Brian Chesky’s new playbook

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Way too many founders apologize for how  they want to run the company.

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They find some midpoint between how they want to run a  company and how the people they lead want to run the company.

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That's a good way to make everyone  miserable.

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Because what everyone really wants is clarity.

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And what everyone really wants is to be  able to row in the same direction really quickly.

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And so I basically got involved in every single  detail and I basically told leaders that leaders are in the details.

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And there's this negative  term called micromanagement.

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I think there's a difference between micromanagement, which  is like telling people exactly what to do, and being in the details.

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Being in the details is  what every responsible company's board does to the CEO.

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That doesn't mean the board is telling them  what to do.

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But if you don't know the details, how do you know people are doing a good job?

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People  think that great leader's job is to hire people and just empower them to do a good job.

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Well, how  do you know they're doing a good job if you're not in the details?

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And so I made sure I was in  the details and we really drove the product.

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Today my guest is Brian Chesky.

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Brian  is the CEO and co-founder of Airbnb, which he started in his apartment with his  co-founders, Joe and Nate, and has turned into an $80 billion global business with travelers  and homes in 220 countries.

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I was very lucky to get to work with Brian for many years, and my  sense is if you ask people who they consider the most inspiring tech or business leaders today,  Brian would be right near the top of that list.

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In our conversation, Brian shares an in-depth  explanation of what's happening with product management at Airbnb, which caused quite  a stir in the product world when he talked about this previously.

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We also get deep into  Brian's new approach of how he runs Airbnb, including shifting away from traditional  growth channels like paid growth, and instead betting that if they just build the  best possible product and tell people about it, growth will happen.

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Also, how the product team now  operates including having just one single roadmap across the entire company and Brian staying very  close to every design and every feature.

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We also get a bit into his personal life, including how he  finds balance and avoids burnout, how he continues to learn himself so that he can stay ahead of the  business and its growth.

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Brian, thank you so much for being here. Welcome to the podcast.

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Well, thank you for having me.

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Did you ever think when I left Airbnb,  one, that I would have a podcast and two, that you would be on my podcast?

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I had no idea you would become a podcast host and that you would have such a successful podcast.

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But  yeah, congrats on everything. This is awesome. I appreciate it.

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Congrats to you too, Brian.

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Things seem to be going great.

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I'm excited that you're here.

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I want to start with the elephant in  the room for a lot of listeners of this podcast.

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What is going on with product management at  Airbnb?

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You made some comments at Figma Config and a lot of people got this impression that  you eliminated product management at Airbnb, and I've heard from a lot of product execs having  boardroom conversations as a result of that.

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And they were trying to decide should we remove  product management from the company?

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Should we significantly cut product management?

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So I'm  just curious to hear from you, what is the latest on your thinking on product management and what's  happening with product management at Airbnb?

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I spoke at Figma four or five months ago.

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I spoke  to a room of designers. I then got off-stage.

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I saw somebody tweet that said something to the  nature of that I said I got rid of the product management function and all the designers in the  room started cheering.

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So I want to talk about two things.

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What I actually meant, because I didn't  actually get rid of the people.

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And also why did the people in the room cheer?

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Because that's  also a thing we should ask ourselves.

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And I hope everyone listening to this podcast should  understand where did that place come from, that 5,000 designers in a room cheered because  they thought I eliminated the existence of a function?

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Because if I said I eliminated the  engineering function, no one would've cheered.

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It was specifically that function.

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So I want to talk  about what that might mean.

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It wasn't the people, it's the way they're working together.

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So we don't have any longer the traditional product management function as it existed when  you was here.

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But we didn't get rid of people helping drive the product.

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What we did is we  combined what one might call the inbound product development responsibilities of product manager  with the outbound or marketing responsibilities of product marketing.

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That's the first thing we did.

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The second thing we did is we off boarded much of the program management functions that product  managers may do to actual program managers.

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A lot of people with the product management title  are actually program managers.

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So we actually started off boarding some responsibilities to  program management.

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The last thing we did is we made the group smaller and more senior.

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So  we don't really have a lot of junior product marketers.

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So the most senior people are  called product marketers, but everyone has to understand how to talk about the product.

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So the basic idea is this.

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You can't build a product unless you know how to talk about the  product.

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You can't be an expert in making the product unless you're also an expert in  the market of it.

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And a lot of companies, what they do is they ship a product, it doesn't  work, and they say, "We tried that. It didn't work."

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And if you say you tried and it didn't  work, my question is, was it a bad product, a bad strategy or bad execution?

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Maybe it was  a really well-made product, but you had no distribution plan.

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You had no way to talk about  the product.

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If you build a great product and no one knows about it, did you even build a product?

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So that is essentially what we do.

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We have a much smaller function.

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The people are much more  senior.

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They have much more responsibility.

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The other thing though is that they do not  control or drive designing or engineering.

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We are a fairly purely functional model.

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They  manage by influence.

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They do not have control.

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Now you might ask, how does that work in a company  where people can only manage by influence?

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Here's the amazing thing.

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We built and designed a company  where you can manage by influence and no one has to like you.

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You don't actually have to win people  over.

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Oh, and the last thing I want to say is, why did 5,000 designers cheer when the people thought  I removed the product management function?

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Because I want to say ...

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I don't know if I can speak on  behalf of all the designers, but having talked to a lot of designers, I think designers in the  valley are very, very frustrated with the product development process.

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Not to say the product  managers, but they're extremely frustrated.

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I think a lot of designers feel like they're  compromising.

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Many designers I know ... Heads of design.

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Well-known heads of design.

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I  told them they're not designers, they're design administrators.

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They're running a design  service organization.

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Because Silicon Valley often treats design as a service organization.

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Like  design is catching things before it goes out the door.

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It's not actually typically part of the  development process.

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And I think this is not just bad for design, it's bad for product managers  and engineers because we all want to build the best products.

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And one day you wake up and a  variety of phenomenon might have happened.

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And if people are watching this from a large company,  here might be some of the characteristics.

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The first thing you notice is that these different  groups might be running on slightly different technical stacks.

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That's the first problem.

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And  they may actually be accumulating technical debt.

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The next problem you'll see is that there's a  lot of dependencies.

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So five teams are going different directions, but they all need a payment  platform.

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And so what happens is that the teams that everyone's dependent on get this backup like  a deli and people are going around the block.

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And then at some point they just give up.

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So then  the teams that are dependent on other people say, "Give me the resources and I'll build this  group myself."

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So instead of five teams going to marketing to get a campaign or to leverage some  service, they start building their own marketing departments, their own groups.

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So now they're  really becoming separate divisions.

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And this is where a division comes from.

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Now, once you have a division, your division is as successful as you are a  priority.

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So now you have to advocate for your division.

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So there's a lot of advocacy.

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If you  have dependencies, you've got to persuade people by building relationships.

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And so the people  that are liked that build the best relationships are the ones that get the most resources and  that creates what we call politics.

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And so now politics that brood in the company.

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And suddenly  people gets more subdivided, more subdivided, subdivided.

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And that creates another problem,  which we call bureaucracy.

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And that bureaucracy means it's hard to know who's doing what.

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People  are going in different directions and that creates a lack of accountability.

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When there's  lack of accountability, then there's a sense that what I do doesn't matter and that creates  complacency.

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And then suddenly a fast-growing company becomes a big slow moving bureaucracy.

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This is a general arc that winds up happening.

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And then you end up having this situation  where a company's done 10 marketing efforts, but no customer's heard anything.

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They have thousands of engineers, they shipped all these products, but a customer  can't tell you a single thing you did.

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Marketing and engineering don't talk to each other.

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It's not  even they hate each other, they're in different universes.

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I've always said that the health of an  organization, one simple heuristic is how close is engineering and marketing?

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And marketing  is at lot of companies are like the waiters, engineers are like the chefs and the chefs yell at  the waiters and they go in the kitchen.

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In fact, the waiters are the ones talking to the customers  all day and they also know how to sell things so you really want them being enjoined at the hip and  you want engineers to be thinking about maybe how to talk about the products that they're building.

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So this is the problem that we had.

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And also the other thing we were doing is, as you know Lenny,  we were spending a lot of money in performance marketing.

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I don't think performance marketing is  a bad thing.

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I think of performance marketing as a laser.

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Actually my co-founder who obviously  you know well, Joe, used to have this metaphor of lasers, flash bulbs and chandeliers.

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If you  want to light up a room, performance marking is a laser.

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It can light up a corner of a room.

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You  don't want to use a bunch of lasers to light up an entire room.

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You should use a chandelier and  that's what brand marketing is.

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But if you do need to laser in and balance supply and demand,  then performance marketing is really good. It literally lasers in.

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Performance marketing though  doesn't create very good accumulating advantages because it's not an investment.

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Now if you  want to build it permanently, like booking.

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com, if you have a really high ROI, now you can have  a performance marketing arbitrage business.

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But assuming you don't want an arbitrage business,  you actually need to be investing.

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And so we think of marketing as education.

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That we're  educating people on the unique benefits.

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So a lot of companies don't do product marketing.

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They do brand marketing, which are ads about the app or they do performance marketing, but they're  never really educating people about new things they're making and shipping.

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And because no  one's marketing new things they're shipping, there's no purpose to ship new things.

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Because you ship new things and people don't know about them or use them or they're not  educated.

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And so you try these big new things, people don't adopt them immediately, so then you  get more and more incremental.

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Now what we do is we have a rolling two year roadmap.

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We don't  even really do an annual plan.

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As you remember, Lenny, when you were at Airbnb, we would have  three month planning cycles.

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Now planning cycle is just a budgeting cycle and most people only  spend a week or two on it.

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Some don't spend any time on it.

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And we have a rolling two year product  plan. Strategy.

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Product strategy roadmap that gets updated every six months with releases.

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We release  products every May and every November or October.

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Obviously we did one today we can talk about.

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The entire company works together.

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They row in the same direction.

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And the product  management also does the product marketing.

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So they're figuring out how people are going  to learn about it, they're doing the demos, they're understanding the story, the videos,  they're figuring out all the customer touchpoints, making sure everyone understands it.

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Our product  marketing works with communications.

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We work months ahead of time on all the different  assets.

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And when we're working on a launch, one of the first things we'll do is start figuring  out what the story is.

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And the story will often dictate the product.

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Because ultimately you have  to tell the story to people.

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But a story also is a really helpful way to develop a cohesive  product.

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We wanted a company where a thousand people could work, but it'll look like 10 people  did it.

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Sorry, that was a bit of a brain dump, but that is a little bit of a universal theory for how  we develop products now.

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And I could go into a lot more detail, but I probably will stop there. That was amazing.

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You touched on all of the things I want to talk about.

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So I'm going to- Oh, gee.

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So we can go deeper and deeper because the rabbit hole goes deep. Yeah, exactly. Exactly.

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So I'm going to pull on a couple threads.

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The first is this  idea of a single roadmap you talked about.

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And what this reminds me of is I was talking to  another very prominent CEO of a public company and he pointed out that there's this cycle that  he sees a lot of founders go through where they initially run the show, they're in charge, they  tell people what to build, and then over time they're encouraged to delegate and to empower and  it leads to a bunch of optimization work and small thinking maybe.

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And you talked about bureaucracy  and politics.

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And then eventually you realize I need to take the reins again and drive the ship  and take back control of what's happening.

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And it feels like you went on that journey.

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That's exactly how it went, and that's how it goes almost at every company I've heard  of.

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By the way, I think that many years ago, I remember I think reading a blog post by Ben  Horowitz saying that a lot of people tell product led founders or engineering led founders to step  away and delegate their product to other people, but suddenly they've delegated away the thing  they're best at.

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The thing that is hardest for them to replace.

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So we don't have a chief product  officer title, but if we had one, it would be me.

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I wouldn't have a chief product officer.

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I think  the CEO should be basically the chief product officer of a product or tech company.

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If the CEO  is not the chief product officer then I don't know if they're a product or tech led company.

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Maybe that's okay if they're an ops company or if they're a marketing company or if they're  not a tech company at all.

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But ultimately I think the founder or CEO should be that person.

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So when we were starting Airbnb, it was probably the three of us.

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As you know, I think Airbnb was a  unique situation where it was three of us.

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I don't think any of us was that dominant.

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I probably  played the closest thing to the role of the people listening, the closest thing to the role of  the product manager.

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But again, I did marketing, I did design, I did ops, I did a little bit  of everything.

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So I was basically everything but engineering.

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And then as we grew, I started  getting more and more hands off in the product.

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And I always remember Lenny there was this paradox  where the less involved I was in a project ... Let me be clear.

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There were times I inserted myself  and dysfunction occurred. That is absolutely true.

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And that was just a learning experience  for me.

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But there was this other scenario where the less involved I was in the project, the  more spin there was, the less clear the goals, the less advocacy the team had, the less  resources, the fewer resources they had.

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And then therefore the slower they moved.

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And  the slower they moved, the more they assumed it was because I was too involved.

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Because people  assume that our natural equilibrium's to move fast so if we're moving slow, it's because of an  over involvement in leadership and therefore I would get less involved.

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I would give teams more  control.

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I would give them teams more empowerment.

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And the more I kept giving people what they asked  for initially, they may have been happy, but the outcome of it was always, it seemed weirdly like  they got less of what they wanted.

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They wanted to move faster so I'd empower them and move slower.

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And again, how that happened is what I described.

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That you end up in a situation where you're  delegating down.

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So I think that things were getting worse and slower and slower and slower.

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2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019.

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And by 2019 we were spending a billion dollars on AdWords.

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We  weren't really investing in the brand.

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We were doing a huge amount of AB testing.

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I think  AB testing is important in times.

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Actually, let me clarify AB testing.

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We don't test blue  versus green.

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We have a control and a treatment like I think we did when you were here. So we have  a design.

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We might do a holdback occasionally to see how the thing is working.

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But if we do an  AB test, there has to be a hypothesis.

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If we don't have a hypothesis and A is better than B,  then we're stuck with B.

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And that's a really, really big problem, but we can never change it.

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And then imagine 10 teams doing AB testing.

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Imagine if you designed software the way you  designed a house or design a house the way design software. And we AB test a sofa.

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And we said,  well, how does this sofa work?

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And it seems like with this sofa that we've AB tested people spend  more time in the living room, so therefore people are going to like this room better.

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But actually  the sofa has a relationship to the end stands which have a relationship to the lamps which have  a relationship to the carpet or the rug which have a relationship to the television which have  a relationship to the house and everything else.

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So you have to think about the whole cohesive  system.

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And I started realizing that.

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I asked one person on your team, somebody you know well, and  I asked him, I said, "I feel like I open our app and the product hasn't changed and four years."

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I  remember saying this, 2018, 2019.

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And this person described that you know well as just the way  we were doing things.

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The initial way we were doing things to move fast had made us move slow.

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So what we ended up doing is ... It was now late 2019. I don't know what to do.

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I'm like, the  product is slow, the app seems to not change, costs are rising.

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I keep adding more people.

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There seems to be more politics.

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By politics I mean advocating for individual interests rather  than the whole company.

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More bureaucracy meaning meetings about meetings about meetings and a lot  of dependencies.

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People were describing working 80 hours and getting 20 hours of productive work  done, which is just a crazy ratio a week.

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And I didn't really quite know what to do.

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And then right before the pandemic, I meet two people that really affected how  I thought about things.

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The first was Hiroki Asai.

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Hiroki now works at Airbnb.

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He's one  of my executives and actually product design, product marketing design and marketing report  into him.

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And he was a creative director for Apple.

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So he worked for Steve Jobs, was  basically dotted line to Steve for many, many years.

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Came from graphic design.

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Eventually  ran all of marketing communications.

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In Apple Marketing Communications, they actually designed  the app. They made the app.

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They designed all the marketing touchpoints for the store.

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So it wasn't  just ads, it was every brand touchpoint they were responsible.

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So everything flowed through  marketing.

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And so marketing became the governing factor that made everything really organized.

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I met another person or got reacquainted a person named Jony Ive.

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And Jony Ive was the head of  industrial design and Chief Design Officer at Apple.

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And they described this way of running a  company that was totally different than the way that I was running it.

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It was basically the way  that Steve Jobs ran Apple from about 1998 until he died in 2011.

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Apple somewhat runs it this way  today, but the services is turning into a division and they are just so big that I think it's not a  one-to-one anymore, but they are still technically run this way.

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And I had this image of not being  divisional because we were running ... We had 10 divisions.

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We had a flights division and we had a  homes division which was divided to pro hosts and core hosts and lux and we had business travel and  we had a magazine and we had experiences and we had . org and we had China.

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So we had these 10  different divisions all going in 10 different directions.

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And I created this culture where  everyone would be a business manager or business leader, general manager, which made them want to  create many general managers.

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And so the company kept getting subdivided, subdivided, subdivided  and that made it very, very difficult to turn.

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And this was all about me delegating  responsibility.

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The problem is if you're running a divisional company, you're a product-led  founder ... What are you doing?

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Strategy, capital allocation.

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My job went from proactive to  very reactive.

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I was reacting to a lot of things.

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I was in a lot of meetings.

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Trying to adjudicate  different issues between groups.

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So then the pandemic occurs and I had this image on mind.

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It's  like I have this dream that I could run a company much more like a startup.

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I remember going on a  walk with Joe and Nate in Bolinas. It was October 2019.

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And I told them I had this dream that I left  the company 10 years ago and they just asked me to come back.

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And I said, "I was horrified at what I  found."

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And they said, "Well, what'd you find?"

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I said, "I found a company that on the one hand had  amazing culture and people with a great mission, with a brand people really loved, but we lost  our design roots.

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We weren't investing in the longterm.

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We were obsessing over hitting metrics.

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We didn't actually have any cohesive understanding of what we were doing.

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It was really hard to get  work done.

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A lot of the great people were leaving and cost was rising and growth was slowing."

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And that was exactly what was happening.

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And then the pandemic occurred and we lost 80%  of our business in eight weeks.

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And then suddenly we're like, oh my God.

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I remember basically  staring into the abyss.

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And luckily I've never had a near-death experience, but the way it's been  described to me is it's like your life flashes before your eyes and you have clarity.

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And that's  what happened to our business.

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We had a near-death business experience and our business flashed  before our eyes.

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And so suddenly I basically got into action and I said, I'm going to run it this  other way where I'm going to get back involved in the details.

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And by the way, Lenny, here's the  funny thing.

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Before the crisis, a lot of people felt like I was too involved in different areas.

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Once the crisis happened, guess what happened?

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People were like, what do we do?

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We need you  more involved.

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And so I got more involved.

25:04

And when I got involved, I made the following  changes.

25:04

The first thing I did is I said, everything we're doing has to be written  down and put into a Google sheet.

25:10

It turns out people couldn't even write down everything  they were doing.

25:15

I remember one person told me, "We're doing too many things for me to  ever be able to document." I'm like, "What?"

25:25

But anyways, we eventually got everyone  to write everything down.

25:25

And I said, okay, we can do about 20% of these things.

25:30

And so if  everyone says, "Oh, Airbnb is simple.

25:30

I'm only doing three things."

25:35

Yes, but you're one of a  thousand people.

25:35

So actually we're doing 3000 things.

25:39

So instead of one team doing three things,  three teams should do one thing.

25:39

So we totally cut down the number of projects.

25:44

We removed layers  of management.

25:44

I wanted to be as few layers as possible from leaders of the team.

25:49

We went to  a functional model.

25:49

We went back to a startup.

25:54

So we said, we're not going to have divisional  leaders.

25:54

We're going to have design, engineering, product which turned to product marketing  and marketing and communications and sales and operations, all the functions of  a startup.

26:02

I said, we're going to have fewer employees.

26:05

We're going to have fewer  more senior people.

26:05

There's a great saying that the best way to slow a project down is  add more people to it.

26:09

And so we felt like very few employees.

26:14

We have fewer than 7,000  employees today.

26:14

As a relative comparison, I think Uber has 30,000.

26:19

And it's not to  say they're big, it's just say that's how small we are and we've really benefited  from having not a lot of employees.

26:28

So we made sure that every executive was an  expert in their functional domain.

26:28

So you know how there's a lot of engineering managers  that aren't that technical or maybe not a lot, but they exist.

26:37

Or there's designers, but there's  design leaders who lead the people.

26:37

A design leader's job should be managing the design first,  the people second. That's what Jony did. They're interchangeable.

26:50

I could never imagine Jony out  at Apple just being a manager of people.

26:50

He was looking and designing the work with the team.

26:57

How do you manage the people without managing their work?

27:02

How do you give them development  if you're not in the details with them on the work?

27:06

So the same thing is true.

27:06

So people had  to be experts.

27:06

Everyone had to be an expert.

27:11

I stopped pushing decision-making down. I pulled  it in.

27:11

I created one shared consciousness and I said, the top 30, 40 people in the company are  going to have one continuous conversation.

27:16

Metrics are going to be subordinate to the calendar.

27:22

So  we're going to have a roadmap.

27:22

It's going to be a two-year roadmap.

27:25

We'll update the roadmap  literally every month.

27:25

People may wonder, well, what if the world changes?

27:30

Yeah, it changes  every day.

27:30

So the roadmap's something where the next month doesn't change, but two years out it  changes. It's a rolling roadmap.

27:35

And by the way, if Ukraine gets invaded and you want to provide  housing for refugees, you can still pivot people and adapt very quickly.

27:44

We house 120,000  refugees.

27:44

So you still keep a reserve of resources to be able to pivot and do things  because there's always unexpected events.

27:54

I created this new function called product  marketing.

27:54

We basically described what that is.

27:58

I made the group much smaller.

27:58

I took a  lot of product managers, I reassigned them as program managers.

28:03

I had many of them trained in  actual program management because their roles got much bigger.

28:08

Program management at Airbnb  is a high status job.

28:08

A lot of companies, it's like a coordination job.

28:13

At Airbnb we  said because we're going to do launches, it's high status.

28:17

We said we're going to do two  launches a year and you can't ship something unless it's on the roadmap.

28:21

So every single  thing in the company, with the exception of some infrastructure projects have to be on the roadmap.

28:25

And then I'm going to review all the work.

28:25

And so we create the CEO review schedule where I said I'm  getting back involved in the project and I'm going to review all the product and all the marketing.

28:36

So every project I would review every week, every two weeks, every four weeks, every eight  weeks or every 12 weeks. There'd be a cadence.

28:46

And then I had a head program manager that would  score all the projects.

28:46

Either they're green, yellow, or red.

28:51

Meaning they're on track or not on  track to ship.

28:51

Whether we thought they were work, we don't know until after we ship it.

28:56

But  I use the reviews of the work every single week.

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And the reason there's not a lot of  bureaucracy and the reason you don't need any influence at Airbnb is I'd review the  work and if something wasn't happening, then I would stop the meeting and say, "Why isn't  this happening?"

29:10

And we would all get together.

29:16

And so you couldn't have a situation where a team  wouldn't collaborate.

29:16

It would be like I could then feel the work of an individual engineer.

29:21

Because imagine if we're a car company and I see the car prototype every week and I notice there's  something about the tires off.

29:28

Now I can identify the individual person who was blocked.

29:36

So every  week I would try to see the equivalent of at least a semi assembly of the entire new product  we were working on, which allowed me to identify with teams the different bottlenecks happening  in the company.

29:50

The reviews were the thing that allowed us to dictate the pace.

29:56

And so because we  had all these reviews, I didn't need to mandate people going back to an office.

30:03

I didn't really  care where they worked because I could track how well they were working because of the review  cycle.

30:07

So these were some of the changes that we made.

30:14

We also started really building out much  more of a marketing communications and creative function.

30:20

We built our own in-house creative  agency.

30:20

So we use production partners, but we don't use Wieden+Kennedy or ChiatDay or any of  those anymore.

30:24

We actually built our own in-house agency, so to speak, which is a creative group.

30:29

The creative group does not just the ads but the creative on the product.

30:37

So we got really, really  functional.

30:37

We got rid of a function called UX writing, and we combined it with marketing  writing.

30:42

We said, wait, why don't we just have the best writers do everything?

30:48

Why is UX writing  a separate function?

30:48

Because actually the emails, the app, the ads should all be one voice.

30:54

Now,  there may be people that come from a different background, like there are people that come  from UX, but they all roll up to one function of writing.

31:03

And writing should not go to design.

31:03

Writing should go to a function called writing.

31:08

Unless you want your head of writing to  report to design, then that doesn't make sense.

31:12

So we really made a lot of those changes.

31:12

Just to round up the question that you asked, I think that way too many founders apologize for  how they want to run the company.

31:19

I don't know why they do, but I think they apologize for how they  run the company.

31:26

They basically find some midpoint between how they want to run a company and how  the people they lead want to run the company.

31:32

If you're a founder, what I would tell you is the  problem with finding a negotiation between how you want to run a company, the people you want,  is that's a good way to make everyone miserable.

31:48

Because what everyone really wants is clarity and  what everyone really wants is to be able to row in the same direction really quickly.

31:52

And also if  you try to appease employees, they may not even be there the whole time.

31:59

So we have entire projects  at the company where somebody advocated to do it, it was a big commitment and then they left and now  we're still doing the project they advocated for.

32:09

So it really has to be something that everyone  wants to sign up for, not just the person who's there because they might not always be there.

32:14

I basically got involved in every single detail.

32:20

And I basically told leaders that leaders are  in the details.

32:20

And there's this negative term called micromanagement, and I think there's  a difference between micromanagement, which is telling people exactly what to do and  being in the details.

32:30

Being the details is what every responsible company's board does to the CEO.

32:36

That doesn't mean the board is telling them what to do.

32:40

But if you don't know the details, how  do you know people are doing a good job?

32:40

People think that great leader's job is to hire people  and just empower them to do a good job.

32:45

Well, how do you know they're doing a good job if you're  not in the details?

32:50

And so I made sure I was in the details and we really drove the product.

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34:09

You guys found such a unique way of working.

34:17

I've never heard of a company working in these  ways, in so many contrarian ways.

34:17

I think it's going to be a really interesting case study as  things progress.

34:23

Essentially what you've done is shut down traditional growth channels or at  least limited them.

34:27

Paid growth and maybe SEO, maybe referrals at least for a while.

34:32

And  you've shifted to let's just make an awesome product and tell people about it.

34:36

And our bet  is that's going to grow.

34:36

Do you feel like this can work for most other products or is there a  consumer specific opportunity?

34:41

What advice would you give to founders that are thinking about,  man, we should try something like this?

34:52

I think that this methodology can work for  everyone, but I don't think you have to be as ideological or have to go all the way to 100.

34:56

I still think growth channels matter.

34:56

To be clear, we still spend money on performance marketing.

35:02

We still do measure conversion and we will do some experiments.

35:08

Think of conversion and growth  optimization as like running a football down a field and think of these big leaps as passes.

35:13

You should probably be doing 80% passes, 20% running the ball down the field, and a  lot of companies that do 80% running down the ball down the field and 20% passes.

35:25

So I think  that this methodology will work for everyone.

35:32

Here are the things I believe.

35:32

I'll give you  a checklist.

35:32

Number one, I think that the CEO, unless they're not a product person, should  think of themselves as this chief product officer and they should be involved in the  product.

35:40

Number two, if you're not functional, I would at least think about everyone being really  close together.

35:45

So here's another way of saying it, Lenny.

35:49

Every product manager should be  interconnected and know what everyone else is doing.

35:54

They shouldn't be independently siloed  unless they really are running separate companies or separate orgs and they have no dependencies.

36:00

I think that every leader should be an expert in what they're leading.

36:05

There should be no people  managers in the entire company.

36:05

And when I say people managers, meaning your only responsibility  is people, not the work or not the domain.

36:09

Because you can't manage people devoid of their work.

36:15

Imagine a fire chief and they don't know anything about putting out fires. That's crazy.

36:20

You have to  know the subject matter.

36:20

People should aim to have as few people as possible on their team.

36:26

I'm not  saying eliminate people.

36:26

I mean grow slowly and do not be reckless.

36:31

Five teams should do one thing  rather than one team do five things.

36:31

So that's just a metaphor.

36:37

But people should work together.

36:37

I think that people should consider doing launches.

36:42

You can by the way, ship every hour of  every day, but then package it and tell a story if you want hold the product back.

36:48

I think that teams  should use data, but they should also use research and intuition.

36:54

There's a designer called Charles  Eames that said you can't delegate understanding.

36:59

If you're going to do AB experiments or measure  data, you have to understand what it means.

36:59

I think that you have to have an intuition.

37:04

Intuition comes not from arbitrariness, it comes from understanding.

37:09

I would make sure that  you have engineering and design ideally report to the founder, product led person.

37:16

I would not have  design under product unless you have an extremely good reason or the product person is a designer.

37:22

I would try to think about product management, expanding the responsibility and including  distribution.

37:29

Understanding the customer and teaching people how to tell a story.

37:34

I would  try to make sure that the product managers are a combination of art and science.

37:38

I do not  think you want purely technical product managers doing things if they're going to work with  non-technical functions.

37:44

If they're only work technical functions, that's fine, but they're  going to work with non-technical functions, I think that's a problem.

37:53

I should make sure that  marketing and engineering are interconnected.

37:58

I would make sure that you have as few layers  between a CEO and other people.

37:58

If you're a CEO, every direct to your direct should be a implicit  dotted line to you.

38:04

So I treat every direct to my direct as if they're a direct report. A  dotted line.

38:10

I don't try to conflict with the direction of my team, but I always want to  know what another layer below me is doing.

38:18

I think you should think of each release as a  chapter of a story or like an episode of a TV series.

38:23

And you should think of your company in a  five or 10 years story.

38:23

You may not know where you are in 10 years, but you're telling this ongoing  story.

38:27

And most of all, I would say that everyone should row in the same direction.

38:34

If there's  only one thing I said in this interview today, actually I'm not sure what it would be, but I  think a good candidate is try to get everyone to row together in the same direction.

38:43

Otherwise,  why the hell are you all in the same company?

38:48

Speaking of rowing in the same direction, you  had a huge launch today.

38:48

I know you wanted to talk about it. Your winter release.

38:53

And  it is the culmination of a lot of the things you're talking about.

38:56

I'd love to hear  just some of the stuff you're launching.

39:00

Let me just back up Lenny.

39:00

You know this problem  really well.

39:00

One of the best things of Airbnb is that we're this marketplace where guests and  hosts come together and we have all this unique inventory and people list it on Airbnb.

39:11

And  every home is one of a kind and we have seven million homes and there's all this surprise and  all this delight.

39:16

The problem is that every home is one of a kind and you often don't know what  you're going to get.

39:21

And so a lot of guests have described checking into Airbnb as a moment of  truth.

39:28

Where when you open the door you find out if the home is exactly the home that you  booked.

39:36

And this turns out to be a big problem for people wanting to book an Airbnb.

39:42

And when  we survey guests or people who don't use Airbnb, the number one ...

39:49

Hotels are not as special,  they're not as unique, but the advantage they have is you know what you're going to get.

39:53

You know exactly what you're going to get.

39:56

And so what we found is that reliability is  Airbnb's achilles heel, or at least it has been.

40:01

That with hotels you know what you're going  to get an Airbnb you don't always know what you're going to get.

40:05

And so we asked ourselves, what  if we could combine the uniqueness of Airbnb with the reliability that you've come to  expect in a hotel?

40:12

And that's what we've done with Guest Favorites.

40:16

Guest Favorites  are homes that guests in our community love the most.

40:22

We took 370 million reviews on Airbnb  plus millions of customer service tickets, plus all the host cancellation data and we use all the  signal to create the top two million homes.

40:29

This collection of two million homes that we call Guest  Favorites because the guests rate the highest.

40:35

We think combine the uniqueness of Airbnb with a  reliability you've come to expect in a hotel and I can't imagine there's a lot of use cases  where you wouldn't want to book a Guest Favorite.

40:49

We think that's also part of this broader system  of ratings and reviews.

40:49

You see, as you know, Airbnb is built on a system of trust and we  invented this new way for people to trust one another, at least at scale through living together  certainly.

40:59

And we felt like the rating and review system could use a little bit of an upgrade.

41:05

So we obviously made some upgrades to ratings and reviews.

41:09

The final thing, and this brings  up another point I might bring up, is we've completely overhauled the host tab.

41:14

One of the  most important things when you get to an Airbnb is the listing is accurate.

41:21

But the problem is that  a lot of host listings don't have all the details up to date.

41:27

So they might not describe perfectly  their listing, they might not have filled up their amenities, they might not have a photo tour.

41:33

And the reason why as we're doing research is because they found it was hard to manage their  listing.

41:38

And it was hard to manage their listing because it was designed as this hodgepodge  thing by different teams over many years.

41:47

Oh, here's the other thing, Lenny, when you were  at Airbnb, we had a guest team and a host team.

41:51

We don't have a guest team and host team. We have  a design team.

41:51

We have a marketing team.

41:51

We have an engineering team.

41:55

The reason we don't break  the app into guests and hosts anymore is because reviews affect guests and hosts.

42:02

It turns out  that almost everything involves connecting the guest and host.

42:08

When you have separate teams, they  tend to have separate roadmaps that go in separate directions that become incompatible.

42:12

So we have  product marketers that are responsible for guests and host things, but the designers and  the engineers are fairly fungible and they can move from project to project.

42:23

And then we keep some people, especially the product marketing people on a domain area,  but we really want to make sure that we have designers and engineers covering a much larger  surface.

42:31

And so that's what we did.

42:31

We have this incredible new tab called the listing tab  that we designed.

42:38

It's quite possibly one of the nicest things we ever designed.

42:44

If you go to my  Twitter account, you'll see a little sizzle reel from some of the design we've done.

42:48

By the way,  the design is a whole new aesthetic.

42:48

I'd like to make the announcement that I think flat design is  over or ending.

42:55

I think if you remember the 2000s was dominated by skeuomorphism.

43:00

The 2010s have  been dominated with the launch of iOS seven by flat design.

43:06

And I think we're going to move back  into a world with color, texture, dimensionality, more haptic feedback, but I don't think it's going  to be skeuomorphism where it pretends to be a wood grain to reference a dashboard or leather, but I  think it's going to have a sense of dimension.

43:24

I think the reason why is we're spending more and  more time on screens and we want the screens to replicate some of what we see in the natural  environment. Light, texture.

43:30

I think it's more intuitive, it's more playful.

43:36

I think AI allows  the development of more sophisticated interfaces.

43:42

People in AI are gravitating to image generating  art that has got more dimension to it.

43:42

And so I think that we've really started to push this more  three-dimensional, colorful aesthetic that I think it's going to be where a lot of interface design  is going.

43:56

And we built this AI powered photo tour where we created our own AI computer visioning  language that we trained on 100 million photos and it can basically scan all your photos and organize  them by room.

44:07

So that's what we did today.

44:07

Maybe just to round it up, what I would say is that none  of this would've been possible in the old way of working.

44:18

We could have theoretically launched a  lot of these features, but really getting them to work together has been key.

44:24

And Guest Favorites  has required the guests, people ...

44:24

You have to work with guests, you have to work with hosts,  you have to essentially ...

44:30

You have to figure out how to communicate to the market.

44:37

So  it's a much more integrated approach.

44:41

The designs you talked about, they are incredibly  cute.

44:41

You tweeted a little video of a lot of them, like the couch with little textures  on it. It is really cool. Also, the listing tab.

44:50

I think people that aren't  hosts don't understand how important the listing experience is to a host.

44:55

How many hosts  are there? Seven million? Something like that?

45:00

There's seven million listings.

45:00

Over seven million listings. Yeah.

45:04

And so that's the home base.

45:04

That's like the  small business platform for millions of people.

45:10

And so I worked on the host sites.

45:10

I have a  special place in my heart for host features, and I feel like travelers don't really appreciate  the value of that part of the product.

45:17

Well, yeah, you did some amazing work there. Yeah.

45:17

The big lesson, Lenny, the other thing we learned is to create a great guest experience,  you need great hosts, and to have great hosts, they need great tools.

45:28

And so if you want  to create a great experience for guests, it often starts with building great tools  for hosts to enable them to provide a great experience for guests.

45:36

And so that was one of the  theories behind the listing tab is we're going to build great tools for hosts.

45:41

They're going to  love it.

45:41

And we also felt like if we put care in the design of our app, that hosts are going to  see that and that they're going to actually put care into hosting.

45:50

Even more than they already  do.

45:50

And they do put a lot of care in now.

45:55

Speaking of great products, a defining  characteristic of Brian Chesky in my mind is how big you make people think.

46:00

How you push  people to think bigger.

46:00

Memories I have of you is in meetings, we present our goal and you're always  saying, "How do we 10X this?

46:07

What would it take to 10X this idea?"

46:12

And somehow we often hit these  crazy goals after you 10X'd them or sometimes just double them.

46:20

What have you learned about just the  power of setting really ambitious goals, but also finding the balance with not demoralizing people  if they don't hit these really ambitious goals?

46:32

As you know, there was a saying inside of Airbnb,  it was add a zero.

46:32

Add a zero at the end, which is to imagine something you order, imagine it  bigger.

46:38

The exercise isn't necessarily to say if people say they want to hit a goal, I say, okay,  I added a zero, you have to hit that goal.

46:45

It's more the exercise of what would it take to be 10X  bigger or do something 10 times better?

46:50

Because what you find is when you push people, they will  sometimes think about the problem differently.

46:56

And one of the best ways to get unstuck from a problem  is to imagine a 10X scale or 10X better or 10X faster where you can't do the current process  to do it.

47:08

You have to think differently about the problem.

47:14

And to think differently about the  problem means you have to deeply understand the problem.

47:17

And to deeply understand the problem,  you have to break it into its components.

47:21

And we might call this first principle thinking.

47:21

What are the foundational elements that comprise this problem and how can we reconstruct them?

47:27

So the first thing is I think by adding a zero, at least conceptually for teams, that helps  them understand a problem.

47:32

The second is, I think one of the most important things for  a founder or leader to do is set the pace of the team.

47:40

I think the pace of the team is one of  the most important things you can do.

47:40

And that pace is sometimes governed not by how hard people  work, but how decisive they are.

47:45

If you want to improve the speed of a company, then make faster  decisions.

47:51

And fast decisions come from a bias of action.

47:57

If we're in a meeting, we don't just say,  "Okay, let's circle back on this next week."

47:57

No, we'll have it done by next week.

48:03

Let's stay  in this meeting until it's done. What are you doing? Have a bias for action. Who's responsible?

48:07

Okay, what are you doing?

48:07

Okay, let's check in an hour.

48:11

I'll call you in the morning.

48:11

Okay, how  do we do this?

48:11

And so you end up getting three months of work done over that period of time.

48:15

But the last thing I'll say about adding a zero, Lenny, is I remember there was a story about  a great basketball coach named John Wooden.

48:27

He was one of the winningest basketball coaches,  I think, in college basketball history, perhaps the greatest.

48:31

And someone asked him once ...

48:31

I'm  going to paraphrase what he said.

48:31

What is your secret to success?

48:35

And he said, "That I just asked  my players to do their very best."

48:35

And I remember thinking to myself, that doesn't sound like the  secret to success, asking people to do their best.

48:48

But there was an implicit thing that he didn't  say, which is that he saw potential in people that they never saw in themselves.

48:54

And so the  role of a leader is to see potential in people that they may not even see themselves.

49:01

When I tell somebody it's not good enough, either I'm saying, you're not good enough, or I  believe that you have more potential than you're showing me.

49:12

So in other words, you can push a  team and they could feel demoralized because they can feel like what they're doing is not good  enough if they have a fixed mindset or you create a growth mindset organization where the more  I'm involved, the more I say you can do better, it's because the more I believe in you, and I  know that you have more in you.

49:26

And the way to know if a team could do better is if they're  life dependent on it, could they do it?

49:31

And Andy Grove used to say that there's competency  and motivation.

49:35

And motivation is if they're life ...

49:40

Not literally dependent on it, but if  it was a crisis or if it was a defining moment in their lives.

49:45

I think the job of a leader is not to  make it life and death, that's too far, but to be able to motivate a team to see potential in them  that they don't see in themselves, and to really push them.

49:55

To set a tempo, to break something down  to first principle thinking.

49:55

And if you do that, then I think that's going to be the opposite of  these slow moving, soul crushing bureaucracies.

50:05

I've definitely been through that where you set  a crazy goal and then we ended up hitting it.

50:05

And so I've seen that myself.

50:09

With some of the things  you've talked about of say, do it now, we're not going to wait another week to circle back and this  stuff you talked about of taking on the CPO role, not having a CPO, and also all these launches,  it sounds like a lot of work and a lot of hours.

50:26

What have you learned about avoiding burnout and  creating balance and also just helping people on your team avoid burnout and creating balance?

50:32

First of all, I want to give you a very surprising learning.

50:38

I weirdly now, the more I get involved  ... This is so weird.

50:38

The more in the details I am, the more time I have on my hands. That's a  paradox.

50:45

And I want to explain that paradox.

50:45

It doesn't make any sense.

50:51

But when I explain this  process to people that I would be in the details, we'd have one shared consciousness, I would review  everything, we would do endless edits of even the press release, it would seem like I would be  working 80, 100 hours a week and that people will be disempowered and that no one would want to  do anything.

51:05

And I got just the opposite. Here's what I found.

51:11

If you decide to be in the details  and get very, very hands-on like I did, it might be a lot more work for about one to two years.

51:17

And so for one to two years it was way more work than the old way.

51:22

But once we turned the  corner, suddenly everyone started rowing the same direction.

51:28

Suddenly I didn't have to  be in meetings anymore and people would do what I wanted them to do if I wasn't there.

51:33

And by  the way, that's what the culture is.

51:33

They say the culture is what happens when you're not in the  room and the brand is what people say when you're not in the room.

51:41

And so that became our culture.

51:41

Suddenly there was fewer conflicts in the company. There was less turnover.

51:49

People were rowing in the  same direction. That I wasn't reacting.

51:49

Before, I would get 10 surprises and nine were bad.

51:57

Now  I get 10 surprises and nine are good.

51:57

And you don't really have to do anything about good  surprises, only bad surprises.

52:02

That I used to have to intervene in projects that I wasn't  involved in because they were going off in the wrong direction and by the time I got involved,  I was associated with dysfunction, but I only got involved because it was dysfunctional.

52:15

It  wasn't actually going well.

52:15

And then it was three times as work to fix something because  we weren't involved in the very early stages.

52:24

So I was much more involved.

52:24

I had a lot less  time on my hands initially, and now I actually weirdly have a lot more time on my hands.

52:31

But to answer your question on burnout, I think is another very good question.

52:34

I do not think  I am the poster child, at least historically, of work-life balance. I'm 42 years old.

52:40

I  live with a golden retriever.

52:40

I don't yet have a family.

52:45

And if you asked me when I was in  college how I thought my life would be right now, I probably would've thought the inverse.

52:51

That I'd have a family and I'd one day run a company.

52:55

And I did things in a slightly  different order.

52:55

But one of the things I've learned is that there's this temptation to work  more and more and more hours.

53:00

And sometimes you need ...

53:06

Let's say an artist, you have to step  away from the painting.

53:06

And you actually start getting more derivatives, slower and slower.

53:10

And so I basically have tried to make it a practice to step away from the work.

53:16

And so  here's some of the things I do.

53:16

Every other weekend I don't really work at all.

53:21

And then  every other weekend I work pretty intensely.

53:27

If I had a family, it would probably be more like  a day of the weekend I'd work more intensely.

53:27

You wouldn't be a parent every other weekend,  but I'm not so it's a little different.

53:32

I usually make sure I exercise and I never miss a  workout.

53:35

So I usually wake up, I'll do 20 minutes of morning cardio on a Peloton.

53:41

I'll go to the  gym three or four times a week and do weights.

53:46

I'll basically do cardio just about every day.

53:46

I make sure that I eat really healthy.

53:46

I have a classic bodybuilding diet of five to six meals  a day.

53:50

So I try to make sure I do that.

53:50

I try to make sure I get a fairly good amount of sleep.

53:58

The other two things I try to do is have really healthy relationships.

54:03

I think one of the most  important things that will govern how happy you are in your life is your relationships.

54:07

I  think the three things are your health, your relationships, and your work.

54:13

Those are probably  the three most important things.

54:13

So as long as you're healthy and you have meaningful work, the  last is relationships.

54:17

And there was this Harvard study.

54:21

It's the longest study on human happiness.

54:21

I think it's 85 years old.

54:21

And the question was, what's the secret of happiness?

54:26

And of course  they weren't expecting to have a single answer, but they got one.

54:30

And the answer was,  the secret to happiness, if there is one, is healthy relationships.

54:34

And I had found, Lenny,  that over the time of being an entrepreneur, I had gotten totally isolated.

54:40

It was almost  as if I didn't have friends.

54:40

I had friends, but I didn't keep in touch with them.

54:44

And every  time I reached out to a friend, I had to get them up to speed on my life.

54:48

And if you have to get  people up to speed, you're not really keeping as much in touch with them.

54:51

And so I started  making a practice a couple of years ago to make sure that I have a group of friends that I'm  constantly in touch with, including old friends.

55:03

So I have a group of high school friends, we have  a group chat and we take one to two trips together a year.

55:07

I have a group of college friends, we  have a group chat.

55:07

We take probably a couple trips together a year.

55:12

By the way, doing Airbnbs  are great.

55:12

We all get in a house together and it's like your opportunity to have a shared experience.

55:18

And if you don't travel with your old friends, you'll have only old stories to talk about and  then you say the same old stories over and over.

55:27

So you want to be able to have new shared  experiences.

55:27

When I stay here in New York City ...

55:31

I'm in New York right now.

55:31

That's why  you don't see my typical background.

55:31

I stay in my sister's apartment.

55:35

So she's got a two bedroom  and I stay in her house because I like to see her.

55:40

And I just make sure I spend a lot of time  with friends. And of course we travel.

55:40

Traveling is what I do with a lot of my friends.

55:45

And then  I like to draw and read.

55:45

So I try to make sure it's health, work and relationships.

55:51

And I try  to make sure I have a balance of each.

55:51

And you might call family relationships.

55:56

I'm single,  but that would be another version of it.

56:02

I heard you say along the same lines on a  different podcast about how when you're really busy, you didn't have time to reach out to anyone  and they never thought they could reach out to you because they thought you were so busy.

56:10

In the old world, I was reacting, so everyone thought I was busy.

56:14

So the people I really cared  about, a lot of them said, "Well, he's busy so he'll reach out to me when he's not busy." But  here's a problem.

56:19

I was so busy that all I was doing all day was responding to people.

56:24

And so  if people I cared about didn't reach out to me, I was dealing with incoming.

56:30

I could barely deal  with the incoming. Now that was a mistake. But I was reacting.

56:36

By the way, here's another lesson  for founders.

56:36

A lot of founders spend their time based on reacting.

56:44

So people will email them and  they'll wake up and they'll respond to emails, and suddenly their email sets the agenda.

56:50

People  ask for meetings, and suddenly the meetings they take are based on the people who email them.

56:55

Versus here's my strategy and then over the next year, what are the relationships I  need to have and the meetings I need to take to be able to execute this strategy?

57:03

If my life were to end in a year or in 10 years or some time horizon that's shorter than I  expected, who are the people I would've wanted to make sure I spent time with?

57:14

And if you imagine  that your life is finite, because it is, and you imagine you're not going to be here as long as  you thought you would be, because it's possible, it would completely change how you prioritize your  time.

57:27

I think suddenly you would start to say no to things and you'd say yes to other things.

57:32

I now try to say no to what I call fake work, which is things that feel like work, but they  don't actually move the ball down the field.

57:39

And I really try to say yes to the work that's very  meaningful and people that are very meaningful to me.

57:48

So yeah, it's a really, really good insight.

57:48

And by the way, that metaphor, Lenny, but it's true of companies too. You can sometimes be ...

57:52

You don't want to only spend your time reacting or spending your time with the employees reaching  out to you.

57:59

You do want to do some of it, but then you're rewarding only one type of behavior and  the introverts or the people that aren't reaching out to you aren't going to get any attention.

58:11

Just one more question and then I have a quick fun question at the end. I know you have to run.

58:16

If  I were to ask people who are the most inspiring leaders in tech and in business in general, I  think you'd be right near the top of that list.

58:26

You've been through a lot of ups and downs, you've  learned a lot of lessons along the way.

58:26

What have you found has been most helpful to helping you  continue to grow and keep up with the business, the way the business has grown, the scale  and just to take on this leadership role? Is it coaching? Is it reading? Is it other  mentors?

58:40

Something along those lines.

58:46

You ask really good questions.

58:46

And by the  way, thank you.

58:46

I'll share a few thoughts.

58:51

I was with Sam Altman probably a few weeks ago at  dinner, and I told him, "I still feel like I have a lot to prove. I haven't made it yet."

58:57

And he  was really surprised.

58:57

He's like, "What are you talking about?"

59:02

And I didn't even realize that he  thought that was an absurd notion, but I said, no, I haven't made it yet.

59:08

It's not to say I'm not  grateful or I feel like I need to get somewhere so that therefore I'll feel worthy.

59:15

But I have  this beginner's mindset that the bigger I get, the more a beginner I tend to feel. It's a  weird feeling.

59:25

I think when I first took off, I think I thought I knew everything or I knew  more than I certainly did.

59:30

But then you get past some peak or you go into this trough  where you realize, oh my God, the moment you get to some frontier of knowledge, you start to  become a beginner again and everything is new.

59:49

And so I think the first thing I try to do is  to be a beginner.

59:49

Pablo Picasso had a saying.

59:55

He said, "It took me four years to learn to paint  like Raphael, but a lifetime to learn to paint like a child."

1:00:00

And so I've tried to always  see the world through the eyes of a child.

1:00:05

And I think one of the key characteristics of a  child is curiosity.

1:00:05

To see everything with fresh eyes.

1:00:10

To not have too many judgments.

1:00:10

When I  was trying to figure how to run the company, I studied the history of divisional organizations  and I studied Steve Jobs, but also studied what Bill Gates did.

1:00:21

And I studied Alfred Sloan  at General Motors that MIT Sloan is named after.

1:00:27

And actually the founding of divisional  companies, which I believe was DuPont.

1:00:27

They were making powder for gunpowder. The war ends.

1:00:32

What  do we do with powder?

1:00:32

Turns out powder can be used for paint, but the way you sell gunpowder and  paint are different sales channels so they created what we now know as the divisional structure.

1:00:43

So I try to understand the sources of things. I try to learn.

1:00:51

I try to be shameless about reaching  out to help.

1:00:51

I think that a lot of people are afraid to reach out to help because they think  other people are busy.

1:00:57

The biggest honor most people get in their lives, or one of the biggest  honor is when other people ask them for help.

1:01:07

Because we all just want to feel useful.

1:01:07

So don't  feel ashamed to reach out to something for help.

1:01:12

It gives a lot of them great honor.

1:01:12

And I think  you don't need to reach out to people 10 years ahead of you.

1:01:19

They can just be people a year ahead  of you.

1:01:19

In fact, an entrepreneur getting started, I might be less youthful than somebody two years  ahead of them that knows the latest distribution channels that I have forgotten.

1:01:30

So I think that  that is the key.

1:01:30

It's learning, it's growing, it's curiosity.

1:01:37

It's constantly having that hunger  and that fire to always want to be better.

1:01:37

To feel like I haven't made it yet.

1:01:45

Because the  reason I say I haven't made it yet is because if I've made it, then I'm done.

1:01:51

And I want to  feel like an artist.

1:01:51

Bob Dylan used to say, "An artist has to be in a constant place of  becoming and so long as they don't become something, then they're going to be okay."

1:02:02

And so you have to always be evolving, learning, growing, and the canvas keeps getting bigger.

1:02:08

The  mountaintop keeps getting higher.

1:02:08

And I feel like I'm just getting started and I hope that ...

1:02:16

I  don't know how long you intend to do the podcast, but I intend to do this for a long time and if  you do or whatever, we'll definitely want to have talks.

1:02:27

And I hope years from now, Lenny,  I hope 70% of what I said I still believe, but if 100% of what I say, I still believe then  I probably haven't learned very much.

1:02:34

And so if 90% I say I don't believe anymore than I'm  delusional and wrong.

1:02:41

But I sincerely hope that I retract it or change or modify a few  things I said today in a few years, because that will mean that I've gained more wisdom. And so how do I do that? By being curious. That is beautiful.

1:02:58

It reminds me, you mentioned  Sam Altman.

1:02:58

There's a tweet that he put out a couple of weeks ago that I'll read real quick.

1:03:03

"Many people have reached out to offer help and advice over the past year.

1:03:07

No one has gotten close  to Brian Chesky in terms of delivering.

1:03:07

He will take a midnight call at any time, put in hours  of work on any topic, answer difficult questions correctly with clarity, make any intro, et  cetera."

1:03:16

How does that feel to have seen that?

1:03:23

I had no idea he was going to do that.

1:03:23

And I just  want to say I think Sam is obviously a once in a generation founder.

1:03:29

I think what he's done with  OpenAI is extraordinary.

1:03:29

And when he launched ChatGPT I had known him for a real long period  of time, and I knew a sense of the journey he was about to go on.

1:03:41

And I think that he was very  deep into the technical part and then research part of OpenAI.

1:03:47

But it turned out there was a  product, a design, a marketing, a leadership, a sales.

1:03:52

So there were all these other functional  responsibilities.

1:03:52

And so being able to just play a small part in giving some advice when necessary  ...

1:03:58

And he would take what he wanted and discard others.

1:04:03

But I think, Lenny, maybe this goes  to another thing, which is all I tried to do with Sam was what other people did for me.

1:04:09

Before Y Combinator, there was a person named Michael Seibel. He's in Y Combinator.

1:04:14

And he  used to meet with me and give me advice.

1:04:14

And he wasn't an official advisor, he wasn't an  investor.

1:04:19

I didn't hire him or anything like that. He wasn't on my board.

1:04:23

And I asked him, I  said, "How do I repay you?"

1:04:23

And he said, "Well, I want you to pass this on to other founders."

1:04:29

And  I would meet with a lot of people in the valley, and there was just this incredible culture  of generosity that we all were going to win if the ecosystem was healthy.

1:04:41

And the ecosystem  would be healthy if we all helped one another. And you pay it forward.

1:04:47

I think that it's just  one continuation of the valley of people helping one another, learning from one another.

1:04:56

And I  also feel like I learned by teaching as well. Final question.

1:05:03

When someone joins Airbnb,  there's a very longstanding tradition of sharing a fun fact about yourself.

1:05:07

It might be the longest  standing tradition.

1:05:07

It's always tough on the spot, but I'm curious, Brian, if there's a fun  fact that you want to share about yourself that maybe people don't already know. Yeah.

1:05:16

A fun fact about me is that I actually spent most of my life as an artist.

1:05:22

When I was  five years old I remember my parents take me to the Norman Rockwell museum and I would sit in  front of his beautiful illustrations.

1:05:29

They're really paintings I should say.

1:05:34

I shouldn't even  call them illustrations.

1:05:34

And I would try to reproduce them.

1:05:38

And I got obsessive with art.

1:05:38

I  remember when I was maybe in elementary school, I asked Santa for poorly designed Christmas toys  so I could redesign them.

1:05:45

When I got older, one of my friends, I went to his house ...

1:05:52

I'm going to  say I was eight or nine years old.

1:05:52

And his dad was basically redoing his deck, but his dad decided  to design it himself.

1:05:57

I think maybe he was an architect.

1:06:02

So he had this giant dining room table,  and he had this vellum paper and he had a T-square and a drawing triangle and a protractor.

1:06:08

They  were really cool looking tools, and they were basically floor plans and architectural drawings.

1:06:13

So I got into architectural and landscape design when I was like eight or nine, and that led  to my interest in architecture.

1:06:17

I went to RPI when I was in freshman year of high school  to do a pre-college program.

1:06:23

Then I got into more and more drawing and figure drawing.

1:06:30

Then I  got into a film and animation.

1:06:30

Then I got involved in environmental design.

1:06:37

I realized that if you  buy stock in a company, you could get these cool glossy annual reports.

1:06:43

This is when the internet  was nascent and people still mailed the annual reports.

1:06:48

As so I got my dad to buy a few shares  at some Disney stock.

1:06:48

And I got these renderings and he had a report of theme parks.

1:06:54

And I started  drawing and designing theme parks in communities.

1:07:00

And I was at this private school actually  for hockey.

1:07:00

Because I had this life where I was playing ice hockey and I thought I  was going to play college hockey.

1:07:08

My dad was really into it. I was really into it.

1:07:13

And I had an art teacher in high school at this military school. That's another fun fact.

1:07:17

I basically went to a military high school. Wow. I did not know that.

1:07:21

And at this military sports academy oriented high school, I had the same art teacher from eighth  grade to 11th grade.

1:07:25

And that's not a good thing, by the way.

1:07:31

I don't say it as a good thing because  I was not diversifying my skills.

1:07:31

And so I leave this high school because I wanted to pursue  different interests than hockey.

1:07:36

And I transferred to my public high school late my junior year.

1:07:42

And imagine transferring to a new public high school late junior year.

1:07:48

And I meet my art teacher  who changes my life. Her name is Ms.

1:07:48

Williams, and she sees my artwork.

1:07:56

And by the way, my mom  was nervous about me becoming an artist.

1:07:56

She used to tell me, "I chose a job for the love, and I  got paid no money.

1:08:04

So you should choose a job that pays you a lot of money."

1:08:09

And I said to my mom,  "One day, I'm going to be an artist."

1:08:09

She said, "Oh my God, you chose the only job where you're  going to paid less than a social worker."

1:08:12

So I think my parents, they were supportive of  me going to art, but they were very nervous. And then Ms.

1:08:20

Williams told my mom, she said,  "Don't worry.

1:08:20

He's going to be a famous artist one day."

1:08:24

I wasn't going to become a famous  artist.

1:08:24

But what that did is I think it gave everyone the confidence for me to pursue art.

1:08:28

I ended up being a winner, there were multiple winners, of a national art competition, and I had  my artwork displayed in the Rotunda Gallery.

1:08:34

That then led to me getting a scholarship at the Rhode  Island School of Design where I ended up going to RISD.

1:08:46

It's like MIT for design or whatever.

1:08:46

It's  a prestigious art and design school.

1:08:46

But I got to RISD and I realized I was born 100 years too late  for what I wanted to do, which is draw and paint.

1:09:01

And I felt like at that point, photography and now  AI generated art, but certainly even back then, photography was replacing a lot of the skills that  I had.

1:09:07

And that's when I was in my freshman year of college and I learned about a field called  industrial design.

1:09:15

They said industrial design is the design of everything from a toothbrush  to a spaceship and everything in between.

1:09:26

And really, Lenny, maybe just to round out the  story, because that was a fun fact, but I'm just ...

1:09:30

And this is the pre founding story that  I never tell.

1:09:30

I don't think I could have ever done what I did if I wasn't an industrial designer.

1:09:35

I think industrial designer is different than a graphic designer.

1:09:39

Because an industrial  designer, you have to work with engineering in your training.

1:09:46

I worked with mechanical  engineers, electric engineers.

1:09:46

You have to understand manufacturing.

1:09:51

Industrial design's very  accountable to sales.

1:09:51

If you design a building, an architect, and you design an office building  and the office building doesn't get leased, the architect's usually not on the hook for it.

1:10:00

But if you're an industrial designer and you design a product, it doesn't sell, you're  on the hook for it.

1:10:03

At least people assume you didn't design a good product.

1:10:07

So you  had to understand marketing and strategy.

1:10:10

And so that became this gateway.

1:10:10

But I didn't  really want to make items and objects my whole life.

1:10:17

At RISD, the biggest value I got  in addition to learning industrial design was I met my co-founder, Joe Gebbia.

1:10:23

And the  day of graduation Joe looks to me, he says, "Brian, I think we're going to start a company  together one day."

1:10:28

And I had no idea what he was referring to.

1:10:32

So I moved to Los Angeles where  I work as an industrial designer for two years when one day I got a package in the mail that  changed my life.

1:10:38

I opened this package and it's a seat cushion with a handle on it.

1:10:43

And it's a  letter from Joe, my friend from RISD.

1:10:43

He said, "I started a company and everyone in San Francisco  ...

1:10:50

I live in San Francisco and all these people are starting companies. You should come here." And this is in 2007.

1:10:56

YouTube had just come out.

1:11:02

I had seen all these Steve Jobs keynotes finally  on YouTube.

1:11:02

I didn't know who he was.

1:11:02

I'd never heard his voice before YouTube.

1:11:06

And Apple had this  renaissance and Google was on fire and Facebook was taking off.

1:11:13

And it felt like the gears of the  world that were turning were in San Francisco.

1:11:18

And so one day I go into work and I quit  my job. My boss is dumbfounded.

1:11:18

And I pack everything in the backseat of old Honda  Civic.

1:11:23

I get to San Francisco and Joe tells me the rent is $1,150.

1:11:29

I don't have  enough money to pay our rent.

1:11:29

This design conference is coming to San Francisco.

1:11:34

All the  hotels are sold out.

1:11:34

We said, what if we turned our house into a bed and breakfast for the design  conference?

1:11:38

I didn't have any beds, but Joe had beds and we called it Air Bed and Breakfast.

1:11:43

So my fun fact was I was an artist and designer before Airbnb.

1:11:48

Really an artist, at least how I  thought about it.

1:11:48

And I think that's maybe one of the things that makes Airbnb different.

1:11:54

Because there's not a lot of designers or artists running Fortune 500 or S&P 500 companies.

1:11:59

And I think that intuition, imagination, design, curiosity, I think we need more of that.

1:12:05

By the way, I think the people listening, I think everyone on this, listen, you have these  qualities.

1:12:09

But I think that a lot of companies, it's like we're a body and the companies are cut  off at the head and they're disembodied from their heart, and they're often really biased towards one  side of their head.

1:12:20

And I think that some of the greatest scientists played musical instruments  like Einstein.

1:12:24

I think that being a whole, well-rounded way of thinking about the world is  good.

1:12:30

So anyways, that's my final thought.

1:12:37

I love that fun fact because it almost  explains everything you've been talking about, which is rethinking the way companies can run,  doing things super differently.

1:12:40

So I really appreciate you sharing that.

1:12:45

I also love that it  transitioned into the creation story of Airbnb, which happens a lot at Airbnb.

1:12:48

People hear that  story over and over because it's so interesting and so important.

1:12:53

Brian, I know you have to  run.

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Thank you so much for being here and being generous with your time.

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Thank you, Lenny, and congratulations on everything you're doing. Thanks Brian. Bye everyone.

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