"we know the couples have lived together before the marriage actually increases the probability that the relationship will fail and the reason for that is very straightforward and talking of things tha..."

"the what would you say is the accompaniment to that see I think I think I think the case is is that the liberal experiment in individualism only works when the conservative Foundation is in place righ..."

"interesting fact so Psych ologists who are statistically minded they're called psychometricians they're psychologists who are obsessed research psychologists who are obsessed with measurement and conc..."

"that meaning and purpose and sort of uh Collective I guess sense of responsibility like the individual listening to this now that completely agrees with you finds himself as being a lonely person and ..."

"psychoanalytic thinkers insisted on Carl Young in particular was that everybody acts out a story sometimes it's a tragic story sometimes it's the story of hell like you're trapped in a story one way o..."

"story or if you're a victim so I ask you that question yeah right absolutely which fictional character would you be bugs bud bu Bugs Bunny's a trickster character right so yeah more serious answer do ..."

"those are no joke it's very very stressful and unconscionable so expensive hundreds of thousands of dollars years it's been 10 years of legal battles um calumny in the Press they're they're attempting..."

"I mean uh I had very strong relationships when all of this started to develop around me and that's just become more the case a very tightly knit family and a very tightly knit group of friends now I l..."

"you know as a clinicaly because I would have had to not I would have had to bite my tongue and you think that's more I know it it's not a matter of thinking I know it I know it uh absolutely 100% I sp..."

"important and so many of my friends that are in have relationship difficulties I send them just a little four minute clip I have on my phone of you saying that because the 90 minute no it might be 95 ..."

"you both have to want to that's the first thing because that's the setting of the aim what do we want we want to play Forever in God's Heavenly Garden how about that that's a metaphorical representati..."

"there's there's a difference between narcissism and giving the devil is Du you've look okay let let's pull back a little bit what have you done right I have focused on myself for a long time and okay ..."

"oh it's a catastrophe and and why are we having less sex what is the complex web of factors that have brought us to this place I know something like well one of them I would say is that me in a in a f..."

"better relationships and a better Society more broadly well here's one way of looking at it so let's say you take the alternative approach okay um you're going to try your partner on for size so you l..."

"yeah the general rule of thumb for life is that you should do what other people have done forever unless you have a really good reason not to don't deviate from the straight narrow path like you are a..."

"reason that sex has disappeared yeah right right you talk about headism in your book um we who wrestle with God pornography is this a bad thing is a terrible thing yeah it's a terrible thing everythin..."

"a different issue than whether or not it's wrong right it's certainly not an accomplishment yeah I mean I don't think anyone would disagree about that it's not an accomplishment well maybe sex is supp..."

"it's a lot of lot of people it's the vast majority write down write down what it's doing to you write down what it's doing to write down every exhaustively everything you think it might be doing to yo..."

"chatbot a really alienated young man can have a better conversation with a decent chatbot than with anybody he's ever talked to in his entire life right now they're going to get a lot smarter and soon..."

"to watch pornography all those kinds of things but then staving off that moment where you know you're you're weakened in some way and I use that word maybe you're weakened in some way by something tir..."

"meet them I I try not to I'm in such of genuine curiosity in them or some kind of answer or truth right so there's a surch in it yeah it's that's a quest so you know an adventure story is a quest did ..."

"people at the very other end of the scale who just look at their lives and go I just I hear what he's saying for some reason it's not working like I can't get out of this situation y you meet maybe yo..."

"small task how is that building my self-belief or confidence yeah because you watch yourself do it and that does work to well well look if you see someone a friend who is continually incrementally imp..."

"definitely I think I think Islam I think I read Islam's On The Rise amongst young men or it's the the dominant religion that young men are being drawn to but in the context of what we've described tha..."

"it is stories that people came up with thousands of years ago but no definitely not one person's opinion definitely 100% not because these stories have been transmitted over Millennia and organized an..."

"the stories of the you know creation people think you know maybe we were just popped out of nowhere but where do where do we youth believe that we come from do you believe a God put us here or do you ..."

"but do they have to be could they be found in could I theoretically make a new religion where me and my friends all unite against a set of values sacrifice give that's a great question well this is wh..."

"of I have two arms two legs Etc I'm this Advanced chimp or do they come from above somewhere and they're granted down to me because if I look at every animal not or and oh and okay yeah yeah it's the ..."

"and reproduction aren't the same thing for people not anymore certainly well not at all because we're High investment reproducers sex just gets the ball rolling so so here's a question how would you h..."

"into these stories that guide us why just okay we can remove the word just well but that's an important removal it's an important removal because it's you know because it's it has bound is the Bible i..."

"way that I can understand do you believe in man in the sky God do you believe in it's a well that's not as that's not as primitive a conceptualization as the atheists would have you believe what is it..."

"two years you've been through a particularly difficult time with losing people in your life that are um were foundational to you Tammy as well oh yeah well and I was in extreme pain for three years ri..."

"want like this is something I really came to understand more deeply when writing this book what are we built for we're built for maximal Challenge and that isn't the way we view ourselves in the moder..."

"some of the principles some of that you probably discovered as you went along rather than you know putting them in place to begin with this seems to work yeah you know so that's a discovery of of a pa..."

"teach you about priorities about life about what matters about anything that you could pass down to me that's important things last way less Long than you think so you should be aware of that and not ..."

"misunderstood I don't know if I am misunderstood I think the people who don't like me some of them have me confused with some figment of their imagination some of the people who don't like me they und..."