It took 2 MILLION swipes on dating app tinder for a man to finally get a date. Relationship expert Esther Perel reveals what went wrong and what you should be doing instead... #podcast #datingcrisis #love #dating #shorts
If you enjoyed this video, I recommend you check out my conversation with dating expert Logan Ury, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ow3ao6YsCgQ 00:00 Intro 03:02 Improving & Reviving People’s Relationships 06:17 The Impact of Childhood on Relationship Patterns 13:16 Navigating Couple Dynamics 24:41 Invest in Your Relationship 31:57 Reviving the Spark 34:51 The Words You Need To Use In Your Relationship 38:03 Transforming Conflict into Connection 46:36 Challenges of Connection in the Next Generations 49:27 Are Younger Generations Less Resilient? 51:19 Eroticism 56:44 Managing Expectations on Your Relationship 59:55 Romanticism in Relationships 01:02:17 The Power of Communication 01:06:25 Feminism, Gender Roles, and Sexual Dynamics 01:12:09 Are Couples Having Less Sex? 01:17:40 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 01:19:42 Why Relationships Can Go Sexless For Years and How To Fix It 01:28:35 Ads 01:30:13 The Sex Game 01:35:56 The Real Reason People Cheat 01:42:41 Introducing New Things into Your Relationship 01:52:24 Actionable Advice for Couples 01:59:02 Last Guest Question Follow Esther: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3Gx63qy Twitter: https://bit.ly/3T7vN4k Esther’s book: https://amzn.to/48wdA4X My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGq-a57w-aPwyi3pW7XLiHw/join FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://x.com/StevenBartlett?s=20 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Eight Sleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/uk/steven/ CODE: STEVEN (save $150 on the Pod Cover) ZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO50
Swipe left, feel empty, and wonder why? Esther Perel reveals the hidden truths behind the dating crisis, loneliness, and the shocking decline in sex and intimacy. Esther Perel is a world-renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert, widely recognised as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. She is the bestselling author of books such as, ‘The State of Affairs’. She explains: ◽️ Why MEN Over 30 Aren’t Having Sex Anymore. ◽️ The SEX GAME that could Save Your Relationship. ◽️ How CHILDHOOD TRAUMA is Secretly Sabotaging Your Marriage. ◽️ Why Investing in AUTHENTIC CONNECTION is the key to a Fulfilling Life. ◽️ The ONE RED FLAG that Predicts Divorce. 00:00 Intro 02:14 Esther’s Main Concern About Human Connection 03:07 What’s the Consequence of Losing Social Skills? 04:04 Is Online Dating the Only Choice Nowadays? 06:58 The Value of Rejection 07:36 Rejection from the Apps 08:33 What to Do If Dating Apps Don’t Work for You 11:11 Is Too Much Choice Making Dating Harder? 12:46 How to Cope with Online Dating Burnout 14:15 The Changing Role of Masculinity and Its Impact on Society 15:42 Loneliness Today 17:02 Why Do People Have Less Sex Nowadays? 20:02 Importance of Deep Connection in Relationships 21:35 How Phone Use Affects Connection and Sexual Attraction 27:52 Questions from Steven’s Friends 28:38 Is It Always a Good Idea to Admit to Infidelity? 31:01 Attraction with a Partner 33:20 Is Long-Term Faithfulness in a Relationship Possible? 36:51 Importance of Taking Accountability 39:06 How People Are Energizing Their Relationships 42:44 How to Revive Intimacy When Gone for So Long 44:37 Ads 45:40 Do People Enjoy Sex Less Than Before? 48:00 Do I Have to Work on Myself Before I Can Have a Good Relationship? 49:34 Has the Culture of Self-Love Gone Too Far? 51:04 Are Men Emasculated by the Success of Women? 58:53 What Is Social Confidence? 1:02:41 What Gives a Traumatic Experience Meaning? 1:13:54 Would You Delete Mobile Phones to Help Connection? 1:16:53 Can Social Connection Principles Apply to a Workplace? 1:21:51 How Are You Going to Adapt to a World of AI and Robots? Follow Esther: Facebook - https://bit.ly/3Tl5AOt LinkedIn - https://bit.ly/400GUyx YouTube - https://bit.ly/44d5sa6 Instagram - https://bit.ly/4l2Et6S Website - https://bit.ly/4kTR8ca Podcast - https://bit.ly/3HCfnNv You can purchase Esther’s new 100 question game, ‘Where Should We Begin? At Work’, here: https://bit.ly/4kF0F7h You can purchase Esther’s book ‘The State of Affairs’, here: https://amzn.to/4l0KaSv The Diary Of A CEO: Join DOAC circle here -https://doaccircle.com/ Get email updates: https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt Follow Steven: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Get your hands on the Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://bit.ly/conversationcards-youtube Research document: https://stevenbartlett.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/DOAC-Esther-Perel-Independent-Research-further-reading.pdf Sponsors: Stan Store - Visit https://link.stan.store/joinstanchallenge to join the challenge! Ekster - http://partner.ekster.com/DOAC with code STEVEN Linkedin Ads - https://www.linkedin.com/DIARY #EstherPerel #DatingCrisis #ModernLove #RelationshipAdvice