has been described as "The Renaissance Man of Venture Capital" for his ability to spot trends and see where the world is moving. In this conversation, we spoke about how to meet a partner, why you should connect with strangers, what it's really like to work with Bill Gates, what true wealth is for Josh, how to parent your children, and much more. 0:00 “I hope you make a billion” 3:45 Preparation 5:49 Connecting with strangers 10:43 Wife 15:35 Learning 18:14 Chips in shoulders put chips in pockets 20:43 100-0-100 23:30 Bill Gates 26:01 Does this person respect me? 28:30 Parenting 35:21 True wealth 36:57 Danny Kahneman 37:40 Hardest bias Recorded July 21, 2022 Josh on Twitter – https://twitter.com/wolfejosh Continue the conversation with me... 🎙 Podcast: https://podfollow.com/1532160275/view 🐣 Twitter: https://twitter.com/heydannymiranda 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/heydannymiranda 🕺 TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@heydannymiranda 🚨 Newsletter: https://dannymiranda.com/tuesday-treasure
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The Power of Belief
Josh Wolfe reflects on a pivotal moment in his career when Bill Conway, co-founder of the Carlyle Group, expressed his belief in Josh's potential by saying, 'I hope you make a billion.' This segment explores the significance of having someone believe in you, especially when facing skepticism from others, and how such moments can shape an entrepreneur's journey.
"well Josh thank you for coming on the podcast I really appreciate you taking the time and I'm really excited to dive into your story today good to be with you Danny so anytime somebody says to you I h..."
Creating Opportunities for Connection
In this segment, Josh discusses the importance of putting oneself in situations where meaningful connections can happen. He emphasizes the role of luck and circumstance in meeting influential people and shares insights on how to prepare for impactful conversations, highlighting the need for humility and awareness of the context in which interactions occur.
"how do you put yourself in situations where people you often talk about that particular scenario and say that he woke up on the right side of the bed how do you make sure or put luck in your favor so ..."
The Art of Preparation
Josh Wolfe elaborates on the necessity of preparation in professional interactions. He shares his strategies for being intellectually competitive, including extensive reading and understanding the backgrounds of those he meets. This segment underscores the importance of making a strong impression and being ready to engage in meaningful discussions.
"because we want to find points of connection somebody might love the band that I love or they might hate an idea that I have but it's all a point for to engage um preparedness is is entirely something..."
The Superpower of Connection
Josh shares anecdotes about the unexpected connections that can arise from simple conversations, such as meeting interesting people at the gym or on a plane. He highlights the phenomenon of randomness and optionality in networking, illustrating how engaging with strangers can lead to valuable relationships and opportunities.
"some end goal with this sort of jazz riffing that sometimes the conversations might start on some totally random topic because they're like oh I just went to this random place in New York and we might..."
The Role of Connectors
In this segment, Josh discusses the significance of 'connectors' in his life—people who introduce him to others and facilitate valuable relationships. He recounts personal stories of how these connections have led to meaningful friendships and collaborations, emphasizing the importance of being open to meeting diverse individuals.
"connected but a priority you never know and I agree with you there's a scene in Fight Club if you've seen the movie when one of the characters you know sort of sees these like old VH1 pop-ups of every..."
Opposites Attract: Finding Balance in Relationships
In this segment, Josh discusses the dynamic between him and his wife, Lauren, illustrating how their contrasting personalities complement each other. He reflects on how their different interests—his preference for darker themes and her love for pop music—create a balanced relationship. This exploration of opposites attracting provides insight into the complexities of personal connections.
"successful in some way yeah you mentioned about how you play around at the fringes and that's the place you enjoy but it was interesting because you mentioned your wife is into pop music and and so ta..."
Advice for Future Families
Josh offers advice for those considering starting a family, drawing from his own experiences and relationships. He shares a memorable piece of advice about finding a partner who embodies intelligence, attractiveness, and sanity. This segment emphasizes the importance of compatibility and the challenges of meeting the right person in today's world.
"it's a good balance yeah you talk about uh your wife a lot and your children a lot in the podcast that I listen to and I'm curious what advice you would have for somebody who is equally forward-minded..."
Investing in Yourself
Reflecting on his past, Josh discusses the significance of prioritizing personal development over idle entertainment. He shares a quote about valuing one's future and the importance of learning. This segment encourages listeners to focus on self-improvement and the long-term benefits of investing time in personal growth rather than distractions.
"hundreds of people in in our in our building and I never uh I I always say that the the serenity of the suburbs uh the peace and quiet stresses me out I need the Serendipity of the city streets and th..."
Chips on Shoulders: Fuel for Success
In this segment, Josh shares a personal story from his childhood that shaped his drive for success. He discusses the challenges he faced, including bullying and feelings of inadequacy, and how these experiences instilled a 'chip on his shoulder' that motivated him to excel and learn, particularly in understanding probability and overcoming personal insecurities.
"so so yes for me as I was learning things I saw that I was gaining value because I knew things that other people didn't know which made me more valuable and so wanting to compound that I became really..."
The 100-0-100 Framework Explained
Josh introduces his 100-0-100 framework, which illustrates his approach to investing in cutting-edge technologies. He explains the certainty of investing in innovative ideas while acknowledging the uncertainty of what those ideas will be. This segment highlights the importance of serendipity and the interconnectedness of investments in driving future opportunities.
"think anybody whether you are a fat kid you know whether you are a minority in a mostly homogeneous white neighborhood whether you have a lisp you were abused you came from a broken family like I am m..."
Lessons from Working with Bill Gates
Josh reflects on his experiences working closely with Bill Gates, sharing insights into their dynamic and the contrasting approaches they took in decision-making. He recounts a specific instance where Gates responded to an emotional argument with a logical analysis, illustrating the balance between emotion and rationality in high-stakes business discussions.
"Yeah you mentioned Bill Gates what what has surprised you most from working closely with him and exchanging emails with him I remember one story you mentioned was about you had an emotional position a..."
Overcoming Intimidation in High-Stakes Rooms
Josh opens up about the feelings of intimidation he experienced when entering high-profile meetings, especially with influential figures like Bill Gates. He shares a moment of validation when Gates acknowledged his idea, emphasizing that meritocracy prevails in professional settings. This segment explores the psychological aspects of confidence and respect in business interactions.
"and when I actually read it I was like he's actually right so um yeah I think I think he is supremely rational uh not in every situation uh but in every situation that I've observed he reads the mater..."
Inverting Lessons from Parenting
In this insightful segment, Josh discusses how his relationship with his father influenced his parenting style. He reflects on the importance of inverting negative experiences to foster positive growth in his children. Josh shares a personal anecdote about connecting his son with his father, aiming to break the cycle of negativity and impart valuable life lessons.
"interaction uh so yeah no I I think I think early on I was intimidated because ultimately you're intimidated why somebody could reject you right they can call you it they could but even at a young age..."
Learning from Failures and Mistakes
Josh emphasizes the value of studying failures as a means to avoid making the same mistakes. He discusses the importance of understanding what went wrong in various situations, both personally and professionally. This segment highlights the significance of learning from others' poor decisions and the role of emotional intelligence in navigating challenges.
"minimize regret uh my my son recently asked if he can connect with my father and I didn't want my son to inherit any of my negativity or biases and so I actually set it up so that they can connect and..."
Teaching Kids About Real-World Consequences
In this segment, Josh talks about the importance of exposing his children to real-world consequences of poor decisions. He shares a story about a tragic incident related to social media, emphasizing the need for awareness and critical thinking in today's digital age. This approach aims to prepare his children for the realities of life while fostering resilience.
"you want to study the same thing like what did they fail because the process was bad or the outcome was bad they got you know unlucky but I I think it's really valuable to see the serial mistakes that..."
Balancing Hardship and Privilege in Parenting
Josh reflects on the challenges of raising children in a privileged environment while ensuring they understand the value of hard work and resilience. He discusses the ongoing debates with his partner about how much to share regarding their financial situation. This segment explores the complexities of parenting in a way that instills responsibility and awareness in children.
"what is Subway Surface subway surfing are people that are literally riding the trains like on top of it like Subway Surfer from the app and they're getting decapitated or like you know ending up in th..."
Parenting with Honesty
In this segment, Josh reflects on the challenges of parenting and the importance of being honest with children about money and wealth. He shares advice he received from investor Stan Druckenmiller about the value of spending quality time with kids, emphasizing that his goal is to be a present and supportive father.
"you you have such a a chip on your shoulder from the hardship you had as a child but it seems like your children have it pretty good and so how do you put that hardship on the children or do it in a w..."
Teaching Hard Work
Josh shares his philosophy on teaching his children the value of hard work. He recounts how he encourages his daughter to earn her own money and appreciates the lessons learned from working blue-collar jobs. This approach aims to instill a sense of responsibility and gratitude for different life circumstances.
"part of that was you know I did not have a father that was present for any of that stuff and I had a mother who was but um I want my kids to just like my biggest goal is that my kids are like my dad w..."
Defining True Wealth
Josh discusses his personal definition of wealth, which transcends material possessions. He reflects on moments that made him feel rich, emphasizing the importance of relationships and respect from those he admires. For him, true wealth lies in the richness of ideas and meaningful connections rather than material success.
"very proud of her because she was selling all the stuff and she had one thing for two dollars it was like a stuffed animal and this kid that you know from kindergarten came was like I wanted she's lik..."
The Influence of Bias
In this insightful segment, Josh explores the concept of confirmation bias and how it affects decision-making. He shares how the opinions of trusted individuals can significantly influence his choices, highlighting the importance of surrounding oneself with people who provide honest feedback and challenge one's perspectives.
"podcast as well what what have you learned from Danny Kahneman that no matter how many biases we can catalog and understand that uh just like in an optical illusion you can know that exists but you ca..."