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Sleep Doctor: If You Wake Up At 3AM, DO NOT Do This!

Sleep Doctor: If You Wake Up At 3AM, DO NOT Do This!

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Are you always tired? Sleep Expert Dr. Michael Breus breaks down the 4 chronotypes to master your sleep, how to fix insomnia, the truth about sleep apnea, and why the 8-hour myth is wrong! Dr. Michael Breus is a clinical psychologist and a Diplomate of the American Board of Sleep Medicine. He has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show, served as a WebMD sleep expert, and is also the bestselling author of books such as, ‘Sleep Drink Breathe’. He explains: ▪️The 4 chronotypes that dictate your ideal daily schedule ▪️Why waking up at 3am is a biological temperature spike ▪️The "3-2-1 Rule" for the perfect evening wind-down ▪️The exact pillow checklist to fix neck pain and snoring 00:00 Intro 02:23 Why This Sleep Expert Spent 20 Years Fixing People’s Sleep 07:02 How to Choose the Right Bed and Pillow for Better Sleep 09:12 How a “Caffeine Nap” Gives You 4 Hours of Extra Energy 13:04 Why Knowing Your Sleep Chronotype Changes Everything 21:17 What It Means If You're Most Productive in the Late Morning 26:04 Are You Getting Grumpier With Age? Here’s Why 27:01 How Early School Start Times Hurt Kids’ Academic Success 31:17 The #1 Parenting Strategy to Prevent Childhood Sleep Issues 33:57 Can You Drink Alcohol and Still Sleep Well? Here's How 36:48 How Your Chronotype Dictates the Best Time to Drink Alcohol 38:02 Why Late-Night Snacking Is Ruining Your Sleep 39:34 The Best Relaxation Exercises to Help You Fall Asleep Fast 57:20 Why 2026 Could Be the Year of a Global Sleep Crisis 1:00:41 Ads 1:02:31 1 in 7 People Have Sleep Apnea—But 90% Don’t Know It 1:04:46 6 Warning Signs of Sleep Apnea You Shouldn’t Ignore 1:06:19 Should Couples Sleep Separately? The Surprising Answer 1:07:43 Why Sleep Apnea Looks Different in Men vs. Women 1:11:23 The Terrifying Health Risks of Not Sleeping Well 1:13:57 The Biggest Myths About Insomnia—Debunked 1:18:59 The Powerful Link Between Poor Sleep and Depression 1:20:54 The Truth Behind Melatonin: What They’re Not Telling You 1:26:11 Why Kids Are Overdosing on Melatonin—And How to Prevent It 1:27:50 The Smart Way to Beat Jet Lag Fast 1:31:50 Is It Safe to Take Melatonin Every Night? 1:34:27 The Most Researched Sleep Supplement You’ve Never Heard Of 1:36:28 Can Ashwagandha Help With Nighttime Overthinking? 1:37:21 The Science Behind Turkey, Milk, and Better Sleep 1:43:41 Ads 1:45:56 The Power of Sleep Routines and How to Build Yours 1:47:09 Should You Use a Sleep-Tracking Wearable? Pros and Cons 1:50:18 What Your Dreams Are Really Trying to Tell You 1:53:54 How to Reprogram Recurring Nightmares (And Why It Works) 2:00:21 The “First Night Effect” Explained—And Why It Matters 2:06:32 Is There a Best Time of Day to Fall in Love? 2:07:53 How to Pick the Perfect Pillow in 4 Simple Steps Enjoyed the episode? Share this link and earn points for every referral - redeem them for exclusive prizes: https://doac-perks.com Follow Dr Michael: Instagram - https://linkly.link/2ZqV9 YouTube - https://linkly.link/2ZqVD Website - https://linkly.link/2ZuLL Dr Michael's Chronotype Quiz: https://my.sleepdoctor.com/sleep-quiz You can purchase Dr Michael’s book, ‘Sleep Drink Breathe’, here: https://linkly.link/2ZqVM You can find out more about the resources mentioned, here: Sleep-Drink-Breathe 3-Week Plan - https://linkly.link/2ZuLP Orion Cooling Mattress Pad - https://linkly.link/2ZuLM The Diary Of A CEO: ◼️Join DOAC circle here - https://doaccircle.com/ ◼️Buy The Diary Of A CEO book here - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook ◼️The 1% Diary is back - limited time only: https://bit.ly/3YFbJbt ◼️Follow Steven - https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: Stan: Join Stan’s Dare to Post 30-day Challenge. Post one video per day for 30 days. Finish the challenge and split $100,000. NO PURCHASE NECESSARY. VOID WHERE PROHIBITED. For Official Rules, visit https://DaretoDream.stan.store LinkedIn Marketing: https://www.linkedin.com/DIARY Intuit: If you want help getting out of the weeds of admin, https://intuitquickbooks.com

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Intro

"What are the most popular questions people come to you with as a sleep doctor? >> There's three [music] biggies. Number one is, "What do I do if I fall asleep, okay, and I wake up in the middle of the..."

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2:24 - 7:02
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Why This Sleep Expert Spent 20 Years Fixing People’s Sleep

"does it matter so much now? And what perspective do you take on what you do that is atypical versus other people I might have spoken to about this subject? >> I'm a sleep doctor. Um I take care of peo..."

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7:02 - 9:14
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How to Choose the Right Bed and Pillow for Better Sleep

">> I got two more questions before we really get into the details and specifics and start really helping the audience with whatever they're dealing with. >> The first is we have lots of props here. >>..."

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9:14 - 13:04
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How a “Caffeine Nap” Gives You 4 Hours of Extra Energy

"sleep. >> Uhhuh. >> What do I need to know about what sleep is, the role it solves for us to even understand the context of the things we're going to talk about today? >> Yep. There's only a few thing..."

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13:04 - 21:17
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Why Knowing Your Sleep Chronotype Changes Everything

">> Okay. So let's do chronotypes then. You've got some cards in front of you. >> I do. I kind of like these cards. So when we talk about chronotypes, a lot of people may have heard of the idea but not..."

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21:17 - 26:04
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What It Means If You're Most Productive in the Late Morning

"really well. >> Wow. What's the next one? >> So the next one is the bear. So bears are representative of people that are in between early birds and night owls, right? So bears are the best. Honestly, ..."

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26:04 - 27:01
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Are You Getting Grumpier With Age? Here’s Why

">> So do I start sleeping less as I get older? You start sleeping poorer quality. I'm not convinced that it's always less. >> And is that going to make me grumpy? >> Yes, it is. >> Really? >> Absolute..."

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27:01 - 31:17
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How Early School Start Times Hurt Kids’ Academic Success

"siblings and us all being woken up for school and I think about my performance in school >> and of all my siblings, there's four of us. >> I was the one that always struggled with being woken up in th..."

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The #1 Parenting Strategy to Prevent Childhood Sleep Issues

"well. >> We we do have to stop here and talk about parents because listen, you're either a parent now, you might be someday. Absolutely. >> Maybe you won't be. But for those I've just got a huge amoun..."

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33:58 - 36:48
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Can You Drink Alcohol and Still Sleep Well? Here's How

">> they know in the study that they were fake sleeping >> because they asked the men afterwards what were you doing and they all said they woke up and they were faking it. It's pretty crazy when you t..."

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How Your Chronotype Dictates the Best Time to Drink Alcohol

">> Didn't know that. No. >> Yeah. So, it's kind of interesting. So here's what's cool about it is your body produces something called alcohol dehydrogenase which is how you metabolize alcohol but it d..."

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Why Late-Night Snacking Is Ruining Your Sleep

">> That's right. >> So, right. So if the longer you can wait, the lower your heart rate is, the easier it gets into sleep. And so when we're talking about So a great example, let's get back to parents..."

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39:35 - 57:20
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The Best Relaxation Exercises to Help You Fall Asleep Fast

"heart rate down. >> Yeah. Absolutely. So what a lot of people don't realize is just because we're breathing doesn't mean we're actually breathing in a way, shape, and form that can be helpful for us f..."

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57:20 - 1:00:42
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Why 2026 Could Be the Year of a Global Sleep Crisis

">> I love having these conversations on the diio because I have a huge amount of sympathy and concern for people that don't get sufficient sleep. And I know there's a lot of people that don't. And I a..."

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1 in 7 People Have Sleep Apnea—But 90% Don’t Know It

">> Which sleep disorder should we start with? >> Sleep apnea and insomnia. Sleep apnea, for folks out there who may not know what it is, is when you are snoring at night. Almost everybody who has slee..."

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6 Warning Signs of Sleep Apnea You Shouldn’t Ignore

"So, you know, because people are going to be like, "How do I know if I need to do the test?" >> So, great question. So, you want to think about the symptoms that you might have. So, do you snore? Do y..."

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Should Couples Sleep Separately? The Surprising Answer

">> And on that point, before we just go a little bit further into sleep apnnea, should should we be sleeping in bed with our partners? And I know that's an interesting thing. >> Great question. Great ..."

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Why Sleep Apnea Looks Different in Men vs. Women

">> Are the symptoms of sleep apnnea different for men and women? >> They are. Great question. So, it turns out that men and women are quite different, but we've historically been scoring them the same..."

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The Terrifying Health Risks of Not Sleeping Well

"catch. >> We talked a little bit earlier, but um from many of the conversations I've had on the show about Alzheimer's, >> yes, >> your chance of um getting Alzheimer's, I imagine, is going to increas..."

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The Biggest Myths About Insomnia—Debunked

">> Insomnia has become a bit of a word that people throw around >> for sure, >> right? They they kind of self diagnose themselves. We kind of think of it as this one specific thing. I think people say..."

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The Powerful Link Between Poor Sleep and Depression

">> and a lot of people that do have insomnia have depression. >> Oh, I think it's one of the biggest things that we see. But I would argue anxiety might be a little bit more than depression. But yes, ..."

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The Truth Behind Melatonin: What They’re Not Telling You

">> I mean, in different countries, it's different right? >> Great point. So, let's talk about melatonin since that's kind of the biggie that a lot of people like to know about. So, number one, melaton..."

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Why Kids Are Overdosing on Melatonin—And How to Prevent It

">> I was looking at the data. In 1999, 0.4% of Americans said they used melatonin. Today, it's almost 30%. So, 70 million Americans up, dude. That is problematic. And again, they have no idea what it'..."

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The Smart Way to Beat Jet Lag Fast

"corrected it. >> Yes, it does. So, let's talk about jet lag. So, it's a bit of a story, but I got involved with a company that um has got an app, which is very interesting. Okay. Um I don't have any l..."

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Is It Safe to Take Melatonin Every Night?

">> And what's the risk there of having it every day? Is it? >> Uh, it's a good question. So, when you start to look at melatonin overdose and you start to look at melatonin on board for long periods o..."

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The Most Researched Sleep Supplement You’ve Never Heard Of

">> So let's finish off on these supplements then. >> Yeah. Absolutely. So we talked a little bit about melatonin which like I said select usage. Um a couple of other ones that we've got here um one of..."

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Can Ashwagandha Help With Nighttime Overthinking?

"times. >> What about ashwanaganda or whatever it's called? >> Ashwagandha. >> Ashwagandha. >> Exactly. I just kind of like saying it. So, here's my theory on supplementation is the first thing I tell ..."

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The Science Behind Turkey, Milk, and Better Sleep

">> There's this one here that I've never heard of before. What's this uh it's called tryptophan. So uh elptophan in in particular. So tryptophan is the substance that we find in turkey that has a tend..."

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The Power of Sleep Routines and How to Build Yours

"perfect morning routine? Do you need to have a morning routine? What's your take on that? So, it depends upon how disciplined you want to be and it depends upon how much time you have. I can tell you ..."

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Should You Use a Sleep-Tracking Wearable? Pros and Cons

">> Do you use any sleep trackers? >> In the past I've used uh a few of them. I I try them out because a lot of my patients try them out. Um, I think if I was going to be looking at them, I think the a..."

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What Your Dreams Are Really Trying to Tell You

"are so fascinated by dreams, >> aren't they? I love it. >> But but so little is known about dreams. >> Yeah. Well, yes and no. I mean, here's the thing. Dreams have been studied honestly since the daw..."

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How to Reprogram Recurring Nightmares (And Why It Works)

">> right? It's like magic. >> It's like magic. >> It's great. And I only real realized this in the last couple of years when you know business my businesses got bigger and there was more problems to t..."

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The “First Night Effect” Explained—And Why It Matters

"when I go to sleep because gosh the amount of nights per week where I don't know there's like a crack in the in the curtains or I don't know someone gets up early and >> well also for you you're trave..."

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Is There a Best Time of Day to Fall in Love?

"love at that time. >> Okay. So, in your book, >> um, Power of When, >> yes. >> On page 9, uh,4, you say, "Dolphin's best mood is in the afternoon to evening." So, the best time for them to fall in lov..."

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How to Pick the Perfect Pillow in 4 Simple Steps

">> Okay. Okay, so we're now downstairs in a bedroom we have in the house. I have lots of pillows here, quite a few. >> And there's a bunch of questions I have for you. The first is >> pillows. Do they..."