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Jocko Willink (Former Navy Seal): Use This Weird Trick To Overcome Fear, Anxiety & Self-Doubt!

Jocko Willink (Former Navy Seal): Use This Weird Trick To Overcome Fear, Anxiety & Self-Doubt!

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Jocko Willink is a retired U.S. Navy SEAL officer and New York Times bestselling author, he is also the host of the Jocko Podcast, and co-founder of the leadership training organisation, Echelon Front. 00:00 Intro 02:04 “I Wanted to Be a Navy SEAL” 03:50 What Is a Navy SEAL and the Special 'Hell' Training 06:58 What It Takes to Become a Special Force Agent 08:59 What Is the Point of Working This Hard? 10:25 Can You Teach This Crazy Drive? 12:23 Is Our WHY Important? 15:36 Your Excuses Will Destroy You 20:10 The Hack to Build Confidence and Belief 25:04 Why Imposter Syndrome Is Necessary 29:22 Why the Special Forces Leaders Ask Their Team for Advice 34:03 The Craziest Missions and Things I've Seen... 36:56 The Dark Side of War and Losing Friends 47:44 Dealing with Sadness & Grief 52:39 Decision Making & Taking Action 01:00:19 From a Leader POV I'm the Proudest When My Team Does This 01:02:09 Why You Should Serve Others 01:05:16 Don't Do This If You Want a Promotion 01:08:31 Leaving the Military 01:13:39 Why Discipline Equals to Freedom 01:18:40 Create a Routine System in Your Life 01:22:11 The Biggest Misconceptions About the Military and Myself 01:26:02 Toxic Masculinity Traits 01:34:45 Finding Fulfillment & the Importance of Bonding 01:39:57 The Answer to Achieving Success 01:42:09 Work and Life Balance 01:47:24 The Last Guest Question You can listen to the ‘Jocko Podcast’ and purchase Jocko’s products here: https://bit.ly/3Uk75hj Follow Jocko: Twitter - https://bit.ly/3UmcjJx Instagram - https://bit.ly/3w2zZsQ YouTube - https://bit.ly/4cY32i1 Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo Sponsors: Whoop: https://join.whoop.com/en-uk/CEO

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0:00 - 2:04
2:03 duration428 words

Lessons from a Navy SEAL

Jocko Willink shares insights from his 20 years in the Navy SEALs, focusing on discipline, decision-making under pressure, and leadership strategies. He emphasizes the importance of taking ownership of one's problems and the necessity of small, actionable steps to overcome challenges.

"this is what I learned from 20 years of being in the Navy Seals discipline Drive how to make decisions Under Pressure leadership strategy and tactics that you can apply a business and you can apply to..."

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2:04 - 3:50
1:46 duration309 words

The Dream of Becoming a Navy SEAL

Jocko reflects on his childhood aspiration to become a soldier, inspired by collecting toy soldiers. He discusses the moment he realized he could pursue this dream and how he chose the Navy SEALs as his path to becoming a commando.

"surprisingly I couldn't find an awful lot in your childhood that would indicate to me how you became the man that you are today and I say that because there's a bit of a stereotype that someone like y..."

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3:50 - 6:58
3:08 duration580 words

Understanding Navy SEALs

In this segment, Jocko explains what a Navy SEAL is, detailing the Special Operations component of the Navy. He breaks down the acronym 'SEAL' and describes the rigorous training that prepares them for operations in sea, air, and land.

"be a Navy SEAL mhm okay so I have to ask a very dumb question here which is what is a Navy SEAL so there's Special Operations which I guess you know from England this is the the the SAS and the SBS so..."

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6:58 - 8:59
2:01 duration396 words

The Challenge of SEAL Training

Jocko discusses the intense training process for Navy SEALs, particularly focusing on 'Hell Week.' He explains how this week simulates combat conditions and tests candidates' endurance, revealing that a significant percentage of trainees quit during this grueling period.

"Mo I would say most of the people that quit probably of of it's probably 80% of the quitters quit in that week it's been long discussed I think there's a book um called grit where they discuss what it..."

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8:59 - 10:25
1:26 duration305 words

What Drives SEAL Candidates

Exploring the characteristics of successful SEAL candidates, Jocko emphasizes the internal drive that keeps individuals pushing through adversity. He highlights that physical strength is not the only factor; mental resilience plays a crucial role.

"of the few things that you learn in basic SEAL training is to shrug your shoulders and go forward like one of the things they do is they'll they'll line you up on the ocean and this is in California a..."

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10:25 - 12:23
1:58 duration310 words

Can You Teach Resilience?

Jocko reflects on whether the drive to succeed can be taught. He shares insights on how some individuals possess an innate will to persevere, while others may need to cultivate this trait through experience and challenges.

"something I could teach you know or I could be court because I I look at someone like you who's you know done all the things that you've done through your life and I go did did you have some kind of i..."

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12:23 - 15:36
3:13 duration676 words

The Importance of a Strong 'Why'

In this segment, Jocko discusses the significance of having a strong motivation or 'why' behind one's actions. He shares examples of how personal reasons can fuel perseverance through difficult times, whether it's proving someone wrong or honoring a promise.

"having a y plays and I was thinking about you know if I just if I just lost my girlfriend or someone I'd gone through some severe rejection or someone in my life had died and their my parting promise ..."

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15:36 - 20:10
4:34 duration819 words

Excuses Will Destroy You

Jocko warns against the dangers of making excuses, explaining how they can undermine personal growth and success. He emphasizes the need for extreme ownership, where individuals take full responsibility for their circumstances and actions.

"people making excuses yeah what have you come to learn about the nature excuses and if they are our friends our enemies if they're ever useful your excuses will destroy you and take everything that yo..."

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20:10 - 25:04
4:54 duration1040 words

Building Confidence and Belief

Jocko reveals a 'hack' for building confidence and belief in oneself. He discusses the importance of taking ownership of one's actions and the transformative power of small, consistent steps towards improvement.

"barely made it through training and all of a sudden I'm saying hey you're in charge of this squad right here and you don't feel like you have the confidence to do it and so it comes time to make a dec..."

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25:04 - 29:22
4:18 duration860 words

Embracing Imposter Syndrome

In this segment, Jocko addresses the concept of imposter syndrome, explaining why it can be a necessary experience for growth. He encourages individuals to recognize their feelings of self-doubt as part of the journey towards success.

"coming to work for me and you're like I'm glad you hired me I'm ready to take over this department look out I'd be a little bit questioning the fact that you are so overconfident that you're going to ..."

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29:22 - 34:03
4:41 duration859 words

Leadership and Team Dynamics

Jocko discusses the importance of seeking advice from team members as a leader. He shares insights on how collaboration and valuing input can enhance decision-making and strengthen team cohesion.

"problem it you we will very rarely so you have to be able to detach and that's one of the the main things that I tried to teach young leaders when I was in the SEAL Teams it's the same thing that I tr..."

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34:03 - 36:56
2:53 duration426 words

The Craziest Missions

Jocko recounts some of the most intense and memorable missions he experienced during his time as a Navy SEAL. He shares stories that highlight the unpredictability and challenges faced in combat situations.

"War it's people being wounded people being killed in Iraq with the insurgents that we were fighting it's them torturing people mutilating their bodies raping beheading people horor but you know it's i..."

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36:56 - 47:44
10:48 duration1506 words

The Dark Side of War

In this emotional segment, Jocko opens up about the darker aspects of war, including the loss of friends and the impact of grief. He reflects on how these experiences shape a person's perspective on life and leadership.

"ious things and that's a reality and that's always been the reality and the best thing that I can do is well when I was in the military do my best to to stop that kind of atrocious behavior and when I..."

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47:44 - 52:39
4:55 duration853 words

Coping with Sadness and Grief

Jocko shares his personal strategies for dealing with sadness and grief. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging these feelings and finding constructive ways to cope and move forward.

"going to make a bunch of bad decisions because you're sad no no it doesn't doesn't work like that doesn't work like that you're sad okay you get emotional sometimes okay got it now get control of your..."

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52:39 - 1:00:19
7:40 duration1502 words

Decision Making Under Pressure

In this segment, Jocko discusses the critical nature of decision-making in high-pressure situations. He shares techniques for maintaining clarity and focus when faced with challenging choices.

"going to take a step because I'm never going to know everything and if I take the time to try and know everything everything will have changed by the time I know it so I'm going to absolutely take tha..."

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1:00:19 - 1:02:09
1:50 duration244 words

Pride in Team Success

Jocko expresses his pride as a leader when his team succeeds. He highlights the importance of fostering a culture of teamwork and shared accomplishments.

"watching my guys I could see my guys and I could see what they were doing and I could see one of the most beautiful things in the world which was guys that were exceptional at their job working togeth..."

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1:02:09 - 1:05:16
3:07 duration631 words

The Value of Serving Others

Jocko discusses the significance of serving others, both in leadership and personal life. He explains how this mindset can lead to greater fulfillment and success.

"friends and and that's not in fact if you're the type of person that doesn't take care of your friends you're not going to be a good seal you're not going to be a good seal if if you put yourself befo..."

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1:05:16 - 1:08:31
3:15 duration543 words

Avoiding Pitfalls for Promotions

In this segment, Jocko advises against certain behaviors if one is seeking a promotion. He emphasizes the importance of integrity and genuine leadership over self-serving actions.

"and say give me credit your credit goes down it's an unfortunate truth the minute you ask for the accolades your accolades are decreased because every you're looking out for yourself and everyone can ..."

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1:08:31 - 1:13:39
5:08 duration799 words

Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life

Jocko shares his experiences and challenges faced when leaving the military. He reflects on the adjustments required to adapt to civilian life after a career in the Navy SEALs.

"gosh it's harder to think of many greater senses of like purpose and fulfillment and Mission and then real life yeah so number one as I mentioned earlier remember but don't dwell and have you seen the..."

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1:13:39 - 1:18:40
5:01 duration800 words

Discipline Equals Freedom

In this powerful segment, Jocko discusses the concept that discipline leads to freedom. He explains how establishing routines and self-discipline can empower individuals to achieve their goals.

"being a slave to disease if you lack the discipline to work hard save your money you will end up a slave to finances if you lack the discipline to manage your time correctly you will end up with no fr..."

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1:18:40 - 1:22:11
3:31 duration682 words

Creating a Routine for Success

Jocko emphasizes the importance of creating a structured routine in life. He shares practical tips on how to establish habits that promote productivity and personal growth.

"really the foundation of my performance so if I if I'm unslept and I show up at work the chance that I'm not going to show up correctly in a variety of ways emotionally creatively whatever is high and..."

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1:22:11 - 1:26:02
3:51 duration759 words

Misconceptions About the Military

In this segment, Jocko addresses common misconceptions about the military and his personal experiences. He aims to clarify the realities of military life and leadership.

"know like Navy SEAL that comes with an identity package yeah I think the biggest misconception I think and it's it's it's not just me but it's really the military in general is the misconception of th..."

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1:26:02 - 1:34:45
8:43 duration1680 words

Toxic Masculinity Traits

Jocko discusses the concept of toxic masculinity and its traits. He explores how these traits can be detrimental and emphasizes the importance of healthy masculinity.

"wondering because it's it's never been as clear I think what a man should be you know when you're raising a kid that's a man or you when you're being a man yourself um what do you think a man should b..."

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1:34:45 - 1:39:57
5:12 duration935 words

Finding Fulfillment Through Bonding

In this reflective segment, Jocko talks about the importance of bonding with others for personal fulfillment. He shares insights on how relationships contribute to a meaningful life.

"words Brotherhood purpose these are things that the seals clearly have in huge huge amounts is there anything else that you'd add to that list of what it takes to feel fulfilled yeah Jiu-Jitsu it's it..."

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1:39:57 - 1:42:09
2:12 duration303 words

The Key to Achieving Success

Jocko reveals his thoughts on what it takes to achieve success. He emphasizes the need for hard work, resilience, and a clear vision to reach one's goals.

"you're talking about young men that might not have any direction right now go go do something that's hard go try and accomplish something that's hard you may win you may lose you may succeed you may f..."

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1:42:09 - 1:47:24
5:15 duration562 words

Balancing Work and Life

In this segment, Jocko discusses the importance of maintaining a work-life balance. He shares strategies for managing time effectively while pursuing personal and professional goals.

"right direction so what does that mean that means that my wife picked up the slack that's what she did so I was out of B she recognized it she recognized that I had a job and that that job was importa..."

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1:47:24 - 1:50:00
2:36 duration397 words

Final Thoughts and Q&A

Jocko wraps up the discussion by answering questions from the audience. He shares final thoughts on the themes discussed throughout the podcast, reinforcing the importance of discipline and ownership.

"thank you what would you be thanking them for everything okay thank you thank you for I mean the list is quite ex extensive but thank you for putting your life on the line to make the world a better p..."