Lessons from 1,000+ YC startups: Resilience, tar pit ideas, pivoting, more | Dalton Caldwell (YC)

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Seeing everything people apply to YC  with.

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People all have the same idea.

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One of these themes is simple,  pragmatic advice. Sell shit, make money.

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One of my mantras is just don't die.

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Being coached and being reminded of the fundamentals  and basics puts you in the right mindset.

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You have this concept of tarpit ideas.

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Seems like an unsolved problem.

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You'll get  all this positive feedback from the world and people have been starting  that startup since the '90s.

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Recently you put out a request for startups, 20  categories of ideas and the YC wants to fund.

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We're trying to mix up some  of the information diet about what kind of ideas people might be  contemplating they are currently.

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A lot of people say you're the king of the pivot.

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A good pivot is like going home.

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It's warmer,  it's closer to something that you're an expert at.

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Are there other patterns you find  across startups that do well?

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There's a lot of founders  that come this close to it, all being over and through  sheer will just keep it going.

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Today my guest is Dalton Caldwell.

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Dalton  is managing director and group partner at Y Combinator where he's worked for over  10 years across 21 different YC batches, including working closely in the earliest days  of Instacart, Retool, Brex, Deal, DoorDash, Webflow, Replit, Amplitude, Whatnot, Razorpay  and 20 other Unicorns.

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Prior to Y Combinator, Dalton was the co-founder and CEO of imeem, which  was acquired by Myspace, and Co-founder and CEO of App.

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net, which was an early ads-free competitor  to Twitter.

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Dalton has seen and worked with more startups than nearly any human alive and in our  conversation we get incredibly tactical and deep on the startup journey.

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Why it all comes down  to simply not losing hope and not letting your startup die.

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What to do when your startup is  struggling and how to know when it is time to give up.

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What makes a great pivot and signs it's  time to pivot.

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How to actually talk to customers.

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Why every single startup goes through a point  where they feel like all hope is lost.

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Why investors say no to startups.

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What most often  leads to startups failing.

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Why you need to avoid over-delegating early on.

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Plus startup ideas  that you should avoid.

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Dalton, thank you  so much for being here and welcome to the podcast. Yeah. Thanks so much, Lenny.

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I'm really  excited to talk to you today. It's been great.

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So to prep for this podcast interview, I asked  a bunch of founders that worked with you during YC what advice you shared with them along  the journey that was most transformative to the way they think about product, the way  they think about building their startup, the way they operate.

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And there's a bunch of  themes that emerged and I'm going to touch on a number of these themes.

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One of these themes is  just how often you get to very simple pragmatic advice and how much of your message is just  sell shit, make money, don't run out of money.

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Why do you think founders need to hear this  advice, which is seemingly simple and obvious?

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Have you ever seen in NBA basketball or college  basketball where they have the coach mic'd up and it shows what they're actually saying in the  huddle?

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You ever listen to what they actually are saying?

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They're like, "Okay, we need to really  focus and get the ball and win this game."

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If you actually listen to what the greatest, smartest,  most successful athletes are talking about, if you listen to what Tiger Woods is saying to his  caddy, it all sounds like pretty mundane stuff.

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It's not like what Tiger Woods is talking about  with his caddy is some impossible to decipher jargon.

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It's like, "Yeah, you really need to  keep your head down on this one." It's things like that.

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And I think the reason this is true  is that even if you're in the best in the world, being coached and being reminded of the  fundamentals and basics is what puts you in the right mindset and that you already know  everything, right?

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You're at the top of your game if you make it to the elite levels of  being a startup founder or basically doing anything that's really hard psychologically.

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And so yeah, one of my mantras is just don't die.

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Just keep your startup going. Just keep going.

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And I say that over and over again and honestly, that is often what people tell me is the most  impactful thing I said.

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It's not that I said some Ninja 5D chess mood that they never  would've thought of before.

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It's just the constant affirmation that continuing to keep  going and doing high quality reps is the game.

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I know that you'd give a talk  that's exactly called that, How Not To Die.

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Just to pull on  this thread a little bit more, what is the general advice you share there  for people that also don't want to die?

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The way to summarize that is if you look at all  the startup stories that we have at YC and all the companies we funded over all the years, the  underlying theme is that rationally the founder should have given up at some point.

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And so again,  let's talk about Airbnb, obviously something you know a lot about.

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They probably should have shut  down three or four times before they got into YC.

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It objectively wasn't working.

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They were basically  ruining their lives, they were disappointing their parents, everything was wrong and it was a purely  irrational act for the founders of Airbnb to keep working on their goofy startup.

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And again, that's  just one story.

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If you look across the portfolio of YC and non-YC companies, there has to be this  irrational intention to keep going even when the world tells you it's not working and you feel  completely defeated.

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And you likely have to go through this many times and have these near-death  experiences.

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And then you get lucky and then you look like an overnight success. Right?

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And so that is the theme that is a summary and I provide lots of data and lots of  stories there, but this is one of those things that the longer I have this job, the  more I really, really believe this is true.

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What's your advice on the flip side of that where  there's a lot of startups, especially these days that are just super struggling, have been added  for a while, there are mental health challenges, they'd be very sad if they had to shut this thing  down, but often it's probably the right move?

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What's your advice to folks on deciding, okay,  actually does make sense to give up in this case?

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I think this is a nuanced question and it's  hard for me to say something on a podcast that'll actually be useful to people,  but here's a couple of thoughts.

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One, are you still having fun?

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Do you still enjoy doing  what you're doing?

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Do you enjoy spending time with your co-founders?

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Is this actually a fun thing  you're doing?

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And if the answer there is yes, I would tend to lean on the keep going.

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And then  if it's more of, wow, this is actually profoundly affecting me a negative way and my relationships  with people in my life and I don't really want to work with my co-founder anymore and things like  that, then I would lean on the probably don't do it anymore.

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Something that a lot of the folks that  turn it around have in common is they actually do love their customers and they love their product.

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And again, in the Airbnb story, again, you know it really well, but they really liked Airbnb  and they liked working with each other and they liked the first host that they met and they  knew all their names.

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You know what I'm saying?

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They loved their startup even though it was going  bad.

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And so that's to me a signal to keep going is that you really, really love what you're doing  and the people you're doing it with and you love your customers and you love the problem.

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Versus  where you're just like, "Yeah, I could care less about any of those things.

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I'm just having a bad  time."

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Harder to be encouraging in that situation.

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And this is a fixable situation.

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You can make  it more like the thing you love, can't you? Yeah.

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This is actually very practical and great  advice.

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This is something people can sense, "Okay, am I actually enjoying this?

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Do I  want to keep doing this?"

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Versus, "Man, such a drag that I have to keep running  this startup."

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Is there anything you could say to folks that are just like, "I can't  stop because it'll feel like I failed"?

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If it's really going poorly or if you're having  a really bad time, it's no big deal.

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No one will remember that you shut down your company probably  in 10 years or 20 years time.

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As long as you have integrity, as long as you're an honest person,  as long as you handle yourself well through good times and bad, people will remember you  fondly.

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We have such a short life.

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There's only so many years we get to have our careers, doing  something that makes you miserable and the only reason you're doing it is to avoid losing face  and you know in your heart is not going to work, I don't know, that seems like a pretty big  opportunity cost on literally your life. Right?

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Yeah, that's exactly what I tell founders  all the time. Life is short.

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There's no need to force yourself to work on this.

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And I really like your point of just, is it still enjoyable?

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Do you like working  with your founders?

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Following this thread of the struggle training a little bit more, one  of the founders that worked with you during YC, his name is Danny Alberson, shared a story  how during one of the batches of YC, one of the founders raised his hand and asked you, "What  is wrong with our batch?

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Everyone is struggling, nobody is doing well.

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What have we done  wrong?"

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And you shared a story about Brex that made everyone feel a little better.

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Does  that ring a bell and if so, can you share that?

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That definitely happened and I think the  story is the story of the Winter-17 batch.

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And in the Winter-17 batch, I funded  something like, I don't know, 35, 40 companies in my group.

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So we subset them into  groups.

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So it wasn't a lot of companies and I knew all of them really well.

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And founders can't help  but compare themselves with other founders all the time about who's doing well and who's not  doing well.

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And there was this one company in my group, this batch, it was called Vyond,  that was their name at the time and it was a VR headset thing from these Stanford dropouts.

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And they basically showed up to group office hours and were just ashamed and they're like,  "Our idea is horrible.

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We might want to shut our company down.

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This is really embarrassing."

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I had to beg them to not give up basically.

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And if you would've asked people in the batch  what the worst company was, I think they would've said this one.

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Again, not because they  were bad people but the founders themselves seemed despondent about how it was going.

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And then funnily enough, this is in the story too, there was another startup also in my group called  Cashew, which was this P2P Venmo, excuse me, in the UK and it was going really poorly also  and not growing.

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And so if you just took this snapshot in time in the middle of the batch  of who is definitely not doing well, it would clearly have been this Vyond company and this  Cashew company.

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And so to cut to the chase, Vyond changed their idea and got really excited about  it and renamed to Brex and this was Brex, which is like a decacorn.

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And Cashew changed their idea and  renamed to something called Retool.

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And so out of my 35 companies, the ones that objectively seemed  the worst in terms of everything is going bad, were by far, in retrospect, the most  successful companies in that group. Wow.

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Wait, so you're saying  Brex was a VR headset company?

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They thought it was really high-tech.

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They  want to do a really high-tech startup, and so they're like, "We're going to  build a new VR headset."

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And yeah, they were good programmers, but they  just didn't know anything about optics or the things you might want to be  an expert in to build a headset.

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Wow, that's an amazing story.

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It's a great segue  to just another theme that emerged from talking to founders about advice that you've shared.

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A lot  of people tell me you are the king of the pivot of helping people figure out how to pivot.

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I'm  curious just what you've seen makes a good pivot.

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Usually a successful pivot gets warmer instead of  colder from what you're an expert at and somehow builds on what you learned on the prior  idea. Right?

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And so in the case of Brex, it was they had worked on a FinTech company in  Brazil when they were younger, and so I'm like, "You need to work more on the thing all about and  not the thing nothing about."

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And that was what worked for them.

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In the case of Retool, it was the  same thing.

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They had built similar internal tools both at their internships as well as for Cashew.

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They had all these dashboards they built to operate their Venmo competitor.

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And so they knew  a lot about what to build in the case of postprod, pivoting and through idea, they knew a lot about  analytics and had strong opinions about it.

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And so it was much closer than what the original idea is.

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In the case of Zip, Rujul knows a lot about a lot of things and he knew a lot about the crazy  picture and process at Airbnb because he worked there.

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A good pivot is like going home.

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It's  warmer, it's closer to something that you...

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And it never occurred to you that this thing you  know all about would be a good idea or maybe you consciously are like, "I don't want to work  on this because burnt out on it."

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Sometimes someone has to get over this barrier they have  on why they don't want to work on a certain idea. These are amazing.

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I like how modest you are.

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I'm like, "Oh, here's a big idea."

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And then you just give very tactical items to look for.

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So  essentially a good pivot in your experience is you're getting closer, warmer towards something  you have actual experience in, and two, it builds on something you've done.

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Can be essentially  the core idea of a pivot, right? Where you're...

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In the example of Segment, which is obviously  a really big successful company, they started with something to tell your professor you were  confused in class.

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It was software that they sold to universities.

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And then they ended up pivoting  to something like a mixed panel competitor after two years and it's because they learned about  how analytics works running their first idea, okay?

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And then no one wanted to adopt their  mixed panel competitor.

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And so they were like, "We should make this JavaScript thing that you  embed on your website that can send events to multiple endpoints at the same time so that  way people would be willing to try our mixed panel competitor side by side with mixed panels to  show that it's better."

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And then they were like, "Oh yeah, no one actually wants that.

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They  just want this JavaScript to send events to different locations."

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And so there's  no way those founders could have started with the final idea. You get what I mean?

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There was no universe where they would've made up the idea for Segment because they didn't  know anything about how analytics worked, but because they were grinding for multiple  years and became experts on these things is a side effect of their earlier ideas.

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They  ended up with really good unique insights.

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I think that's a really important point  there is you don't need to necessarily have that experience before you start the company,  could come from trying to build the company. Exactly.

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A big question people are always  wondering is, should I pivot?

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Is this the time to pivot?

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Should I keep trying  this idea?

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What's your advice there of just, okay, now you should really be  thinking about something else?

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Again, this is one of those where  I like to give very bespoke nuanced advice on a case by case basis  to the folks in YC.

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But again, just to give you a preview of how I would think  about it, I would look at how many more ideas the founder has on how to make it grow.

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If  it's not going well and you're out of ideas, that is usually a good time to pivot.

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But when you  have half a dozen or a dozen really good growth ideas that you haven't tried yet, try them. Right? Hey, give it a shot.

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Again, in the Airbnb story, right?

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They tried all sorts of stuff including  cereal and conventions.

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They had a bunch of zany ideas on growth and they didn't run out of them.

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And so I think when there's still gas in the tank on an idea that might be a reason to stay the  course.

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And when literally the founder is like, "Yeah, I don't know, I guess maybe we  should pay influencers or something."

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When that's the kind of ideas they're coming up  with, that might be a better sign to pivot.

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That is incredibly helpful.

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Coming back to  Zip real quick, they went through I think six different pivots before they landed on this  idea that is now a billion-dollar business.

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Is there anything from that specific journey  that you found really interesting?

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Because they went in so many different directions  like accounting, marketplaces and- Yeah.

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I think in the example of the Zip founders,  they were both such great experts and I knew Rujul really well.

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He actually worked with me at YC as  a visiting partner.

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And so I was really close to Rujul and he had done this marketplace  called FlightCar when he was younger, which was raised a series B, it didn't work out,  but it was a really cool company.

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And I had a lot of confidence in his competence on running a  business and executing fast and just having great instincts.

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He really knows the fundamentals  and the problem was they weren't as clear on what market to go into, is still with me.

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And so I  actually suggested to do something in their case, again, this is very bespoke, but my suggestion was  to start by looking at what companies are publicly traded and/or owned by private equity that are  large and that also are hated by their customers, and to try to intentionally find where  there's a knowable big market within incumbent combined with the software is horrible. And they did that.

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They basically found out about all this procurement software and what the state  of the art was and that was the prompt.

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Again, maybe he told you this, that  was basically the process. He did tell me that.

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I love that  example and piece of advice so much.

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I don't know why more people  don't do this.

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Basically find a large incumbent with very low NPS and try  to disrupt them. So straightforward.

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Yeah, I mean, I can't promise that works  for everyone, but again, in the very bespoke situation with Rujul, it worked really well  because he actually knew exactly once he locked in on that prompt, oh man, he ran a masterclass.

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They did an A-plus job, was really good.

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Also Lou, his co-founder, credit to him too. Of course. Sorry. Yeah.

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We got to give Lou  the shout-out. Lou did an amazing job.

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I just didn't know Lou as well before he did YC.

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But  you're right, we got to give Lou the credit.

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I was watching your chat with Michael Seibel  talking about pivots and either you or he used this phrase of you want to move towards the  mountains in the desert to find the gold of a new startup idea versus the middle  of the city.

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You're unlikely to find gold in the middle of San Francisco.

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Is there  anything along those lines that you can share?

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Yeah, I think maybe this pertains into what  we see from applications and interviews, which is from where I sit seeing everything people  apply to YC with and what they interview with and whatnot.

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People all have the same idea.

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Basically  imagine this, imagine your information consumption where you're listening to the same podcast, wink,  wink, you're reading the same people on Twitter, you're reading the same blog post.

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Basically you  have the same information diet of all these other founders and you're friends with all the same  people.

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Does it seem surprising then that you would all end up with similar startup ideas  or similar philosophies on what makes a good startup idea? Of course you are.

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So this is  the metaphor on cities is that if you just are following the same principles and have the same  information flow into your brain, you're going to come up with the same ideas with everybody else.

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And so the prompt here is to try to go more off the beaten path either from your personal  experience, like in the case of Brex and Retool or Whatnot.

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There was no one else trying  to build marketplaces for Funko Pops.

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Go deeper in your own personal interests or experience  to find something that just your exact peer wouldn't come up with in exactly the same way.

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And  again, the Zip example, I don't think other people were trying to build wonky procurement software.

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That was not an idea that we saw much of.

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And so again, the prompt to people is try to mix up  what your information diet is or what areas of expertise you have and mine that well, versus just  having all the same thoughts as everybody else.

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And so again, let me give you one more example.

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A few years ago, startups around trucking were super new and fresh because no one was doing them  and they worked really well and then it became completely conventional wisdom to do trucking  related startups.

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I'm not trying to diss anyone, but you'll see things that become  fashionable really quickly because someone found success in this unfashionable  space and then it becomes fashionable.

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This is a good segue to something I definitely  want to spend time on, which is you have this concept of tarpit ideas, which are essentially  ideas people all gravitate towards and get stuck in and either pivot into and then can't pivot out  of or try to pivot out of.

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And essentially it's just consistently bad startup ideas that people  continue to try to start.

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Can you just talk about this and then what is examples of just bad startup  ideas that people should stop trying to start?

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For people that are familiar with this terminology  from us, sometimes they get defensive and don't get what we were saying.

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By definition it is only  a tarpit if it seems like it's not.

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If it's just a regular idea that is hard, that is not a tarpit.

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The weird aspect of what we call a tarpit idea is an idea that a lot of people come up with and then  it seems like an unsolved problem and you get lots of positive feedback for. Right?

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And you have a  really good set of arguments that it's a really good startup idea.

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And that's different than  a bad startup idea.

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Do you get what I'm trying to say?

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A bad startup idea is, I don't know,  something that is obviously bad or something where you just can't get any positive feedback  on.

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But some of the most common tarpit would be something like building an app to coordinate with  your friends to decide where to go out at night or where to meet up with people, which is really,  it's coming from a good place. It's a good idea.

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If you ask your friends, "Hey, would you like  an app for us to coordinate to hang out more so we can be friends?"

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They're like, "Yeah, I  would love that."

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You'll get all this positive feedback from the world.

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And man, people have been  starting that startup since the '90s and so you can validate it.

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Part of being a true tarpit is  that you can get good initial validation. Do you get what I mean? And so anyway.

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And honestly  I worked on tarpit ideas myself as a founder, which is a music discovery.

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This is something  I did in my first startup.

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Music startups are hard and trying to be like, "Oh, we're going to  fix music discovery."

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This was classic things where you can get lots of positive feedback  and even get users to work on those things, but there are aspects of it that make it  a very hard idea. So does that make sense? Absolutely. I'm also guilty of this.

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I had  this startup called Localmind that allowed you to talk to people, check-in in various  locations around the city, on Foursquare and Google back in the day and asked them, "How's  it going?"

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And everyone when they used it, they're like, "Holy shit, this is the most  incredible thing I've ever seen.

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I could see what's happening at this bar that I'm about  to go to."

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And then they never use it again.

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Do you remember when Foursquare  clones was all anyone worked on for- Yeah. Years?

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They told us Foursquare is going to own  this.

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There's no way this idea you're building is going to be its own thing.

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And  now, yeah, Foursquare is a B2B business. Yeah.

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And all the Foursquare clones, if they  didn't pivot out of doing what they're doing, wouldn't have worked.

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So anyway, that's a tarpit,  is just something that's super appealing and a lot of people do it.

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And then you can get validation  and that's why is a tarpit, is it draws you in and you get stuck because it seems like it's a  good idea and you get all this positive feedback.

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Along these lines, I was talking to a founder  recently and she's asking me, "What causes an investor to say no to you when you're trying  to raise money from them?"

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And I know every investor has a very different perspective on  what turns them off to a startup, but is there anything that you find is just like, here, if  you do these things, investors will say no.

27:09

Maybe my best advice here is for founders to  put themselves in the shoes of investors and just imagine what their life is like and how if  you are in their shoes you would make decisions.

27:21

And so given this framework, a lot of investors  just don't make that many investments and as per what we talked about earlier, life is short.

27:27

And  so there's lots of things that an investor that in their hearts thinks it is pretty good and  they're like, "Oh, I like this person and I like their pitch, but I only am going to do a few  investments.

27:37

And so even though I really like a lot about this, I'm going to say no."

27:43

And I often  think that founders think that there's some secret truth that's being held from them on why someone  says no or they want more feedback. "I need feedback."

27:57

That's like, well, the feedback is we  didn't want to invest and it really is just that.

28:05

And so I think if you put yourself in  the shoes of an investor of like, "Hey, I only could do a few of these a year, I  have very limited budget."

28:08

They're really just trying to pick the things that they're either  personally most excited about or things that they think can be truly phenomenally big in some  way.

28:16

Or again, I know you do investments too, so it's that you only get so many shots as  an investor.

28:22

And so anything that doesn't seem like this is the one, this is the one I  want to do is a no.

28:31

And that that's actually why they're saying no versus, "Oh, you  had a bad zoom setup or something.

28:38

Oh, we didn't like what color your shirt was. We said  no."

28:44

I don't think that's how this actually works.

28:51

I think that's such a good piece of advice  that it's not necessarily they don't believe in what you're doing, it's they have  better options and they're waiting for something that hits the higher bar  because they have a lot of options. Yeah.

29:00

Because again, if you ask someone  or put yourself in the investor's shoes, wouldn't you be making decisions the  same way?

29:04

Usually founders are like, "Yeah."

29:07

If you do that exercise, a lot  of this starts to make way more sense.

29:14

Specifically when you're evaluating  startups.

29:14

I wasn't going to go into this, but I think it might be interesting, is market size.

29:18

How do you think about the  importance of large TAM as an investor YC?

29:25

I think it really depends on what stage you're  investing at and it's absolutely critical the later stage you get. Right?

29:31

If you're  going to invest in a very high valuation, it is really important.

29:36

The earlier you  go, the less it matters.

29:36

And some of the most phenomenally good startups, if  you were really pedantic about it, the TAM would be tiny.

29:50

The TAM of Uber would  be nothing, right?

29:50

The TAM of Airbnb would've been nothing.

29:59

TI funded Razorpay, which is I  think the largest payment processor in India, and the TAM of that was tiny because no one was  using credit cards in 2015 in India.

30:05

So you had to believe that the size of the credit  card industry in India would 100X.

30:10

Well, guess what happened?

30:14

You know what I'm saying?

30:14

So  I'm not saying that having a large market someday doesn't matter, of course it does eventually.

30:23

But  trying to be super pedantic about market size when it's a pre-seed company or someone applying to YC,  it's just not something I'd put a lot of thought. And again, Whatnot.

30:34

What's the TAM of the  collectible Funko Pop industry? I don't know.

30:41

I don't think it's that big, man.

30:41

I don't know  if you did that analysis when you invested, but I think is pretty small, but I wasn't worried about  it.

30:44

That was the last thing I was worried about.

30:49

It makes so much sense that at YC you  don't think about it that much because of, as you said, many startups pivot  anyway.

30:52

So if you like the team- Yeah.

30:56

And I'm not saying it's not important, it's  not...

30:56

And the things I'm worried about is like, hey, how do you get users? Hey, how do you grow? Things like that.

31:00

Are you making something people want?

31:05

Those are the things I'm really worried  about as opposed to, ooh, I ran an Excel model and I'm worried this might not be a big  enough TAM.

31:10

That's not the top of my list.

31:14

I think it's important to acknowledge that  a lot of investors are very...

31:14

YC I think is unique in a lot of ways where you invest  very early and you help people through this journey.

31:22

A lot of investors are very focused on  TAM, so you may find you're getting turned down because they don't think there's a big enough  market for you to build a big business, right? Yeah.

31:32

Or that you're asking them to believe a  crazy leap of faith that, again, they could say, "Well, it's theoretically possible you'll  be able to sell more than Funko Pops, and I understand that that is your pitch, but I  have other opportunities that are less risky."

31:48

You know what I'm saying?

31:48

A lot of founders make  the argument that the TAM is big, and you can say, "Wow, that's a really interesting argument and I'm  not going to argue with you about it, but no, I'm not going to..."

32:00

And so again, it's hard to get  someone to engage in a debate about TAM even if you have some proof points.

32:06

Ultimately, a lot of  investors just don't like that risk. Fair enough. Fair enough.

32:15

Going in a slightly different  direction.

32:15

So someone else that worked with you, another Lenny, Lenny Bogdonoff  who started a company called Milk, and then he was head of growth at OpenAI for  a bit.

32:24

He asked me to ask you about things product leaders and startups should  watch out for. Does that ring a bell?

32:35

I don't remember the specific office hours,  but I understand the question and I of course remember Lenny.

32:38

I think that the advice  that he's referencing here is just how important it is to not overdelegate and  for the founders to stay close to things, as well as watch out for the trap of hiring super  senior people with fancy resumes, really early in a startup.

32:56

I think that's what he's referencing  there.

32:56

And again, this is definitely one of those very basic things that we find ourselves  repeating a lot where they're like, "Yeah, yeah, I get it. Don't overdelegate. We get it, Dalton."

33:04

And then two years later they're like, "Wow, we overdelegated.

33:09

We need to go clean that up."

33:09

So that is probably the best product advice.

33:09

And the folks that are really great at product, the  founders that are always deeply in the weeds on product and still care a lot and are still talking  to customers, no matter how late stage it gets, again, I'm sure you experienced this in Airbnb  culture, but you can't delegate caring about your users and you can't delegate caring that  the product is great. That is so critical.

33:36

To make this even more real, what is  it that you see them do?

33:36

It's they hire a PM too early, they hire a senior  salesperson too early, what are the- Yeah, I think that you get pushed often  by investors to hire executives or to scale the team or you raise all  this money, you got to spend it, you got to show you're serious about growth and  building a world-class organization, whatever, stuff like that.

33:57

And so you end up with super  nice people with super shiny resumes from big tech companies.

34:04

"Oh wow, they did this amazing thing at  Google."

34:04

And then they hire them and then you wake up one day and you're like, "Oh wow, everything  went wrong."

34:10

It's not really anyone's fault, it's just that you took your eye off the ball and  this is what happens to first-time founders a lot.

34:24

How do you as a founder then have time to  do all these things?

34:24

Is there any guidance you give just like don't overdelegate,  don't over hire?

34:27

But also, you have 24 hours in a day?

34:34

Is it just find the time,  prioritize well, or is there more to it?

34:39

I think if you just care a lot about your  customers and you care a lot about the product, your instincts are pretty good on what  to spend time on.

34:44

And so for example, spending tons and tons of time hanging out with  investors and networking, it's probably the thing that I would be cutting.

34:56

You know what I'm saying?

34:56

It's what we talked about earlier.

34:56

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35:01

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Okay, so one of your current colleagues, not former colleagues, Gustav, was on  the podcast previously.

36:47

His episode is, I think, the fourth most popular episode  of all time currently, so no pressure. Oh, Cool. Okay.

36:54

I don't know if  I can feed with that. All right. I think you can.

36:56

So I asked him what is often  the most common reason a startup fails?

36:56

And his answer was they don't talk to customers, they  don't find product market fit.

37:04

They nothing else matters if they can't do that.

37:08

And so his  advice is talk to customers more often. So two questions here.

37:14

First of all, just is there  anything else you would add to why do startups fail?

37:19

I know we talked about some of these  already, but just what comes to mind there?

37:23

I completely agree with what Gustav said,  but to look at this from a different frame, I think is that the founders lose hope.

37:28

And when you and your heart is like, "Yeah, we're failing."

37:35

I can see it when I'm meeting  with a founder, when they resign themselves that they're failing versus.

37:41

First is when like,  "We got one more move in us. We got one more try."

37:47

You can see in their eyes when they feel like  there's more ideas or there's some last ditch Hail Mary thing.

37:52

It doesn't always work, but  it's almost like you have to not accept that you're going to fail.

37:59

And as long as you  don't accept that that's going to happen, there's usually a lot more moves you can try to  save the company.

38:05

Maybe it's to get profitable, maybe it's to do some other zany thing,  maybe it's to launch a new product.

38:17

And so it's pretty rare, I would argue, that the  cause of death is that they had lots of firepower and they were feeling really positive and they  just ran out of money.

38:22

That's actually more rare than founders think.

38:27

It's much more common that  they still have some money left.

38:27

I'm not saying a lot, but some money and they're just like, "Yeah,  I'm done. I'm out of ideas.

38:31

I don't want to do this anymore." And again, fair enough.

38:36

But do you  get what I'm saying?

38:36

I think founders are afraid that they're going to run out of money and that's  why they're going to shut down.

38:41

And it's way more common that their idea doesn't work and they have  a big fight with their co-founder, and then they can't agree on what to work on, and then they  just like, "I don't want to do this anymore." And they shut down.

38:54

That is the most common cause of  death, is something that sounds like that story. That is so interesting.

38:59

And again, this  comes back to your core advice. Don't die. Just don't die.

39:03

We talked about this already  of just sometimes it's actually okay to die.

39:11

And I guess just to refresh that lesson is if  you're not having fun anymore, maybe it's okay- Yeah, you're out of ideas.

39:16

You're like, "I'm  done."

39:16

If in your heart that you're done, you don't have to keep going through  the motions. No one benefits.

39:23

And you've also seen enough cases now,  you've shared a few of these where all hope was potentially lost, but they  kept going and then they turned into a huge success story.

39:32

And I think most people  don't see those examples.

39:32

I guess is there anything you can share just how often that  happens, how often you see that turn around?

39:41

I would argue that if we define it as the  company had a near death experience where it was going poorly and the founders seriously  wondered if it was all going to be over, a hundred percent of the time people go  through that where the founder's like, "Yeah, I guess we're done.

39:54

I guess we should  pack it in."

39:54

And at least you feel that way at some point in your startup journey, man, everyone  goes through that.

39:58

And again, there's gradations, people that actually truly got down to  very, very hard situations.

40:03

It's still a high percentage, maybe 50%.

40:08

I mean, you  can ask founders, there's a lot of founders that come this close to it all being over  and through sheer will just keep it going.

40:21

That is really empowering, I imagine, for  many founders hearing this of just knowing every single founder goes through, okay, I think  it's actually over.

40:25

Following on this real quick, the advice that Gustav shared, which is about  talking to customers.

40:32

I'm just going to keep trying to pull wisdom out of your head.

40:35

Do you  have any advice for just how to effectively talk to customers?

40:39

We're always hearing, "Talk  to customers. Build things they want." Easier said than done. You get a lot of asks.

40:43

You  get one customer asking for a lot of stuff.

40:47

There's a big company that's like, "Build  this thing, we'll pay a million dollars."

40:51

Just do you have general guidance of just what to  pay attention to and what to build versus avoid?

40:57

Yeah, I think when I talked to aspiring founders  about this a lot, they're like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, I talked to customers. We get it. Cool." And  I'm like, "Cool.

41:02

Well, how many customers do you talk to?"

41:06

And they're like, "Well."

41:06

And  they get really quiet.

41:06

And so I think this is one of those things like, hey, you should have a  healthy diet and exercise every day or whatever, where people know it and that doesn't mean they  do it.

41:15

And so I think to start with, you have to get out in the world and talk to people in person.

41:20

And you can't just hide behind your keyboard and call that talking to customers. Right?

41:27

I think  a lot of folks, the inclinations are to build a landing page and buy some Instagram ads and try  to get people to sign up for something.

41:34

And again, maybe that's something, but I think a lot of the  reason people do that is they're just shy and they don't want to put themselves out there because  it's a little awkward to go talk to people.

41:49

And you have to set yourself up to go out in  the physical world, get people to meet with you, get them to take you seriously, show them a  product you're building.

41:57

And so again, it'd be very tactical here.

42:01

You can do a self-assessment.

42:01

In the past month, how many in-person physical meetings have I had with potential customers?

42:08

Maybe you've done a lot, I don't know, listener, maybe you have, but it's shocking how many  companies I talk to, they're like, "Well, we're focused on raising our pre-seed round  before we talk to customers." Things like that.

42:23

And again, I think the core, core thing going  on is just social anxiety and looking stupid.

42:35

And I think you just got to get past that.

42:35

You  just got to start doing it until it doesn't feel bad anymore.

42:39

Think about how stupid the Airbnb  founders must have felt.

42:39

They were like, "Hey, you should rent out your house and I'm going to come  and sleep in your house, and here's an airbag."

42:51

The whole thing is a little awkward, right?

42:51

So you got power through the awkwardness of talking to people, and once you start  doing it's actually fun.

42:56

And so once you get used to overcoming this awkwardness, I think  people do much better at talking to customers.

43:07

When someone does this self-evaluation,  is there a heuristic that tells you this is enough? What do you look for? Is there a  number? How many per week? How many per month?

43:17

Yeah, I don't know if I know a good number.

43:17

I think it's look at your calendar and there should be 20 or 30% of your time  that the calendar says something like customer meeting, customer call, meeting with  who, meeting with this person.

43:27

And when the calendar is not that or it's all...

43:35

Again, what  you're actually doing is just buying ads to try to validate your idea, I don't think that's talking  to customers.

43:41

I think that's something else.

43:46

That's an awesome heuristic.

43:46

So roughly fifth of  your time at least should be talking to customers. Yeah.

43:50

And again, it depends on the idea  space you're working on.

43:50

Some are more, some are less.

43:53

So yeah, it should be a fair  amount of time.

43:53

And nothing substitutes for an actual conversation versus just  staring at analytics dashboards. Makes so much sense.

44:02

So the Airbnb is a classic  example of they went to New York and talked to their host and things like that.

44:07

Is there  another startup that comes to mind that did this really well, that found just a really  cool way and hustle to talk to customers?

44:14

Well, again, some of the companies  we talked about, I mean, for Brex, they were just talking to other people in  their batch and that worked extremely well.

44:23

Same with Retool is they just sold it inside of  the YC network.

44:23

I think with Zip, they were just beasts at getting companies on calls with them to  ask them about procurement.

44:28

And I think they had way more than 20% of their time.

44:35

When you looked  at their calendars, oh man, they were talking to customers a lot to build their first product and  pre-selling it before they built it.

44:41

Same with PostHog I guess that's a different go to market.

44:46

They launched this open source thing to start with and their calendars are filled with people that  were trying to implement the first open source version of PostHog or were so excited about it.

44:57

And people on Hacker News were excited about it and they had this huge influx of people  that were excited that PostHog existed and had lots of feedback and web reports.

45:07

It  wasn't always positive, but they never lacked for people that wanted to talk to them once  they launched that, which was very helpful.

45:17

On Zip, I actually have a lot of their story in  one of my series on how to build a B2B startup.

45:22

And what they did actually, as you know, is they  just called, DMed people on LinkedIn and ask them for advice on, "Hey, we're trying to understand  how you enjoy your current procurement products."

45:31

And then they ended up being early beta testers.

45:31

And I think they did hundreds of these.

45:31

They just- Oh, yeah, no, it was a numbers game.

45:38

They were just grinding at this.

45:39

And  so yeah, that was very good.

45:43

The other classic YC stories, the Collison  Collision, I think it's called or the- Collison Install. Oh, Collison Install. Okay.

45:49

Can  you tell that story briefly?

45:53

The Collison Install is what often happens with  customers, is that they say, "Yes, I want you buy your product."

46:00

And then they do not implement it,  they just go quiet.

46:00

There's no implementation and this is very bad if you're selling software  to someone.

46:07

If they never implement it, they're going to churn.

46:10

You basically failed on  the one yard line, okay?

46:10

And so they developed this tactic to be like, "Oh, well, I'm at the  neighborhood, I'll drop by your office to help you implement Stripe and just create..."

46:24

Again, it was  a little awkward like we talked about earlier, but you would be like, "Yeah. I'm in the neighborhood. How about I drop by?"

46:29

And then they would show up and they'd be like, "Cool, cool.

46:34

Can pull up your  text editor?" "Oh yeah, cool. All right." "Hey, can I drive?

46:40

Can I have the keyboard?"

46:40

And they would just install Stripe into the customer's website, smiling, being charming guys.

46:46

And they'd be like, "Oh, that's cool. Okay.

46:46

Well, can we roll out the website now?"

46:52

And they  basically would not go away until you finish the implementation of Stripe.

46:59

And again, it was  actually helpful because they were doing all this white glove service to get it implemented. That was very effective.

47:03

And I think the takeaway from that story is even when you get  a yes, you're not actually done with sales.

47:07

You have to finish the last mile to get the thing  implemented.

47:12

And they were very good at that.

47:18

That was an incredible story.

47:18

And now they're, I don't know, a hundred billion in  business and that's how it all begins. Yeah.

47:24

I was an early Stripe customer at my startup  and yeah, Patrick would...

47:24

We used Google Talk at the time.

47:30

Patrick would be sending me messages  on a weekly basis just checking in.

47:30

And so again, it's funny how successful these folks get,  but yeah, Patrick was very hands-on with all of his customers and was extremely available.

47:40

I can say that because I was one of them. Yeah.

47:47

And I'm sure he had social anxiety  going through all that.

47:47

That wasn't a comfortable thing to do, just keep pushing  people to install your software and deploy. Oh, surely not.

47:54

If you want your startup to work, this is just what you got to  do.

47:57

Comes with the territory.

48:01

This is going to be just a way broad question  and I don't know if you'll have an answer, but just are there other just patterns you  find across startups that do well?

48:04

This is maybe the $64 million question of just founders  and what they do that ends up leading to success.

48:15

I don't think personality types matter as much.

48:15

I've seen very quiet people, very extroverted people. You name it.

48:22

I've seen all sorts  of personality types.

48:22

So for me personally, I don't think there's a personality type that  people should copy and be like, "I need to be like this person. I need to be Steve Jobs. I  need to be Elon."

48:32

I don't really believe in that because there's just so much variation.

48:38

Tony  from DoorDash is so different than a lot of folks, and Rujul is so different and Grant from Whatnot.

48:44

These are all very, very different people.

48:44

Patrick is a different kind of person. Ryan from Flexport.

48:49

These are just very different personality types.

48:56

But the thing that I would argue folks that  build really big companies have in common is they just really want it and they really believe in  themselves and they really believe they can make it work.

49:10

And that they're somehow deep in their  internal psyche, there's something that's like, "I'm the one and I won't accept this not working."

49:16

And even though objectively there's all this data coming in, this isn't working, this is bad.

49:28

My employees want to quit, my executives want to quit. Whatever it is.

49:32

Somewhere deep  down in there, they're like, "Oh yeah, I'm going to make this work.

49:39

This company is going  to be big." And they just believe.

49:39

And it's almost like that internal gravitational force inside of  them is so large, it warps the world to bend to that will.

49:54

And people start to believe it because  they believe it so much and they convince their employees to believe in and they convince everyone  around them that this is going to happen for them.

50:03

And so again, this is not a personality  trait.

50:03

I'm arguing this is a core belief. So interesting.

50:10

And it connects so much to what  we've been talking about. Just don't die.

50:10

Don't lose hope in what you're working on.

50:14

A founder  hearing this might feel like, "Man, I don't know if I'm so convinced this is going to work."

50:19

In  your experience, how much of this is internally, they're so certain and convinced versus  externally, they need to show this confidence?

50:31

Well, I think it's internally they're convinced.

50:31

Yeah, I'm not sure it's external.

50:31

But, and this is the big but, no one has this at the early stages  when they don't have a good idea and they don't have customers and it's objectively not working.

50:41

And so again, I know a lot of founders are like, "Well, I don't feel that way.

50:46

Oh no, maybe I'm  an imposter and I shouldn't do a startup."

50:46

Well, of course you don't feel that way if you haven't  talked to any customers and haven't built a product.

50:55

But what usually happens is you pivot to  a good idea where you start with a good idea that you care about and customers you care about and  you launch it.

51:02

And the better the product does, the more obsessed you get with your own company.

51:09

I think in the case of Stripe, I don't want to tell Patrick's story for him, but I recall  him saying at some point he wasn't as sure that Stripe was going to work until they were  a year or two in.

51:19

And then once it started working and then they really believed in it.

51:24

But it wasn't like he woke up one day and like, "Stripe is the thing. It's going to work."

51:27

I  think you build conviction and you have this network effect virtual cycle where you get  work conviction.

51:35

The more customers reflect back to you and data reflects back to  you that you're on the right track.

51:45

This is exactly what Scott Belsky shared in  our episode when I asked him when to pivot is, do you have more conviction this is going to  work or less conviction over time?

51:50

And so I like that connection we just made there.

51:54

Okay, so  we've talked about all these way startups fail, bad ideas, tarpit ideas.

52:00

I want to go to the  flip side and talk about good startup ideas.

52:00

So recently you put out a request for startups,  which is essentially 20 categories of ideas that you want to fund, that YC wants to fund.

52:12

Can you share some of these ideas that you're excited about?

52:16

And basically you're looking  to fund and looking for founders to work on. Yeah.

52:21

And so we put out the request for  startups just to inspire people to maybe apply with ideas that aren't the ones that we  always see.

52:26

It's not prescriptive like we will only fund ideas on this list. It is not that  at all.

52:30

Remember what I talked about earlier with information diet?

52:35

We're trying to mix up some  of the information diet about what kind of ideas people might be contemplating. There aren't  currently.

52:40

And so a couple of the ones that we put out there, I made one about ERPs which  is enterprise resource planning software.

52:44

And I did that because I get so few applications  on that and they're usually pretty good.

52:50

And I just would love to see more people look  at that and learn about what the ERPs are, just because it's so rare that people apply with  that.

53:01

And now I have a feeling we're going to see a lot more applications working on that.

53:05

And  so it worked as intended, which is to introduce this idea space to founders that didn't even know  what an ERP was.

53:10

Now they'll go learn about it.

53:16

Another one is we'd like to fund open source  companies.

53:16

And so that's one of the RFSs where if more people apply to YC with open ideas, I think  we'd be pretty excited about that.

53:23

Maybe founders didn't realize that that would be something we  want to fund.

53:28

Same with space companies.

53:28

Yeah, we've had a lot of success with space companies.

53:32

Several of the folks that are actually going to space right now that aren't SpaceX or  YC companies.

53:38

And so I think sometimes founders feel like those ideas are too bold  and ambitious, but no, I'd love if more people apply with space companies.

53:48

And so think  about it that way, where we're trying to put out of idea spaces that perhaps someone  subconsciously filtered out as what might be a good startup idea.

53:58

And hopefully that creates  a new set of startup ideation for the person.

54:08

And we're going to link to this page in the  show notes for folks that want to explore.

54:11

I'll give a couple more real quick.

54:11

A way to  end cancer, no big deal.

54:11

Spatial computing, new defense technology, bringing manufacturing  back to America.

54:18

So a lot of hard science, deep tech stuff, which is maybe a  new... I don't know.

54:23

I imagine you guys have invested this in the  past, but it feels like trend. We totally have, right?

54:30

So these aren't like, "Oh, we've never invested in these  before."

54:31

It's more of like, "Hey, it'd be cool if we saw more applications  along these lines."

54:33

It would be nice because it currently feels a little bit under...

54:39

There  could be more startups working on this stuff.

54:46

Yeah, instead of the tarpit ideas.

54:46

A couple  more real quick, better enterprise glue. Yeah, I like that idea. Say more about that.

54:53

What does that look like?

54:55

The software to connect all these business  systems is usually pretty brittle and janky, and there's been lots of good startups  founded to solve this problem.

55:00

I think there's still a lot more room for improvement  and likely LLMs will improve.

55:04

We'll probably be able to create better and better glue  so all sorts of software systems can talk to each other.

55:12

And so again, very broad  idea.

55:12

But yeah, I think we'll see a lot of very successful companies where that's  the kernel of the idea they start with. Awesome. One last one.

55:20

Small fine tune models as  an alternative to gigantic generic ones. Yeah. Sweet.

55:26

And so we'll include this  link in the show notes and folks can click on each of these and there's  a lot more explanation of what it is you're thinking about there. Awesome.

55:33

Okay, just a couple more questions. Yeah.

55:37

One is just your background.

55:37

So from  what I've read, in the early 2000s, you were basically hanging out with some of  the biggest success stories of today.

55:44

Folks like Zuck and Reid Hoffman, Sam Altman, Elon,  Sean Parker.

55:49

This is before they really became anyone and they all became very successful.

55:54

I'm curious just looking back at that, what you've noticed is consistent across these folks  that ended up being really successful over time.

56:06

Back in 2003, being in Silicon Valley  and being interested in startups, it was a really small space.

56:12

There just  weren't that many people that were into this stuff.

56:16

And so I remember I cold  emailed Reid Hoffman when LinkedIn was 12 employees and he just responded  and he's like, "Oh, let's have lunch."

56:29

He was just a guy and everyone else that  was doing, I guess you could call it social networking, that was the people that I knew.

56:33

There  was a few conferences you would go to and there'd be 30 people there.

56:38

It reminds me of stories about  the Homebrew Computer Club.

56:38

I'm not saying this is as cool.

56:42

But when I read stories about what it  was like when the Homebrew Computer Club existed, it was a very small number of people that all  knew each other that were real weirdo outsiders that were into this stuff, okay?

56:53

And so that's  what in the post.

56:53

com boom Bay Area startup scene, that's legitimately what it felt like.

57:00

And so I didn't think a lot about the personality traits of these people.

57:06

Again, they  were all pretty different people, but what they had in common is the folks that are now the really  big names just had a lot of staying power. Right?

57:16

So when I met Sam, he had dropped out of Stanford  to work on Loot, which is hilariously a way to find people around you to hang out with.

57:22

An  interesting theme here, huh? He was cool.

57:22

He was this really young guy and he just did that. It  wasn't huge.

57:27

And then he got into other stuff and ended up working at YC, ended up getting involved  in hard tech and has now reinvented himself as the big mind behind AI, which again, awesome.

57:44

But if  I think about who he was back in the day, yeah, he was a 23-year-old working on a thing for feature  phones to find friends in your neighborhood.

57:57

Their customer was Boost Mobile.

57:57

I bet you could  go find the commercials for Loot that Boost Mobile put out on YouTube.

58:02

Those are actually  pretty funny.

58:02

Have you seen those commercials?

58:05

No, but I'm going to go check them out.

58:07

Anyway, it's pretty funny.

58:07

So yeah, that's the  real story.

58:07

And then, yeah, I remember I was in downtown Palo Alto at the time, and some of the  folks I was friends with were friends with Sean Parker, and this was actually before Sean Parker  went to Facebook. He was part of Napster.

58:20

And so one of my friends was like, "Oh, we need to get my  friend a ride to the airport."

58:25

And so I ended up giving Sean Parker a ride to the Oakland Airport.

58:28

And again, what was he like? I don't know.

58:28

He just basically sat in the back seat on the phone the  whole time.

58:34

But again, my point is I wasn't like, "Wow, these are going to be really big successful  people that one day will be important in the world."

58:43

It just felt like a bunch of nerds  that really liked the internet and computers, doing things that they were interested  in and were just obsessed with this.

58:57

They weren't like, "Gee, should I move to  New York?"

58:57

Or, "Maybe I should go to law school."

59:01

It was people that were very bought in  to staying working on internet companies.

59:01

And so you'll see these folks just reinvent themselves  multiple eras, right?

59:10

Okay, like Reid Hoffman, he worked at PayPal, right?

59:15

And then he did  LinkedIn and then he was a VC.

59:15

He's had all these different eras where it's the same person,  but it's almost like a different figure, right?

59:28

There's a lot of interesting lessons there.

59:28

One  is that your career is long and you'll have the opportunity to do many things and you can continue  to shift.

59:32

In my example, this is my fourth career, I realized.

59:37

I was an engineer, then a founder,  then a product manager, now whatever this job is.

59:43

And I think that's really common.

59:43

I think the  other, again, is the personality types point, which I didn't comment on, but I think it's so  important that you can be super introverted and be super successful.

59:52

You can be super extroverted and  be very successful.

59:52

And I think the key there is use your skills and strengths to achieve the same  things.

59:56

You don't have to be the amazing presenter on Steve Jobs type stage.

1:00:02

You can do the same  thing in a different way.

1:00:02

And then the other point there is, again, coming back to you just need to  be really excited and enjoy the work you're doing because that'll drive you forward and make you be  successful.

1:00:12

So I like that the story is a summary of so many of the things you've shared so far.

1:00:18

There's other two other fun stories, maybe pick one.

1:00:22

The other one is  you sold your startup to MySpace and your job was basically to save MySpace.

1:00:26

And  then the other is you're the reason Andreessen Horowitz missed out on Instagram and couldn't  invest.

1:00:31

So which of those would you want to share?

1:00:37

Well, it's the same story.

1:00:37

And the way that it's  the same story is my second company...

1:00:37

Basically, I sold my first company to MySpace.

1:00:46

It was the  music company that I worked on.

1:00:46

And they recruited a new CEO who was formerly the COO of Facebook  called Owen Van Natta.

1:00:53

So again, hilariously part of the same little circle of people.

1:00:59

And Owen  was like, "Okay, we need to fix MySpace.

1:00:59

Rupert Murdoch's got the juice. He wants me to fix it. We're going to do it.

1:01:05

So come up with some ideas."

1:01:13

And the best idea that I could come up with at  the time was doing something around mobile photo sharing, something like Twitter, but for photos.

1:01:19

And I figured with MySpace's user base, that would work pretty well.

1:01:24

This was in 2010, so it was  right as the App Store was getting big, and I had a lot of success in the App Store with imeem.

1:01:29

It was one of the top downloaded music apps.

1:01:29

And so I was like, "Wow, the App Store was really  good."

1:01:34

And I was really into apps being the thing.

1:01:40

And at this time, Facebook was a little early on.

1:01:40

They were trying to do cross-platform mobile apps, if you recall.

1:01:44

And their apps were not great.

1:01:44

This was, again, ancient history. So that was my plan.

1:01:52

And then immediately Owen Van Natta was  fired, and so I didn't even really get onboarded. And so I just left.

1:01:58

I think I worked in MySpace  for a month because the person that acquired my company got fired and I think the whole word chart  got fired.

1:02:05

I didn't even know who to talk to. It was really great.

1:02:10

It was a great experience.

1:02:10

You  know what I'm saying?

1:02:10

I wasn't really sure who my point of contact was at that point.

1:02:13

I don't  think they knew either. It was just a mess. Just message Tom. No, no. He was long gone. Seriously. I  know you're kidding.

1:02:19

But no, literally, I don't know who was left at that point. Tom was long gone.

1:02:22

And so I was like, "Well, I should just do a new startup and I should work  on something like what I was thinking about."

1:02:35

And I ended up starting the company and quickly  was able to raise an angel around because people remembered my company from the first one.

1:02:41

And the  major investor we had was Andreessen Horowitz.

1:02:46

This is one of their first board seat investments,  like Marc Andreessen was on my board.

1:02:46

And again, I have my own set of stories about that,  but it was interesting experience and we launched it in...

1:02:57

I think we got half a million  or a million users.

1:02:57

You can go find tech print articles about it.

1:03:02

We launched on Android  and iOS and it was mobile photo sharing, and actually it was growing pretty well. Okay?

1:03:08

And then what happened is there was another portfolio company called Bourbon, which was  originally a ForceWare clone that was built by these two guys.

1:03:19

And they decided  to pivot out of that and into what...

1:03:26

Which was pretty similar to my thing.

1:03:26

Again, fair  enough, that's just how this works.

1:03:26

And they did something smart.

1:03:32

Again, this is just me talking,  I don't know what their version of the story is.

1:03:35

But what I think they did that was smart is  if you looked on the paid app store charts, the number one app was Hipstamatic and Hipstamatic  cost money.

1:03:39

And what do we know about what people want?

1:03:45

They want things that are free that cost  money, right?

1:03:45

And so they basically built a pretty legitimate knockoff of the Hipstamatic filters,  combining it with a social graph, and they launched it and it pretty quickly took off.

1:03:55

So of  course this is Instagram, right?

1:03:55

And so it took off really quickly and that was a wild experience  for me to be like, "Oh, this seems familiar."

1:04:07

And basically because Andreessen Horowitz  had invested in my company, was on the board, even though they were investors in Instagram,  that was a conflict and they didn't do the deal.

1:04:18

And then for whatever reason, this became a big  source of Silicon Valley gossip, which was like, "Wow, I can't believe this happened."

1:04:23

And  so it was just a really weird experience for me as a founder to be right in the middle of  something that became culturally so important.

1:04:37

I imagine there's a bullseye in your  back from a16z for a little bit.

1:04:42

Oh, I don't actually think they care.

1:04:42

I don't think they held it against me  because what did I do wrong? It's true. I started a company.

1:04:50

You know what I'm  saying?

1:04:50

Obviously there was some frustration, but I was guy who had a company  that they invested in. I don't know.

1:05:00

I didn't feel didn't much higher for  them.

1:05:00

I think this is just how life works. Yeah.

1:05:06

I wonder if they changed their  conflict policies after that at all. I don't think so.

1:05:10

I think this  has happened multiple other times, but those aren't my stories to tell.

1:05:17

And by the way, I don't know if you mentioned the  name of your startup, it was called PicPlz, right?

1:05:20

Yeah, it's called PicPlz. Yeah. Great. Okay.

1:05:22

So for the final phase before  we get to very exciting lighting round, I have these two segments, recurring  segments.

1:05:27

I have failure corner and contrarian corner.

1:05:31

We can do both or we  can pick one or the other.

1:05:31

Failure corner, share a story of a time in your career where  you failed and when you learned from that experience.

1:05:40

Contrarian corner, what's something  you believe that most other people don't believe?

1:05:45

Yeah, I think for contrarian corner, I know where  I would start and I think it's relevant for your listener.

1:05:50

I think this is relevant to this and  you could argue this isn't contrary, but here's what I think.

1:05:58

I think growth and growth hacking  and doing all this analytics, A/B testing stuff, is a total waste of time for very early startups.

1:06:07

And that one of the weird things about having lots of startup advice on the internet, again, this is  one of the reasons we started making videos at YC, is a lot of the advice was catered towards later  stage companies.

1:06:19

Like, "Oh, here's how you set up your board and here's how you motivate your  sales team."

1:06:23

It was all aimed at series A, series B founders, and not for seed stage founders.

1:06:28

The  problem was seed stage founders would consume all the later stage advice and get really confused.

1:06:32

And so the anti-pattern I see is there are lots of founders that are very familiar with your  awesome work, which again, I really recommend, I like it.

1:06:42

But when you have no customers and  you're reading Lenny's guides on how to set up split testing and how you did growth at Airbnb,  oh man, that is so dumb. That is so not helpful.

1:06:55

And so you see this inclination away from getting  a first customer, getting one customer and talking to that person, and instead they have all this  really complex growth hacking theory.

1:07:00

I think this also happens if you worked in big tech where  your product already has scale.

1:07:07

And so if you work at Facebook and your job is to launch new little  features, yeah, of course you should make heavy use of analytics and A/B testing and split testing  and feature flags.

1:07:18

Yeah, yeah, yeah, makes sense.

1:07:22

But when you have no users, what are you doing?

1:07:22

So  do you think that's contrary? What do you think?

1:07:31

I'm just trying to argue this advice applied to a  startup that's too early is actively not helpful.

1:07:38

I think it's contrarian for many people. 100%.

1:07:38

I also 100% agree with it.

1:07:38

It makes me feel like I need to, at the top of  my post, share here's who this is for.

1:07:46

If you're earlier than this, ignore it.

1:07:46

If you're later than this, ignore it.

1:07:49

I mean, again, I'm not saying you do anything  wrong, but imagine if the OG Airbnb founders took all of your current advice and applied  it when they had four users and they knew their names and they were trying to run  complicated growth hacking split testings. Yeah.

1:08:03

Maybe just to clarify when you talk about  growth hacking.

1:08:03

So obviously when you're starting something, say a consumer app, you need to get  a bunch of users somehow.

1:08:09

What's your sense of just when you say don't do this sort of thing,  but this is okay?

1:08:14

What falls in those buckets?

1:08:20

I think it depends on the idea.

1:08:20

I think in  the case of Whatnot, it was consumer app and they needed to get users.

1:08:25

But they were very  intellectually honest on the metrics for how you get a marketplace off the ground.

1:08:32

And  they didn't just go dump all their money into Instagram ads.

1:08:35

They effectively knew they  needed to focus on buyers and on the buy side and build momentum on the buy side.

1:08:43

They really  understood marketplaces.

1:08:43

And so for consumer, I think it's having a sophisticated view of how you  get the consumer company off the ground.

1:08:49

I think if you look at the Facebook story, them getting a  hundred percent penetration on the Harvard campus first instead of launching overall.

1:08:59

Again, good  strategy, would recommend that strategy.

1:08:59

So again, the way to extrapolate that is know what your  comps are of what companies you...

1:09:05

Or type is, and then look at what they did on the zero  to one and ignore what they do today. Right?

1:09:20

Don't pay attention to what Facebook does today  if you're a brand new startup founder, pay attention to Facebook when they were getting their  first thousand users. What were those tactics?

1:09:28

I feel like this should be its own episode where  we just go into how to get your first thousand users.

1:09:32

I know there's a video actually we'll  link to that Gustav made with YC's advice on how to get your users.

1:09:36

Did you want to visit  failure corner or not? Or shall we move on?

1:09:43

I failed at tons of stuff.

1:09:43

As an investor, I make  lots of bad investments as well as good ones.

1:09:43

I think in my startups I pivoted a lot and a lot  of things I did didn't work out.

1:09:50

And so again, I just gave you a specific story with PicPlz,  right?

1:09:55

You just heard a specific story there.

1:10:00

I guess what I learned is that you just can't  let it get to you too much and you got to keep going.

1:10:06

And that if you keep going, no one really  remembers those as much and it doesn't really define you.

1:10:13

Fear of failure shouldn't dominate  all of your thoughts.

1:10:13

And instead you should use your energy and positivity to keep trying to  do good work, right?

1:10:21

Because back in the day, if I would've been like, "Well, I guess startups  aren't for me, I guess tech isn't for me."

1:10:26

I wouldn't have had a career doing any of  this stuff.

1:10:30

I wouldn't be working at YC, I wouldn't be advising companies, right?

1:10:34

So I always had to have in my life a lot of optimism and energy and use that energy and motor  to keep me going.

1:10:41

And it served me really well, right?

1:10:48

Even if lots of stuff I tried didn't  work and continue to not work.

1:10:48

Again, obvious stuff I know, but yeah, that doesn't  mean it's not true, even though it's obvious.

1:10:58

I feel like that's a recurring theme  here and I love that it's another version of just how not to die.

1:11:01

There's  the startup itself that shouldn't die, and then there's your just drive and motivation  to keep going and try new things when things don't work out.

1:11:09

I love all the recurring themes  and messages for people here.

1:11:09

Dalton, is there anything else you want to leave listeners with  before we get to a very exciting lightning round?

1:11:20

Yeah, I guess the final thought is if someone  wants to do a startup and doesn't know where to start, just to give you permission to talk  to potential customers and try to pre-sell something before you write code and have those  conversations.

1:11:33

I think so many folks don't know where to begin on starting a startup, and my  tactical advice is start doing customer validation first versus building a PowerPoint deck, versus  trying to raise money versus all these other things.

1:11:53

I think a lot of people don't use that  strategy, and basically if you find people that are really excited and you do line up customers,  that is a great green light that it is time to do a startup, right?

1:12:04

That can get you down the  path.

1:12:04

So yeah, I think that's my final advice.

1:12:09

And then with that, when does the building  come in?

1:12:09

Is it build it while you're talking, build it before you...

1:12:12

It depends on basically- Build it once you have some conviction and  then you're like, "Oh, I think I would have a customer.

1:12:17

I think that at least one person would  use this thing I want to build. At least one." I love it.

1:12:22

I love the simplicity and  pragmatism of all of your advice.

1:12:22

Dalton, welcome to the very exciting lightning round.

1:12:27

I've got six questions for you. Are you ready? Let's do it.

1:12:34

What are two or three books that  you recommend most to other people?

1:12:38

I think a lot of founders are afraid of doing  sales and they don't know how to do sales, and they think they need these really experienced  sales coaches and they need all this training, and I'll be like, "Well, go on to Amazon and find the  most popular sales books like Getting to Yes that everyone reads, and just read those and that'll  get you 80% of the way there."

1:12:53

You know what I'm saying?

1:12:57

They want to hire someone for millions  of dollars to give them sales coaching.

1:12:57

I'm like, "Well, have you read these really basic sales  books?" And they're like, "No."

1:13:00

And so I think that's a low cost way to go on Amazon, Getting  to Yes and a few other of the top sellers, I forget the names, and just read those, and that  is your crash course on how to be great at sales. Awesome.

1:13:16

There's also this book called  Founding Sales that I imagine you're familiar with.

1:13:19

Pete Kazanjy was on the  podcast talking about that and that's something I always recommend because it's  just like, "How founders can do sales." Start there. Start there. Great. We'll link  to that.

1:13:26

Do you have a favorite recent movie or TV show that you really enjoyed?

1:13:32

This may be warping what you're asking  for, but I like to watch old shows a lot, and so I keep rewatching The Sopranos and  the Wire, and it always is different to me every time and things like that.

1:13:42

I  think here's a silly answer.

1:13:42

I've been really enjoying watching old episodes  of Columbo, which was a television show from the '70s and '80s.

1:13:49

I don't know why,  I don't even know if this is destructive, but for some reason, I'm really into that  right now.

1:13:53

It's very old episodes of Columbo.

1:13:59

You're an old soul, Dalton. I guess. I don't know.

1:14:01

It just feels like a time machine to a different time  when I watch these things.

1:14:06

Definitely, maybe one of  the most unique answers yet. Fair enough. Columbo.

1:14:12

Well, again, I guess I'm not trying to give  you an answer where I sound super clever- No, I love this.

1:14:16

I'm telling you the real answer.

1:14:16

So  that's actually what I'm watching.

1:14:19

It does actually sound very sophisticated  and clever.

1:14:19

Do you have a favorite interview question that you like to ask, I  guess founders in this context?

1:14:28

I don't really believe in trick questions,  and I think I just start with, "Hey, so tell me about what you're working on."

1:14:33

Or,  "What have you learned since you started?"

1:14:33

Again, none of these are trick questions, but  I think you can get the most honest and interesting answers by asking the most  straightforward basic things and having that be a blank slate for their answers  to draw on.

1:14:46

You know what I'm saying?

1:14:46

So I like the most simple prompts and let them  take the conversation where they want to go.

1:14:56

I know this probably is a very big  question, but just what do you look for in their answer that gives you a  sense of this is a good or bad answer? For YC interviews? Yeah.

1:15:06

And I know this is its own podcast episode.

1:15:08

I think evidence that they actually have  thought about it.

1:15:08

As per I said earlier, that they've done research, that they have  opinions, that they care about it. Right?

1:15:19

Sometimes when people answer questions, you  can just tell that it's really superficial, and they haven't put much care  or soul into their answers. Awesome.

1:15:31

Do you have a favorite product that  you've recently discovered that you really like?

1:15:35

I like my Oura ring and my Apple Watch and all  that good stuff. I've been a fan.

1:15:35

There's a YC clinic called SiPhox, S-I-P-H-O-X, I just sign  up for, and they do at-home blood testing.

1:15:40

And basically I'm trying to sync that at-home blood  testing thing into all my other devices. I don't know.

1:15:54

I really enjoy all the stuff that  Apple and other startups are working on and YC companies are working on around personal  health.

1:16:00

And so yeah, those are products I'm into. SiPhox. Okay.

1:16:05

And wait, then you do a needle  and stuff and you take your own blood?

1:16:08

It's this little tiny needle. It doesn't hurt at  all.

1:16:08

It takes a few drops of blood and you do it at home and you mail it in and then it has all  these blood tests.

1:16:14

It's actually really cool. Yeah.

1:16:19

It was one of those cases where I saw it  and then I later was like, "Oh, wait, that's a YC company."

1:16:28

Basically, I became a customer and  was pleasantly surprised that it's a YC company. And I think I found it.

1:16:34

So it's  S-I-P-H-O-X health dot com.

1:16:38

Yeah, it really rolls off the tongue,  right?

1:16:38

Yeah, that's the name of it. Very cool.

1:16:41

Okay, I see the little  needle. Okay, great. Go SiPhox.

1:16:41

Okay, two more questions.

1:16:47

Do you have a favorite  life motto that you often come back to, find useful in work or in  life, share with friends?

1:16:55

Just check in with yourself that you're having  fun and that you enjoy what you're doing.

1:16:55

And if you don't, you should probably make a change,  whatever that is.

1:17:02

And again, if you're a founder, you're in control, right?

1:17:06

You can change your  own company.

1:17:06

But I think a lot of people go through life and they don't ask themselves this  question, am I having fun? Am I enjoying?

1:17:10

Do I value what I'm spending my time on?

1:17:16

And  I think that you just can go back to this over and over and over again as a good prompt  on how to decide what to do with your life.

1:17:29

Easier said than done to  change that in many cases, but it always starts with realizing,  okay, this isn't actually what I- Yeah, and bidding to yourself.

1:17:35

Yeah, I'm not  really enjoying this, and then trying to be like, "Well, how can I fix it?"

1:17:39

Having  that conversation with yourself. Yeah.

1:17:41

It reminds me of a Steve Jobs  quote where you wake up day after day, it's okay to wake up some days being like,  "I don't want to be doing this."

1:17:46

But if it's every day and continues to happen,  then that's a sign you should change it. Exactly. Final question.

1:17:54

You and Michael Seibel  have been doing this incredible podcast together.

1:17:58

If somebody wanted to  check out the podcast and dive in, is there an episode that you love most  that you think they could start with? It depends.

1:18:05

Some of the episodes are more for  folks that already have a startup and they're dealing with problems. I don't know.

1:18:11

Some  of the episodes about investors or things like that.

1:18:17

It's very clear that the audience for  those is current startup founders.

1:18:17

And there's a lot that are just more life advice, how to  make decisions and think about.

1:18:21

And those have strangely become very popular and gotten  a lot of views with non-startup founders, which is a pleasant surprise.

1:18:31

And so I'd  recommend those for folks in the audience that are not currently startup founders. I don't know.

1:18:35

Life tips from top founders, I think is a good- Oh, from billionaires? Is it that one? Yeah, yeah.

1:18:43

I think that was pretty popular.

1:18:43

So what I'd be looking for is diagnose, am I a current founder and I have founder  problems?

1:18:48

Or am I just looking for general philosophy type questions?

1:18:53

And I really like  those philosophy ones.

1:18:53

We have one for high school students, the audience is, here's  advice for high school students that are interested in startups.

1:19:01

Here's some tips  that you should be thinking about.

1:19:01

Again, pretty narrow target audience, but I love  that episode because we're really trying to speak directly to that audience  and I think it's pretty good advice.

1:19:13

Dalton, you are wonderful.

1:19:13

Thank you for  sharing so much wisdom. This is action packed.

1:19:17

I'm really excited for founders to  listen to this.

1:19:17

I think it's going to make a big dent in a lot of people's lives. Two final  questions.

1:19:20

Where can folks find you online if they want to reach out and follow up on some of  this?

1:19:23

And how can listeners be useful to you? I am on Twitter/X. com and Dalton. C is my username.

1:19:27

And also my LinkedIn is pretty good. It's pretty popular. I don't know.

1:19:34

Just search for my name  on LinkedIn.

1:19:34

And yeah, I'd love to see you all there.

1:19:43

And then how can folks be helpful?

1:19:43

I mean,  honestly, it's just great when folks want to apply to YC and do a startup.

1:19:49

And so feel free to dive  into other videos and apply to YC.

1:19:49

And something that's really special about my job is I get the  privilege of getting to fund companies that they already know me from videos and they're shocked  that I'm exactly the same as...

1:19:59

Effectively, they're like, "Wow, you're just that guy from  the videos I've been watching, and it's so cool that you're just exactly like you seem in the  videos."

1:20:12

And so basically, yeah, if people like what I have to say and they like the videos and  apply to YC, I would love to fund their companies.

1:20:21

Dalton, thank you so much for being here. Sure thing. Thanks so much, Lenny. Appreciate it. Bye everyone.

1:20:26

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