"you have this ability to become confident in every single area of your life it's about us just learning a new series of behaviors for example there's something called a siren technique in three two an..."

"the most beautiful instruments in the world that can help them negotiate whatever reality they desire and I learned this through my first ever vocal teacher Miss Stanley and I'll I'll never foret get ..."

"how much do you think that will change the trajectory of someone's life like what is the impact if I get really good at communication why does it matter I was invisible my entire childhood I was invis..."

"it's an interesting idea to think that we might rise or fall to the level not of our technical ability but our communication skills as it relates to how the world perceives us and it's both the import..."

"I guess the question that it leaves me with is how easy is it for someone to learn like what is the time span that it would take from The Experience you've had with teaching people to to make a radica..."

"seen in those examples change when someone learned communication skills because we we often the examples we've given so far are just like work yeah yeah yeah with their children this has been the cool..."

"going to help me in work you're going to help me be a more entertaining engaging parent are there any other areas of one's life that improve when they crack communication yes there is an area and the ..."

"people have you taught in person and or online oh over 70,000 now wow yeah you have millions and millions and millions of followers online as well that tune to learn communication skills from you from..."

"yeah I was thinking to one example of one of my students who a female Rachel who who felt like she didn't have great executive presence and it was because she became she she labeled herself as being s..."

"like I was looking earlier there's almost like a billion search results on Google for people trying to figure out um or trying to provide answers to how to communicate successfully so let's get into i..."

"to die something bad's about to happen omnus a little a little three-year-old stood on the the landing of the staircase at night yes with long black hair yes correct so that that that again all of a s..."

"with it too far do you know what I'm saying by playing with the to far and then getting feedback right and people are so afraid of that though and they don't realize that they they don't go too far th..."

"are nervous yes what what happens they speed up they speed up they speed up considerably considerably and have they ever measured that oh does anybody know if you get above 210 words per minute you be..."

"I'm not a confident person what side of the scale the lower scale okay on volume okay because that's one of the default shy behaviors that a lot of people exhibit and what about leaders where do they ..."

"it's not because it's New Year's Eve I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible what..."

"start with and and try your best to play with this I want you to make disgust like just uh disgust and let that come through and give me a more volume give me disgust in three two and it's not because..."

"a storytelling formula I do what is the storytelling formula I think the way most people tell stories is is they report stories so I'll share a story with you okay and reporting a story is let's say y..."

"irrelevant detail but you talked about the bar having two floors and stuff make it visual okay so I could picture it in my mind want to make it visual well it's it's it's well okay so here's a when yo..."

"and start running some of these techniques in the real world and just pick one pick one and just try it it's like we're going through all these different things right after this episode go out and jus..."

"Clarity do you think there's a certain set of those tools that when applied or a certain sort of style of speaking that makes people dislike you is there a certain one that just doesn't make them warm..."

"increase their self-awareness as it relates to their communication skills is there is there a practice I can do to understand if I'm good bad at this if you are problem unaware to communication and ri..."

"clutch to words you know the like as um why does it matter I'll give you an example of it you know like um if I you know was uh taking you through like the um core uh you know vocal foundations you kn..."

"pause this conversation for a moment I want to talk about our show sponsor today which is Shopify I've always believed that the biggest cost in business isn't failure it's the time you waste trying to..."

"a keynote speaker was there anything that you did before you went on stage to make sure that you performed optimally cuz you were speaking what 80 times a year or something yeah yeah yeah it got prett..."

"anything you do with your mouth and your tongue CU sometimes especially if I've woken up early in the morning and I'm like jumping on a zoom call with some foreign time zone yes like it feels like my ..."

"learned from studying your work is this idea of the Power Sphere when you're on stage ah this Power Sphere I've got a picture here you got a picture that I I learned this from Mark Bowden Mark Bowden ..."

"what's interesting is I think there'll be a certain cohort of people listening that just go oh God this is so I know it's so much it's so it sounds so exhausting then and I I just I just can't be I ca..."

"it's weird sitting in front of a webcam what happens to you do you think you lose yourself a little bit yes yeah everything drops all of your vocal foundations disappear so what do I need to be thinki..."

"just goes to show that we're just like it's so contagious and easy to blend in yes with one's environment I remember experiencing a negative experience with accent when I started to improve my articul..."

"and this is what I believe is that I don't believe accents are a problem I believe articulation and pronunciation are why do you think people think people from the UK are smart there's this perception..."

"and and it's one of those things where this is it's super weird I remember when I was becoming a professional speaker some of my peers uh who who were also Asian I remember them saying to me they said..."

"very simply because I've had it happen to me all my life where they say to me and then it just doesn't give them a leg to stand on they're go oh you're an idiot like yeah I'm I'm I'm a bit clumsy at t..."

"favorite I've got a favorite technique that I use and it requires courage so you have been warned it requires courage and it's a game simple game called Halo Buffalo Halo Buffalo I love this game oh y..."

"of me perfect Ted matcha is ceremonial grade and sourced from Japan it is smooth it is naturally sweet not like those bitter grassy matches that I tried before perfect Ted and if you are one of those ..."

"steps two types or the one thing so just have that in the back your head there are three steps to something there are two types of something or the one thing is so when someone's talking to you you wa..."

"have to you have to fix that at a foundational level you have to increase your vocal presence you have to increase your physical presence because it's infinitely harder to interrupt this version of Vi..."

"I've had so many people come up to me where if imagine someone comes up to me they're like oh Haven that was an amazing keynote and I took that same energy VIN on stage to go oh thank you so much for ..."

"talk about there's so many other things we could talk about right I could talk about family Recreation occupation and your dreams and why does having a a broader set of things to talk about cause more..."

"introvert they lose energy from social interaction so you have to be highly digant you have to be highly diligent when you're expending that energy and you're playing the music for people you have to ..."

"and I was that I mean the whole reason the only reason I learned magic in my life was because I felt like I had no value and I had to go learn a whole craft to have value so that I could be amazing be..."

"comes up they now are a great communicator right so then the idea of contextual confidence led me to really working out that communication skills is such a critical skill set why because if I master t..."

"were firsttime parents and we we didn't know what to expect we didn't have many friends while we were here and we were super isolated so we didn't we didn't have other kids around my son and and I sti..."

"confers ation yeah Mom and Dad before I moved to the US they yeah they we sat around a kitchen table like this and and they said hey we've got a big bombshell to drop on you and and and we want to bec..."

"supported through action a lot and I remember when my mom called me and said hey I your dad wants to talk to you and this is when I was in the US and I was oh man I was so KN deep in the keynote speak..."

"it that in the world we live right now you can negotiate whatever reality you desire right now in my own mind I just have that belief and that belief has served me my entire life and I have this voice..."