"this is like a therapy session patricia bryant she's a creator author entrepreneur with an incredible story growing up my mum should take us to offices to clean the offices and we'll go to school and ..."

"i hope nobody's listening but if you are then please keep this to yourself yes we share one big similarity with our childhoods in the fact that we both had nigerian mothers we do we do yeah i didn't k..."

"and i think that that's really made me do a lot of things that supposedly i shouldn't be able to do but that kind of upbringing made me be like no i can do it it's fine it was always fine i watched my..."

"work hard i think she knew that she had a lot of opportunity while being here and she'd be trained and she she became a nurse and then she bought properties and then she retired in her 40s like i love..."

"something even if that lesson was wrong that's where i think about it i'm like that must have taught you something about the nature of life because at five years old you're learning what the world mea..."

"so my first thought is like i roll like oh there you go moaning or complaining but i also realized that there's so many different types of privileges that people have that can actually provide them li..."

"basis that you purely on that basis i didn't love my course and then when they were doing internship opportunities they were paying interns 8k a year 10k a year and like graduate starting salaries wer..."

"um i felt more upset for my mum in that i know how difficult it was for her to like have us and have responsibilities and deal with like managing this court case she managed it her entire self she rep..."

"find dad okay bye like it just it's that checking in which is really i like it i think that's probably also just a male a male issue i think men typically aren't as um emotionally open so they don't b..."

"you know all the top four four companies in the world in finance i worked at merrill lynch and deloitte consulting banks all of that stuff i would have never done that if i'd stayed in fashion when it..."

"your mom sounds like all right beast she's wild she bought four houses while you're in manchester yeah no how many no three oh well yeah so different yeah yeah but they were and i can't swear they're ..."

"a no it wasn't a thing at the time of me like watching youtube and kind of creating on the platform there wasn't actually that many people on there um and so like little artists could go viral and the..."

"oh i find it really hard to kind of balance the fact that this thing that was my my escape is kind of like my job now there's we i was talking to one of the guests on the podcast a couple of weeks ago..."

"tough isn't it it's really tough because people are like oh my god like what privileged conversation it's not because like say imagine someone's like a a dart player or something right but eventually ..."

"so critically important you know the thing that had the biggest positive impact on me sticking to the gym has been this change in mindset and i've talked about this extensively on this podcast about h..."

"have ever created and in terms of the results well they speak for themselves you know we've got two guests that have come to watch this podcast today and sophia i said sophia you know she's she's foll..."

"could i take it and even at that time i had no clue i could get to where i am today but the numbers looked healthy enough so i was like okay i'll take the leap even if i do it for two years it could b..."

"they're like i do this thing on the internet they're like oh wow it's fine yeah yeah so my mom but yeah so you made that you took that leap into youtube um was there a moment where you think [ __ ] ho..."

"and what's yours domination what is mine um it's not just being popular on social media that's not my complete definition of success right i think for me it's like creating things that i want to creat..."

"so when people say influence i think there's a little cringe when they say it but i think this concept of being influential is has always been around but it's always been around with the hands of the ..."

"if i don't have a a proper well-rounded view because it's all well people like because i get the same this is how i know you'd get the same people message me and say steve speak on this issue or black..."

"how tough it is to be a woman on social media with a big audience it's like the standard of perfection in terms of your like morals what you're posting how you're posting what you're saying is a high ..."

"different so presuming that your audience is like probably say sixty percent to seventy percent male 1 eighty percent women eighty percent with uh i think women judge men by different standards so wha..."

"with biology sociology the way in which kind of women interact with men is different to how we interact with each other i wish it was different but i've i've just noticed this like a lot and and the o..."

"being too much um so i can get away with it a little bit more um but i know like there is a little it can be tension when i talk about my numbers too much and i'll definitely get the messages of this ..."

"how do you respond to that though how do you how does that impact the choices you make and does it impact the choices you make isn't that sad though that yeah it really does so i've moved away from li..."

"um i do want to remain authentic but i understand that showing too much of my success um doesn't always sit well for people and i'm happy to like remove that aspect if that makes people more comfortab..."

"is it going ah this is this is a lot so where's it going so we really want to build out like a web platform which has content but also tools that people can use so one of the things that i created was..."

"challenge so as an influencer like i work for brands i make amazing content for them i get nice things but now this is my chance to kind of be a brand and create value more so so it's really like a ne..."

"freelance role so that i could use him when i needed him so he will work as a contractor and i'm like mike i need your help quit your job come and help me and so throughout my entire journey he's been..."

"leaving work at work and not bringing that home with you because one thing i came to learn was that the steve bartlett that succeeds in a professional environment that is direct that is it's very clea..."

"you know yes amazing and you guys have been together a long time a long time yeah we've been together for 14 14 years yeah and married for like nine years i think yeah nine years yeah i always i alway..."

"able to handle that and we're like polar opposite people i'm very like emotional and like let's do this now and he's very logical steady stable and i think that actually is the balance that i've neede..."

"like and there's even like online forums where people like moan about online creators and she would like she or he would go into the forums and be like talking about me so i would stalk my stalker rig..."

"every day and i i go on the underground and some people like you get on the underground i'm like yes it's quicker but i don't want to ever be in a place where i can't get on the underground people are..."

"battling with the fact that there's clearly a reason why i'm i'm here or why i've got this audience and why i people connect with me right and actually maybe it's a good thing that i have no huge desi..."

"been what are those underlying principles where you say that really is the thing there's no quick route but that thing there is the thing so i think the first thing is leaning into your like authentic..."

"she's definitely 100 her biggest critic she brings a lot of energy and passion and enthusiasm and stuff so when you watch her you feel good or you feel happy or you feel interested or inspired but som..."