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Bobby Lee: Comedy, Skyrim, Sex Robots, Love, Fame, and Power | Lex Fridman Podcast #287
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Segments Timeline
The Absurdity of Skyrim
Bobby Lee humorously explores the idea of living in the world of Skyrim with Lex Fridman, playfully questioning whether they would engage in romantic activities. This segment sets the tone for a light-hearted conversation about video games and their immersive worlds, showcasing Bobby's comedic style and absurdity.
"if you and I were able to go into Skyrim right and walk around and live together would we make love no no no man don't go there okay no no no because we like girls man the following is a conversation ..."
The Pain of Exclusion
Bobby Lee reflects on the emotional impact of not being invited to Andrew Schultz's wedding, revealing feelings of resentment and the desire for revenge. He discusses how these experiences shape his comedic career and personal life, highlighting the vulnerability behind his humor.
"years I think you're one of the funniest people in the world I've been a fan since Matt TV days 20 years ago today with uh with tigerbelly so given that given your status is a world-class comedian how..."
Therapy and Letting Go
In this segment, Bobby shares his journey of self-discovery through therapy, aiming to overcome feelings of inadequacy and self-criticism. He expresses a desire to break free from negative thoughts that have plagued him, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and acceptance.
"therapy and stuff I'm just kind of like trying to let it go what'd you do there this right here why'd you do that I forgot to start the timer and now it starts over yes let's do this let's do it again..."
Minimalism vs. Materialism
Bobby and Lex discuss their differing lifestyles, with Bobby embracing minimalism while Lex admits to a shopping addiction. This conversation reveals insights into their personalities and how their environments reflect their values, providing a humorous take on consumerism and personal space.
"deeply self-critical all the time yeah and um that's kind of an engine that drives you to to do stuff yeah but it doesn't give you the kind of Freedom that I would like don't you want to be truly free..."
The Spirit of Native Culture
Bobby humorously imagines himself as a gatherer in a Native American tribe, discussing his desire to connect with nature and community. This light-hearted segment showcases Bobby's comedic imagination while touching on themes of identity and cultural appreciation.
"minimalism so we're the opposite in that way then oh so you like stuff I'm not a hoarder but because I can throw things away but I have a shopping addiction I think like when I'm on the road like I wa..."
The Alpha Male Debate
Bobby and Lex engage in a playful debate about the concept of the 'alpha male,' referencing Joe Rogan as a prime example. This segment explores societal expectations of masculinity and the humorous dynamics of friendship and competition among comedians.
"have been a gatherer no I'm I'm gonna weave baskets with the ladies yeah I want to pick berries with the ladies you wouldn't be the chieftain no no and I would make after the hunt I would probably mak..."
Grappling with Identity
Bobby shares his experiences with grappling and wrestling, revealing a surprising athletic background. This segment highlights the contrast between his comedic persona and his physical capabilities, adding depth to his character and inviting laughter.
"father or whatnot so those kind of things I keep but um when it comes to like you know Aviator Nation sweats like if some of like somebody came over to my house and goes hey can I have six of those sw..."
The Joy of Video Games
Bobby discusses his love for video games, particularly Skyrim and Stardew Valley, emphasizing the joy of grinding and exploration in open-world games. This segment captures his passion for gaming and how it serves as an escape from reality.
"um to avoid I I've been playing stardew Valley you know what that is no it's a phone game or no it's a um you can play it on your switch but it's on the Xbox and it's a farming simulation game and so ..."
Living in a Fantasy World
Bobby and Lex fantasize about living in the Elder Scrolls universe, discussing the allure of escaping reality. This whimsical conversation showcases their shared love for gaming and the freedom it represents, blending humor with nostalgia.
"you can grind what do you mean by Grind so like stardew Valley for instance right there's a lot of back to the pharmacy right okay it's the same thing as Skyrim the reason why I like it is that there'..."
The Gathering of Friends
In this segment, Bobby imagines hosting a banquet in Skyrim, inviting various guilds and characters from the game. This playful scenario highlights his creativity and love for storytelling, while also reflecting on the importance of friendship and community.
"I like open world games where I can make choices and I can grind if I want yeah yeah would you stay in that world if you could live in that world in the in the Elder Scrolls world that's how I feel in..."
The Wedding Snub
Bobby expresses his feelings about not being invited to Andrew Schultz's wedding, humorously questioning the dynamics of friendship and competition in the comedy world. This segment reveals the underlying insecurities that drive Bobby's comedic persona.
"girls man yeah that's right it's not gay well you told me it's not gay yeah it's not yeah yeah all right so you and I would yeah I would hunt you would gather but in that world there's no hunting you ..."
The Comedy Connection
Bobby reflects on his connection with Andrew Schultz and the complexities of their friendship. This segment delves into the nuances of relationships in the entertainment industry, highlighting the blend of camaraderie and rivalry among comedians.
"a piece of though huh because let me just say something okay I just want to get back to that okay okay sure so I met him at the Montreal Comedy Festival and him and I our Kindred uh Souls we we really..."
The Podcast Dream
Bobby shares his aspirations of being a guest on Joe Rogan's podcast, discussing the fear of rejection and the desire for validation. This segment captures the vulnerability behind his comedic bravado and the longing for connection in the industry.
"although I don't think there's a lot of Koreans there so he could have used that card this is true right but I think he went for you know Whitney's a woman it's better for Optics okay so she was a div..."
Wrestling Memories and Joe Rogan
Bobby Lee shares nostalgic memories of his high school wrestling days, including humorous interactions about photo evidence and his athleticism. He also discusses his relationship with Joe Rogan, expressing his admiration and the awkwardness of not having been invited to his podcast yet.
"have any photos to prove it but if you look at my Instagram I have photos of you as a Young Man dressed in a singlet or what on the wrestling team if you go to the sorry if you go to my I'm sorry if y..."
Learning to Tell Time
In a light-hearted moment, Bobby reveals that he recently learned how to read an analog clock, comparing it to his hesitance to engage with new experiences like podcasting. This segment highlights Bobby's humorous take on personal growth and learning.
"can I do it and he goes I I don't know man I'm busy man you know we got I got a lot I mean maybe later you know I don't want that so if you know if if he said hey are you available Thursday this day f..."
The Future of Conscious Machines
Bobby and Lex discuss the potential for machines to achieve consciousness, exploring the implications of robotics in society. Bobby expresses his fascination with robots and the ethical concerns surrounding their development, particularly in military applications.
"comparable to you going on The Joe Rogan can you because it's like I don't know much about podcasting no podcasting I can but in terms of like the singularity and all that stuff like I I know what it ..."
Intimacy with Robots
The conversation shifts to the emotional aspects of human-robot interactions, particularly regarding sex robots. Bobby shares insights on how people often seek companionship and emotional connection through these technologies, rather than just physical intimacy.
"long you're going to live so let's let's put uh but I believe that Consciousness yes could be engineered in a machine uh or at least we can have machines that are human-like and we believe they have c..."
Bobby's Relationship with Khalyla
Bobby opens up about his relationship with Khalyla, discussing the deep connection they share and how she has positively influenced his life. He reflects on their first meeting and the comfort he feels in being vulnerable with her.
"the realism of the skit like it was quite they did a really good job on that robot oh they did the the life when when it's animated the life is not quite there if you can tell it's a robot but just si..."
The Power of Love and Support
Bobby elaborates on how Khalyla has supported him through challenging times in his career, emphasizing her belief in his potential. He recounts how her encouragement helped him overcome self-doubt and pursue opportunities he previously avoided.
"let's talk about love Bobby Lee yeah yeah I mean that's a really pretty deep I've never really gone down this path um we're gonna walk down that path together holding hands it's one of those things wh..."
Facing Fears and Vulnerability
In a candid moment, Bobby discusses his fears about fatherhood and the impact of his upbringing on his perspective. He reflects on his parents' parenting style and how he aims to break the cycle of trauma by being a mindful and supportive parent.
"fish and she would eat the eyeball first to see a squirm and as a kid that you thought was gross and weird and this and that but it's like you know when kalila does it it just kind of like I don't kno..."
Fond Memories of His Father
Bobby shares a poignant memory of spending time with his father, highlighting the lack of connection during his childhood. He reflects on how this experience shaped his understanding of family and the importance of creating meaningful moments.
"wouldn't go because I just wouldn't get it in my head I was like I'm not gonna get this I've gone on a thousand of these and they just never hire me but she was so I just didn't go on on them for year..."
Breaking the Cycle of Trauma
Bobby Lee reflects on his journey of self-improvement and therapy, expressing his desire to parent differently than his own parents did. He discusses the impact of his father's abusive behavior and his commitment to not repeating that cycle with his children. Bobby emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and learning from past experiences to foster a healthier environment for future generations.
"Lex in the last six months I've really have come through some breakthroughs and um I'm in therapy and I'm doing a lot of things and really self-analyzing myself and my behaviors and what I want my des..."
Fond Memories and Regrets
In this segment, Bobby shares his fondest childhood memory with his father, highlighting a rare moment of connection despite the language barrier. He contrasts this with the regrets he carries about their relationship, particularly the lack of deeper conversations and emotional connection. Bobby reflects on the cultural barriers that prevented meaningful communication and the lasting impact of those experiences.
"so your um your dad died in um August of 2019. wow yeah you did your research uh yeah it's on your Wikipedia so you said some of it was rough but what's your fondest memory of your dad what do those m..."
Proving Them Wrong
Bobby discusses his early career in comedy and the skepticism he faced from his parents. He recounts how their doubts fueled his determination to succeed, culminating in his achievements on shows like Mad TV and The Tonight Show. This segment highlights the immigrant experience and the pride his parents felt as they witnessed his success, despite their initial disbelief in his comedic talent.
"turned bad because I forgot my jacket there and he yelled at me like there's a bit of a piece together at that time yeah there was peace but then what happened was later in life when I got mad tv and ..."
The Miracle of Success
Bobby reflects on the miraculous nature of his success in Hollywood as an immigrant without connections. He shares how his parents' pride grew as they saw him on television, illustrating the cultural shock and disbelief they experienced. This segment captures the emotional weight of achieving dreams against the odds and the joy of sharing that success with family.
"own man I I booked the Tonight Show on my own I got mad tv on my own and when I did those things my parents were very proud but before that did they doubt you oh yeah you you're not you're not funny y..."
Healing Through Comedy
In this segment, Bobby discusses the transformation in his relationship with his father as he found success in comedy. He shares fond memories of his father participating in sketches and how their dynamic changed over time. Bobby reflects on the healing power of comedy and the importance of family support in overcoming past traumas.
"kid I guess on TV especially there was no internet too at the time the internet had just started so to them they were like this is a miracle in fact when I did The Tonight Show my dad called me the ne..."
The Weight of Regret
Bobby opens up about the regrets he feels regarding his family's past, particularly the inability to communicate openly about their struggles. He shares a poignant moment with his mother, revealing the emotional distance that often exists in immigrant families. This segment highlights the challenges of addressing trauma and the longing for deeper connections.
"well he was no longer that violent kind of guy he had softened a lot you know what I mean but um when he died is when those issues came up you know like a freight train the bad stuff oh yeah and I did..."
Surviving Trauma
Bobby and Lex discuss the generational trauma experienced by immigrant families, sharing stories of their parents' hardships. Bobby recounts his mother's traumatic childhood experience during wartime and the emotional calluses that result from such experiences. This segment emphasizes the long-lasting effects of trauma and the difficulty of processing these emotions.
"um so that's sad to me you know but there's nothing I can do about it yeah that callus that comes with an immigrant mentality you don't even that emotional connection is not even there I've had um my ..."
Confronting Darkness
Bobby reveals his struggles with mental health, including a dark period where he contemplated suicide. He shares a harrowing experience of being in a hotel room, feeling physically and emotionally broken. This segment sheds light on the importance of seeking help and the challenges of overcoming deep-seated pain.
"in that torment [Laughter] um boy what about your own what's uh what's been the darkest place you ever gone in your mind did you wrote that down in my mind in your mind do you ever consider suicide I ..."
The Path to Recovery
In this segment, Bobby discusses his journey to sobriety and the steps he took to confront his addiction. He reflects on the role of therapy and support systems in his recovery process. Bobby emphasizes the importance of addressing childhood trauma and the ongoing work required to maintain mental health.
"how much was that connected to losing your father how much was that connected to uh rehab and that kind of stuff alcohol drugs all the same thing dude it's all the same thing man it's it's um it's all..."
Facing Fears and Finding Clarity
Bobby shares insights into his recovery journey, including the fear of relapse and the clarity he has gained since getting sober. He discusses the rigorous therapy program he attended and the importance of confronting his past. This segment highlights the transformative power of self-reflection and the commitment to personal growth.
"this baggage okay so how you're naked in Arizona in a hotel room face down or face up or on the side or what's your favorite uh when you go to a dark place no the floor on the bed or so what happened ..."
Embracing Life After Darkness
Bobby concludes with a hopeful message about his current state of mind and the joy of living without the weight of addiction. He reflects on the love and support he has in his life and the importance of staying connected to his recovery. This segment encapsulates the journey from darkness to light and the ongoing commitment to a healthier future.
"why'd you know well what what gave you the sense that you're gonna relapse there was a couple of things that happened in my life that um were very shocking to me and um I I just and I wasn't going to ..."
The Weight of Fame
In this segment, Bobby discusses the complexities of fame and recognition. He reflects on his introverted nature and social anxiety, revealing how he feels both joy and discomfort when fans approach him. Bobby highlights the bittersweet nature of these interactions, where brief connections can lead to emotional goodbyes, illustrating the duality of celebrity life.
"my life not just in my career with all of it you know I mean I have so much to lose I have so many people that love me I just don't want to be there again you know let me ask you sorry you've talked a..."
Moments of Connection
Bobby recounts a touching encounter with a young fan at a movie theater who expressed admiration for his work. He reflects on the importance of these moments, where he can offer encouragement and support to aspiring comedians. This segment captures the essence of connection and the impact of positive interactions on both fans and celebrities.
"you've never seen a movie and I've seen The Godfather yeah I bet you money you've seen Dr Zhivago yes yes yeah like you like historical sweeping yeah Schindler's List yeah yeah yeah yeah if it's not h..."
Navigating Recognition
Bobby discusses the nuances of being recognized in public, particularly the differences in how men and women approach him. He shares humorous anecdotes about fans' reactions and the awkwardness that can arise from mistaken identity. This segment highlights the challenges and joys of fame, as well as the social dynamics involved in celebrity interactions.
"yeah it's a little little moment of experiencing love it's like it does feel like celebrating life together you smile at each other and so on although you did say I think in a recent podcast that you ..."
A Unique Encounter
In a surprising twist, Bobby shares a peculiar experience at a 7-Eleven where a fan approached him with an unexpected request. This moment illustrates the unpredictable nature of fame and the unique interactions that come with it. Bobby reflects on the kindness and love behind the encounter, showcasing the lighter side of celebrity life.
"or no but men the thing I've discovered is men are more likely to approach aggressively right uh women recognize you they have a different way of like double take uh they don't want to uh invade your ..."
The Carlos Mencia Controversy
Bobby delves into his complicated relationship with comedian Carlos Mencia, discussing the impact of loyalty and betrayal in their friendship. He reflects on the controversy surrounding Mencia's alleged joke theft and the difficult decision he made to distance himself. This segment explores themes of loyalty, integrity, and the challenges faced within the comedy community.
"can I give you a I think that was the thing because if you said can you give me a it would be it would be very difficult yeah yeah yeah no but I think there's more aggressive way of phrasing that but ..."
Cutting Ties with Carlos Mencia
Bobby Lee reflects on his complicated relationship with comedian Carlos Mencia, discussing the loyalty he felt towards him during their early days in comedy. He shares how Mencia helped him during tough times but ultimately had to make the difficult decision to cut ties due to Mencia's controversial reputation for joke theft. Lee expresses his lingering guilt and desire for Mencia to acknowledge his past mistakes.
"if I would have signed with a bigger management I don't know right but I will never leave her you know um I'll never leave my agent Matt you know the people go well you're at CAA that's amazing the on..."
The Importance of Self-Reflection
In this segment, Bobby Lee discusses the challenges of self-reflection, particularly in the context of Carlos Mencia's career. He emphasizes the need for comedians to acknowledge their past mistakes and the role of ego in preventing this self-awareness. Lee believes that true growth comes from being honest about one's shortcomings and learning from them.
"and so it's been difficult so you you don't think he self-reflected looking in the mirror about mistakes of the past at all like do you think he's aware I think it's ego you know I think that he for o..."
The Unique Aesthetic of TigerBelly
Bobby Lee shares insights into the unique aesthetic of his podcast, TigerBelly, and how it reflects his personality. He discusses his love for collecting designer toys and artwork, which influences the visual style of the show. Lee explains that the chemistry between him and co-host Khalyla is a key element, but the overall vibe is also shaped by his personal tastes and creative choices.
"people man you know Hitler all right what was the returning back to tigerbelly because you said uh kalala basically started it what's the origin story of tigerbelly you know when I met her oh by the w..."
The Birth of TigerBelly
Bobby Lee recounts the origin story of the TigerBelly podcast, highlighting how it began when his girlfriend Khalyla decided to start her own podcast. Initially skeptical, Lee eventually joined her, and their chemistry was evident from the start. He reflects on the importance of improvisation and spontaneity in their conversations, which contribute to the show's success.
"lo and behold I'm on it yeah you are so um I started this way so you know my friend David Cho do you know him he's an artist he used to have a podcast right called dvdasa and um he used to have me on ..."
Navigating Podcast Chemistry
In this segment, Bobby Lee discusses the dynamics of podcasting and the importance of chemistry between hosts. He shares his experiences with guests who either contribute to or detract from the conversation flow. Lee emphasizes the value of genuine interaction and the need for hosts to adapt to different conversational styles to create engaging content.
"it there I've had girlfriends that wouldn't be able to do it what what are you doing you know you have the skill set you know you're a sciency guy you spent all night long you know I mean you know I m..."
The Role of Authenticity in Podcasting
Bobby Lee talks about the significance of authenticity in podcasting and how it affects the listener's experience. He reflects on his own nervousness before appearing on the Lex Fridman podcast and the importance of being true to oneself. Lee believes that genuine excitement and openness can enhance the quality of conversations and create a more enjoyable atmosphere for both hosts and guests.
"chemistry is not so you have to remember that a lot of the podcasts I've done are like technical yeah and so you could still say a lot of stuff about like what what this project or whether it's physic..."
Creative Freedom vs. Audience Metrics
Bobby Lee discusses the balance between creative freedom and the pressures of audience metrics in podcasting. He shares his perspective on how focusing too much on numbers can stifle creativity and lead to anxiety. Lee emphasizes the importance of staying true to one's artistic vision and not letting external validation dictate the creative process.
"that's the magic it really is yeah uh so okay so the interesting thing about tigerbelly is there some weird like aesthetic to it it's really unique it's not just good it's also unique like in the way ..."
Trust and Team Dynamics
In this segment, Bobby Lee talks about the importance of trust in his professional relationships, particularly with his producer, George Kimmel. He emphasizes the rarity of finding someone trustworthy in the business and shares anecdotes that illustrate Kimmel's reliability and good-hearted nature.
"old saying never live in the results it's like if I if I podcast to make I'd like initially honestly when I did Tiger ballet we made no money for the first couple of years wow let me like like not eno..."
The Role of Fate in Connections
Bobby Lee explores the idea of fate and serendipity in forming connections, particularly in his career. He recounts how he met his producer, Gilbert, and how their collaboration felt destined, suggesting that certain relationships are meant to happen at the right time.
"love kalila why do you love slash hey George Kimmel your uh producer what's your favorite thing about him let's say that positive thing positive some compliments but you know I'll try yeah yeah I'll t..."
The Nature of Power
Bobby Lee and Lex Fridman discuss the complexities of power and leadership. Bobby reflects on the moral responsibilities that come with power and expresses his belief that he would not engage in violence or oppression if given absolute power, emphasizing ethical considerations.
"um also at the end of the day I know his heart and he really is a great guy he there's nothing about him like for instance you know he was over the other day and I go you know I bought this Keith wood..."
Dictatorship and Ethics
In a thought-provoking conversation, Bobby Lee contemplates the implications of being a dictator. He discusses the challenges of making decisions that please everyone and the potential for uprisings due to differing beliefs, particularly regarding women's rights and personal freedoms.
"nothing without you that's what I'm saying but that's what I mean yeah okay yeah so basically like because when I met him I was a part of this um YouTube studio called Maker Studios and he was just a ..."
The Burden of Absolute Power
Lex and Bobby delve into the psychological burdens of absolute power. Bobby shares his concerns about how power can distort one's perception of right and wrong, leading to distrust among loved ones and a loss of moral clarity.
"mentioned Karma there's there's a Karma thing it just if you put love out there in the world like certain doors open in a certain kind of way like they're almost waiting for you and then you walk thro..."
The Role of Karma
Bobby Lee discusses the concept of karma and how positive actions can lead to opportunities. He reflects on the idea that being kind and open can create pathways for success, suggesting a belief in a greater interconnectedness in life.
"and these kinds of things but I don't believe that as much for building a team but that's the engineering thing I think that's the the artist in you I'm less of an artist I think artists thrive in the..."
Creative Chemistry with Andrew Santino
Bobby Lee shares insights into his partnership with Andrew Santino on the Bad Friends podcast. He explains how their contrasting energies create a unique chemistry, emphasizing the organic nature of their collaboration and the importance of instinctual connections.
"because that's not true because with bad friends for instance right um I've had 12 people before Andrew Santino that asked me to do one with me yeah right and you know they just was it wasn't didn't w..."
The Complexity of Power Dynamics
In this segment, Bobby Lee and Lex Fridman discuss the complexities of power dynamics in relationships and business. Bobby reflects on how power can change people and the importance of maintaining trust and respect in personal and professional interactions.
"yeah but you trust yourself with power you play dictators what do you mean do I like because I feel like you would be because you said you're not an alpha male but in many ways um when you smash what'..."
Moral Dilemmas of Leadership
Bobby Lee contemplates the moral dilemmas faced by leaders and the potential for corruption. He discusses how power can lead to ethical compromises and the challenges of making decisions that align with one's values.
"you call it don't surprise right but so first you're gonna censor everybody who wants to even suggest the idea of Uprising and then and then one person gets out of line they run a red light okay that'..."
The Burden of Control
Lex and Bobby discuss the burdens that come with control and leadership. Bobby shares his concerns about how power can lead to a distorted view of reality and the importance of self-awareness in maintaining ethical standards.
"shouldn't even have a voice on it because you know I mean a woman like it's like if they created laws if white people men created laws for Koreans in America like you don't have the right to right so ..."
Reflections on Human Nature
In a candid conversation, Bobby Lee and Lex Fridman reflect on human emotions, including anger and regret. They discuss the importance of love and respect in relationships and the challenges of managing emotions in positions of power.
"like how much uh uh how much the ego starts to flare up how much just like the less uh Pleasant things about your nature come up you know I have a temper too like I have all that kind of stuff and uh ..."
Living as a Pop Star
Bobby Lee humorously imagines what it would be like to be Harry Styles for a day, expressing curiosity about the attention and lifestyle of a pop star. He reflects on the differences in social interactions and the ease of attracting romantic interest, showcasing the allure and challenges of celebrity life.
"fascinating it's fascinating this power thing uh let me ask you a bunch of ridiculous questions real quick okay if you can be someone else for a day someone alive today who you haven't yet met who wou..."
Surviving Alone on Earth
Bobby Lee contemplates what life would be like if he were the last person on Earth. He shares practical thoughts about finding food and shelter, as well as humorous ideas about acquiring sex dolls for companionship. This segment blends humor with existential musings about loneliness and survival.
"to see what it'd be like and how that would go about like how easy it would be you know what I mean yeah yeah uh okay like could you just walk up to the hottest chick at a Coachella and start making o..."
The Dilemma of Memory
In a thought-provoking exchange, Bobby Lee grapples with the idea of losing all past memories versus being unable to create new ones. He reflects on the importance of memories in shaping identity and the existential implications of living only in the present moment.
"then secondly it's like you know I'll probably go you know what I've thought about I would probably go to um San Marcos San Diego Vista because that's where the real doll factory is they just all of t..."
Confronting Mortality
Bobby Lee opens up about his fears of death and the unknown, discussing how he meditates on mortality. He shares insights on the nature of existence and the potential for nothingness after death, drawing on philosophical perspectives to explore the human experience of life and death.
"get to relive the memories you have as a science guy let me ask you a question sure are you afraid to die yeah of course I'm I'm not of course I am I think about it every day yeah I yeah I meditate I'..."
The Meaning of Life
In this reflective segment, Bobby Lee shares his thoughts on the meaning of life, emphasizing the wonder and mystery of existence. He encourages embracing the beauty of life and being in awe of the world around us, suggesting that the essence of life lies in appreciating the moments we have.
"moments in this life a few moments of Joy a few moments of trauma of suffering and that's it I know but here's the thing and you're wasting your time today talking to me and then you have you have a f..."